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At least you are getting out there and trying to live your life as best as you can. I’m not doing to well either today. I have an unsettling feeling in my stomach that’s making me anxious and full of thoughts
Well I’m showing to her “you are not the center of my world” she told me that over the phone. Fk that. She’s assuming too much. So she should just go with her bf and get pissed at him not me. Im not even doing anything. Last time friends asked me they said something about her i said. “Let her be she’s all grown up now. It’s her life” i just want her to flop in life at least. Love isn’t easy to find. If it only took a week to find love everybody would have done so.
Well that because ‘m mentally torturing her hahahaha. She thinks I have already moved on. (Which is true) and happy. She complains about her valentines day and how much it hurts on fb. Well 😉 im enjoying my life now and ive never been better hahahaha
I’m really glad your doing so much better!!! I too am enjoying my me time. Although, some days I get in an off mood and start wondering things. I think it’s because it’s been over a month and haven’t heard a word from him but it looks like he’s having the time of his life. For the most part though in doing pretty darn well! 🙂
I’m doing well. She’s suffering. Posting on fb about no valentines date. How she wants to take painkillers for heart ache me thinks. Well I cared less when I knew. The ability to walk away and never look back seemed so powerful.
I’m proud you’ve made such amazing progress! You can tell by your messages you seem happier!
Very much. She said things to me like this break up is a competition. Now she’s competing by herself. Makes it more fun for me. Lol. She says her brothers know about new bf. Well she cant even post a picture of him in her profile. Not a single shot. And as for me. Im currently engaged in multiple jobs and hobbies. It looks funny for me that she’s disoriented now when it’s near valentines day.
I find it strange that she broke up with you but yet makes post like that on fb. I think that’s worse if the guy or girl does that. As if it will make the person change the way they feel.
I’m doing very well actually. I’m looking forward for the future and what comes ahead of me. Like I said before I still have some time during the day when I think about things but not nearly as bad as before. It’s been over a month and no word which makes me feel like I never mattered and also based on what common friends show me on fb it looks like he’s having a grand time. Things like that throw me off. At first I had hope for us but now after all this time and after him not contacting me made me realize there is no other chance.
We deserve better. Well she can’t help it. I’m a great guy capable of change. (Okay maybe a little self centered but hey I deserve some self-esteem boosting after what happened to me.”) Well she keeps on complaining about how her february 14 looks so bleak. While mine looks like a party that would never stop. But hey that doesnt mean Im flirting around with multiple girls. I’ve been dating this girl and I really like her because she was ready to take care of a wounded lion. Now that he’s back and stronger than ever he roars with pride. Now I’m back on the seat of power well there will be hell to pay. Now most of “our” “friends” react to my fb stats. They point me to her even if I don’t exactly look for her. Hey this is not hope for me. This looks like desperation for a date on valentines. But hey. I have better things to do rather than mope around. She thinks she is the only girl in the world who can endure me. (She’s one of the many but not the only one). She must be confused as hell now. And I’m happy of the results. I don’t want her back. But I don’t want her hurt. I’m a gentleman that way. I pray for her every night for God to give her wisdom and strength. (This is real).
On your case. He is suffering inside. I know so. Why? Guys suffer and make it look like they are havin’ the time of their life. Why? Suppressing feelings are things we are good at. It happened to me. It should be the same for everyone else.
Stay strong peachy. I know you deserve a great guy. I can feel it. You are a nice person that way. You’ll find him im sure of it. 😉 Just remember. You are the only person responsible for your own happiness.
Thanks! It’s great to see the dramatic change for the good that you have made. You sound so alive and refreshed so full of hope. You should have some confidence there is nothing wrong with that. Its good to know you found someone who is willing to be there for you. It makes so happy to hear you happy! =)
@nightdeleon it seems like you do want her to suffer and hurt like you felt hurt. if you don’t want her back then stop talking to her or leading her on and let her know you moved on. there nothing wrong with confidence. she didn’t want to be with you and you were able to move on and be strong she can’t be mad at you. but just be mindful that you aren’t trying to punish her for leaving you by stringing her along. we have to be the bigger person. you can choose not to hurt others. they always say “hurt people, hurt people” it doesn’t always have to b like that
Lol if punishment is passive action then yes thanks bro. Hahahaha im not doing anything. Im not texting her. Im not looking at her. My fb post are about my life, happiness and victories. If i wanted her to suffer i would have just taunted her. Or stuff. I dont know i dont really want that. Very immature. :3 plus it gets old real quick. I did love her you know. If I want her punished then let God. I don’t want nothin to do with her life especially the bad parts. 🙂
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