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Awesome!! It would be great if you looked into whats been going on with me recently and let me know what you think!! I always like getting a womans perspective!
Hey A.Z,
I havent seen a response from you in a while and just wanted to make sure that you are okay and you didnt take as my request to have multiple people respond on my thread in a bad way. I didnt mean anything against you its just nice to get alot of input… you really helped me out in the beginning and i would like to hear from you again. I hope all is well with you!!
Mike
Joe,
Nice work man keep it up and keep going with the NC!! good job!! Would you guys mind checking out my post from earlier this morning… the way she responded last has me so nervous and worried but i also think she may just be upset she didnt get what she wanted?!
Dont drive by there man dont do it!!! She is probably doing some busy stuff in the morning or maybe she is parking in her garage? Either way try to keep working… i check this site like every hour for help but get stuff done in the mean time.
Joe,
It sounds like both our women are kind of stubborn which is what makes the thought of NC so hard because we really don’t know how they will react to us not contacting them for over a month. I don’t know that she will even contact me at all because of her stubbornness and strong attitude. And then its like… do we contact them after 40 days or so? How will that look on us? will they even like that? what in the hell is the right thing to do? You want to do the right thing to make sure it all works out in the end but we don’t know what that is for sure.
Guilia,
I feel like your situation is a lot like mine!!! Read my thread if you would! I plan on commenting on your thread later tonight!
Also… Can no contact backfire on you? Like could she start just thinking that I am ignoring her cuz I want nothing to do with her and completely lose her feelings for me and move on… Feelings that I know she still has.
Also when we broke up she told me she wanted time for school, time to heal from the arguments we have had and time to find herself and be happy with herself… And I know getting closer to being done with school is about a year. I really don’t think she would even attempt a relationship again until later on… Should I even be attempting no contact at this point. I just really don’t believe she will even try dating after 45 days etc. Also, the night we broke up we hugged for a while, kissed a few times, she told me she would miss me as I said to her and I told her I loved her so much and she said it back a couple times as well…. I would love some input here guys I just don’t know how to proceed. I want to start strong but am fearful staying to strong like this could also have a negative affect on my overall goal which I think we all know what that is. I don’t want to just ignore her like this she is smart and I think she will know that I am blatantly doing this on purpose just to “prove a point”
I know that’s what I am supposed to do and I didn’t say anything back to her last night. I have so many mixed emotions about not saying anything it’s almost making me wish I had said at least why so I wouldn’t be worrying about it. I mean I know NC is absolutely no contact but there must be different circumstances right? I am an emotional and sensitive guy, not hard and less caring like others. I did find out through a friend that she was in fact out drinking last night. I can’t help but to think that I should have at least said “why.” And then she would have said something and I woulda responded with something that makes her realize she can’t just text me like that and be done with the conversation. She texted me what she said in my a over post at 12 so there was still 2 hours out at the bars. I woke up with knots in my stomach etc. Telling me I should have said something. I just wanted her to have me on her mind so she wouldn’t go and do something rash if you guys know what I mean. If she did something like that 3 days after the break up I just don’t know if I could forgive her even with us being broken up just cause it’s so soon. That thought would never even cross my mind for me to do that yet. I would really appreciate some more advise… My stomach kills and I should be sleeping more than 6 hours…
