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Hmmmmm i would go for false friendship. But say you have to think about it for a while. Just for nc to take a little more time. False friendship is key if you want your ex to notice “hey why did i break up with you?”. With the right words and action you can create the perfect situation.
That’s good. You seem like youre not confused anymore. Although it would be best just to wait it out and resolve everything for one last time.
Focus if you cant stop thinking about it sleep it off 🙂 trust me it works best at night.
Ugh the point of nc is this. For you to improve. Besides its the 10th day. Not even the half of the nc.
Just paranoid. Stay calm. He wants contact because he feels alone. You dont want him to adapt with you being in his life but not a person he loves. Now that is friends forever. Show him “you want me in your life then show me”.
That’s simple. When she’s wasting the improvements you’ve made in your life for her. If she’s the one that drives you to greatness then fight for a bit longer. Don’t let her waste everything you’ve created for yourself. Remember moving on is part of getting her back. You want a new relationship with her so present her a new person then if she forsakes the change leave with a smile on your face. There are infinite possibilities in the world. 7 billion men (not sure just a referrence) and only 1 didn’t value you. Try the other 6,999,999,999 who knows what will happen
No problem. Glad to help. Just keep up anything you are doing. At the end of the day it will be a big decision to keep fighting or moving on. Just keep fighting for now.
Well you could say that your okay but that would just be lying right. The best thing to do is avoid the topic. As it would invole you to say somethings later on.
But the point of it all is don’t just try to change. Change yourself. Improvement is always a good thing. He maybe saying stuff about you right now but if you become his obvious choice no matter how much rational thinking he uses a good choice is a good choice. If you can’t change. Fake it till you make it. Always worked for me.
Okay so about approaching him. As of now you are a the person he broke up with. After the nc your will reintroduce to him a different you. So that wouldn’t be too much of a problem. Now about what he is thinking. Don’t ask unnecessary questions to him as it would only disehearten you. As you have said he is trying to be rational. That is actually a good thing. If he sees you as a food thing in his life you will become an obvious choice.
Well you could reply don’t reveal too much. And count the minutes you talk. 15 mins. Max. Then end it quick. You are busy and you dont want him to be informed about your current life. Just create a mystery about your life and have fun for now. “I need to do my chores” or something. Think of it as if he wants to know whats hapening with you but doesnt want to have direct contact. Concern is a good sign. Keep up the nc and youll do great.
Okay reaction. He may be a little busy with his life now since you broke up. There are things he can do again. But here is the thing. It’s a good sign that he reacts at a very fast speed. But the thing is he doesn’t initiate the conversation. NC would be a good option. The other option is take it slowly. Dont make yourself over available for him. Build up emotions with simple text like these. “Hey i remember the time we watched that movie ________. It just reminded me of you. Anyway take care.” These kind of messages doesnt require so much attention from him but these bliss bombs are so powerful that even if they don’t reply they feel “she remembers that time? I remember that moment too”. Well good signs or bad signs it only depends on you and how you feel right now about your relationship with him.
Nc is just a means of him missing you. You left a big void in his life and your absense is a huge loss. Have faith friend. Don’t keep on repeating negativity as it may soon become your mindset.
