Boards Reconciliation My ex is showing me no interest lately

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    Troy Greene
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    So me and my ex broke up about 2 months again and i started no contact a little over a month ago. We were together for about 2 and a half years and we had an amazing relationship and even said we wanted to get married to eachother. She mmentioned it a couple days after the break up too.!! Saying she still sees me as her future and stuff. Anyways she started daiting this guy 10 days after we broke up and i really believe he is a rebound. He is not her type at all and they have little to none of the same interest. I guess this guy is slightly attractive but i think he would be more put in the “cute” category. He is slightly over weight and has a baby face and just isnt her type. Like style wise and stuff. Im a but more confident in my self since i lost weight and started working out but even before hand i was still the better option for her in all areas. We love almost all of the same stuff and even got eachother into other things like music tv shows movies books etc. Ive always been a pretty good looking guy and i always get compliments on my blue eyes. I sound so cocky and i hate it im a really modest person usually and i honestly used to be insecure (im not since the break up) anyways now that you have some back story i need some help. She blocked me on everything to make sure “i wouldnt get hurt by seeing her new relationship” because it did hurt me at first and i told her so we already stopped talking so much then i started NC but i contacted her with important info once about maybe having to move back to cali. She responded with a call telling me to let her know when im gunna leave forqure so she could say bye. I ended up not having to leave and told her but she didnt respond after. I sent her a text of the letter i wanted to send a little over a week ago (long story please read my other topic if you would like to know) she replied with “its okay. Cant talk now. Ill call when im ready” i didnt respond because i had already said good bye in my message and didnt want to seem desperate. But its been over a week and she still hasnt called and she is still with this guy. She doesnt seem to like him as much as time has passed cus she doesnt post about him as much but they have almost been together for 2 months now and im getting worried. . Will she call.? Or should i contact her again in a couple weeks or so.? I dont want to wait forever but i do want her back. Please help idk what to do.

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    otherone
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    i think you have to wait it out. things will die down with the new guy, honestly its difficult to say where to contact her or not… it would be better if she reached out first, you know what i mean? its up to you, its a big gamble though. dangerous games of chess were all playing here. have to be patient. unless you absolutely have to, but if shes happy, and you send her a needed message, she isnt going to want to get back together…. i want to send my ex another message. (i broke no contact) reminding her of the good stuff and how much we cared about each other. nothing negative. a bit sad because of the good times but ultimately saying goodbye. i figure if i remind her of the good times and then tell her im going, ill pull at her heart strings more. makes sense yeah?

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    Megan
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    she said she would contact you when she is ready. i would do NC for 30 days. if nothing from her just send a short text with something funny or sweet that you saw or did that reminded you of them..then ask how she has been?

    it might get things started again..goodluck1

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