Night

We deserve better. Well she can’t help it. I’m a great guy capable of change. (Okay maybe a little self centered but hey I deserve some self-esteem boosting after what happened to me.”) Well she keeps on complaining about how her february 14 looks so bleak. While mine looks like a party that would never stop. But hey that doesnt mean Im flirting around with multiple girls. I’ve been dating this girl and I really like her because she was ready to take care of a wounded lion. Now that he’s back and stronger than ever he roars with pride. Now I’m back on the seat of power well there will be hell to pay. Now most of “our” “friends” react to my fb stats. They point me to her even if I don’t exactly look for her. Hey this is not hope for me. This looks like desperation for a date on valentines. But hey. I have better things to do rather than mope around. She thinks she is the only girl in the world who can endure me. (She’s one of the many but not the only one). She must be confused as hell now. And I’m happy of the results. I don’t want her back. But I don’t want her hurt. I’m a gentleman that way. I pray for her every night for God to give her wisdom and strength. (This is real).

On your case. He is suffering inside. I know so. Why? Guys suffer and make it look like they are havin’ the time of their life. Why? Suppressing feelings are things we are good at. It happened to me. It should be the same for everyone else.

Very much. She said things to me like this break up is a competition. Now she’s competing by herself. Makes it more fun for me. Lol. She says her brothers know about new bf. Well she cant even post a picture of him in her profile. Not a single shot. And as for me. Im currently engaged in multiple jobs and hobbies. It looks funny for me that she’s disoriented now when it’s near valentines day.

I’m doing well. She’s suffering. Posting on fb about no valentines date. How she wants to take painkillers for heart ache me thinks. Well I cared less when I knew. The ability to walk away and never look back seemed so powerful.

Exactly! Heres the thing. I plan out everything, it’s me who she falls in love with. Get the hang of it and you feel even better.

A simple “hey let’s go to church together” is fine dont over think the day. It’s feb 14. More than a week away. So try not to fret too much. A simple text will do. Why call? It will show neediness. Try to be calm. Flowers? Roses are good. But not red. Try other colors. Light peach or light pink. A single rose. Don’t spend too much. You are not together thus you are not obliged to give her stuff that she doesn’t own. Namely you. So don’t go too enthusiastic about valentines day. She’ll go on the defensive faster than a snap of a finger. Stay on your path bro you are doing awesome.

Well i think it is too soon. Don’t go on too over enthusiastic. Just remain cool. Why? That’s what you feel right now correct? Cool so just maintain it. Because it is your greatest weapon. Ending a day with a smile is the best way to impress her. It shows that you are still a fun person to be with. An interesting text is good but dont devote your time to her. She’s not a priority now because she is just a friend for now. And you dont want to go on being that guy who cahses again. Good for you bro. Keep that momentum up.

She can go taunt me for all I care. She can say her words will make me cry but won’t solicit a single drop. We broke up because she thought you can find “true” love within a week of the break up. Now interesting part is, i know she is miserable and is pretending to be doing great. She’s been a real pain in the neck for me and has been assuming I have been wasting my time for her. Nope definitely wrong. I became more independent when she left. Frankly I’m having more fun now. I became a domesticated man. Now? I have let loose my fangs again. Lol hahahahah but the good part is that she no longer has a grasp on my life. Not a single thing she can control. And I know for certain she’s watching.

My ex? Friend never been better. Got her pissed at me. It feels like her relationship now is breaking apart and she is only pretending she is happy because she is seeing me happy. Frankly I feel happy wihout her. And she disrespected me back then so I was very neutral to her as if she had the gall to ask for better from God but do something bad. Its like she’s finding an excuse lol 🙂 anyway. I’m glad you are doing awesome 🙂 hope it continues:)