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she said she would contact you when she is ready. i would do NC for 30 days. if nothing from her just send a short text with something funny or sweet that you saw or did that reminded you of them..then ask how she has been?
it might get things started again..goodluck1
You definitely need to give her lots of space right now. she needs to forget the pain and the anger. after 30 days, you could always contact her to see how she is going. make it simple no more words. she knows how you feel and everything you have said. you have made it very clear how much you love her.
RE the emails. you should NOT go back in again. it is a huge invasion of trust and if she ever knew i doubt your chances of getting back together would be great.
Just TRUST in the plan. keep going. I’m in day 18. its tough. highs and lows. but you have to TRUST that it will be okay in the end. 5 years is a long time.
suppose you need to think about whether you want to be with a man who is a lier.
You deserve more than that!Hi Divjun,
I think the major issue here is trust. It sounds like it is what causes most of your fights. You need to trust him enough that even though he talks to other girls that he loves you and he wouldn’t do anything beyond have a friendship with him.
If he sees/hears that you trust him he will appreciate your confidence and trust in him and he will respect you for it too. It will also show him that you are being mature and grown up about it.
I know its hard. insecurities are what bring up fights with my guy too.
Maybe leave it for a while. then ask to meet him and say the above. Or if he calls answer and say those things.
You need to learn to trust though. otherwise you will never get past these issues.
goodluck 🙂
