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  • #58053
    Night
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    What im trying to say is dont lower your self esteem for another person’s fault. It takes courage to be a better person.

    #58054
    Peachy
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    I’m 30. I see what I’ve overcome in the past given the cards that life has dealt me. I know what I have to offer someone but even then it’s hard for me to see past that. Something that I’ve been working very hard to surpass especially this past few months.

    #58055
    Night
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    Im 22 but that doesnt stop me from having fun in my life. If our exes wants to do something stupid it is out of our hands. They will be disrespecting themselves. Restrain yourself for now.

    #58056
    Peachy
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    Your right! And you should have fun and experience things even if your doing it alone. As long as you get out there though

    #58057
    Night
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    Should be doing the same. As this doesnt only go for me but everyone.

    #58059
    Peachy
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    Yes that is true. I still haven’t grasped that concept for myself. Don’t know how long it’ll take for me to do so.

    #58060
    Night
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    “When moving on, move on with style” 🙂 well she got another guy she proved me she had no style, etiquette and decency so i guess that makes me the better ex. Why? I have partially moved on but i remain loyal to the dead relationship. I’ll give it a month. Grieving about it letting the pain soothe everything. Lol I care about what she’s doing to herself but I careless about the damage she’s causing to herself. In fact im kind of enjoying pushing her self destruct button. It’s like she isnt reactive to me but her seeing me is like a “im going to explode moment”. Of course these are coincidences and i just ignore her most of the time.

    #58061
    Peachy
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    That’s a good way to put it and there is no reason as to why you should move on so soon. Because in the long run that relationship will fail sine it’s a rebound.

    #58078
    Peachy
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    I’m still having a bad day after last night. Aside from feeling betrayed and lied to over and over. I feel unwanted, jealous, and confused. :'(

    #58080
    Night
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    I want to cach her when she falls. But when? When her heart breaks i want to mend the pieces no matter how much my hand bleeds from the pieces. I want her to know im not her just in the happy times but the sad times also. She’s not the perso i want to be my grilfriend but as my wife. It’s so unfair for her to think onesided things. She has friends that support her decision.

    #58082
    Night
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    We should feel betrayed but jealous and confused? We dont have the right. We have the right to feel hurt.

    #58083
    Peachy
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    She was very lucky to have you. I wish someone wanted to try that much with me. I love to much and give myself my all. I haven’t had someone love me more

    #58084
    Night
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    Well i courted her. I sang for her in front of people. I went to give her flowers and chocolates. Well.

    #58085
    Peachy
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    Aww that’s sweet. I always find it odd that some girls find that weird when they are treated that way. Almost in shock bc I’ve met several girls who have said that.

    #58086
    Night
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    Well. I had the guts to sing in front of people. I have anxiety problems but i did that. Why the hell would she do that. She was lucky now she’s with a guy who might destroy her again. I wish she gave me a last chance.

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