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January 17, 2016 at 12:31 am #58053
What im trying to say is dont lower your self esteem for another person’s fault. It takes courage to be a better person.
January 17, 2016 at 12:35 am #58054I’m 30. I see what I’ve overcome in the past given the cards that life has dealt me. I know what I have to offer someone but even then it’s hard for me to see past that. Something that I’ve been working very hard to surpass especially this past few months.
January 17, 2016 at 1:40 am #58055Im 22 but that doesnt stop me from having fun in my life. If our exes wants to do something stupid it is out of our hands. They will be disrespecting themselves. Restrain yourself for now.
January 17, 2016 at 1:44 am #58056Your right! And you should have fun and experience things even if your doing it alone. As long as you get out there though
January 17, 2016 at 1:59 am #58057Should be doing the same. As this doesnt only go for me but everyone.
January 17, 2016 at 3:20 am #58059Yes that is true. I still haven’t grasped that concept for myself. Don’t know how long it’ll take for me to do so.
January 17, 2016 at 3:59 am #58060“When moving on, move on with style” 🙂 well she got another guy she proved me she had no style, etiquette and decency so i guess that makes me the better ex. Why? I have partially moved on but i remain loyal to the dead relationship. I’ll give it a month. Grieving about it letting the pain soothe everything. Lol I care about what she’s doing to herself but I careless about the damage she’s causing to herself. In fact im kind of enjoying pushing her self destruct button. It’s like she isnt reactive to me but her seeing me is like a “im going to explode moment”. Of course these are coincidences and i just ignore her most of the time.
January 17, 2016 at 4:04 am #58061That’s a good way to put it and there is no reason as to why you should move on so soon. Because in the long run that relationship will fail sine it’s a rebound.
January 17, 2016 at 6:32 pm #58078I’m still having a bad day after last night. Aside from feeling betrayed and lied to over and over. I feel unwanted, jealous, and confused. :'(
January 17, 2016 at 7:24 pm #58080I want to cach her when she falls. But when? When her heart breaks i want to mend the pieces no matter how much my hand bleeds from the pieces. I want her to know im not her just in the happy times but the sad times also. She’s not the perso i want to be my grilfriend but as my wife. It’s so unfair for her to think onesided things. She has friends that support her decision.
January 17, 2016 at 7:27 pm #58082We should feel betrayed but jealous and confused? We dont have the right. We have the right to feel hurt.
January 17, 2016 at 7:32 pm #58083She was very lucky to have you. I wish someone wanted to try that much with me. I love to much and give myself my all. I haven’t had someone love me more
January 17, 2016 at 8:11 pm #58084Well i courted her. I sang for her in front of people. I went to give her flowers and chocolates. Well.
January 17, 2016 at 8:28 pm #58085Aww that’s sweet. I always find it odd that some girls find that weird when they are treated that way. Almost in shock bc I’ve met several girls who have said that.
January 17, 2016 at 8:42 pm #58086Well. I had the guts to sing in front of people. I have anxiety problems but i did that. Why the hell would she do that. She was lucky now she’s with a guy who might destroy her again. I wish she gave me a last chance.
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