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Long story short, my ex joined a well-known dating site. He said he’s looking for life partner. Wow wow wow. He’s looking for someone whos into serious relationship. He voted for many pictures of many girls. What’s going on? I asked myself for few minutes before closed my screen. Is he really over me? I am now typing while no crying. I feel kinda numb. Idk if it’s good or not. I hope it is. Seems like my ex fiancé is really fine without me. Already. After only 5 weeks.
Btw rihanna, it would be cool if we could talk through personal email sometimes? Haha. Or maybe even become FB friends. Because who knows oneday I’ll leave this site.. x
I live in Jakarta, Indonesia 🙂 Don’t be sad, your right one is on the way to you. In the right time he will arrive!
Spend more time with family and friends. We will feel more thankful then. They love us. They accept how we are.
I was walking down the street from university today. I was looking up to sky and realized I’m still alive through the pain and imagination of him. I said to myself at least I tried hard. But once it’s not meant to be then it’ll never be. I hope I can stick to this thought so I won’t breakdown again on some random sleepless nights. Million reasons why I should gave him up since long time ago. Now I finally did. I believe no things are just a coincidence. Everything has reason.
Happy holidays to you too darling! xx
Hey Rihanna. Sounds great. Idk yet what to do to celebrate new years eve. Either with fam or friends. But no matter what I know myself I’ll still feel something lost although surrounded by great people around me.
Where are you living now? I was thinking to find summer course too next year and more focus with my study. Because he was never support me to study. He always thought I waste my time. Crazy.
Yes, couldn’t agree more with Daniel. The right man will come in the right time. Chin up, Rihanna! xx
Nah I dont think he hates me.. Because he said he doesnt hate me and he said he deserves to treated like that. He said he deserves that I hate him. He said he’s not angry at all because he has no reasons. Why I should apologize if he was the one doin mistakes?
Rihanna!! Thank you. I’m smiling to read your answer. Such a warm feeling to know I’m not alone 🙂
I am stick to my reasons why I left him in the first place. He might show off he moved on, happy and whatsoever. But I am sure he’s now regretting that He even cant be friends with me.
I am not ready yet to have a date with someone else even some guys already asked me out haha. Is that normal? How’s your love life now, Rihanna?
I think in the end of the year I will lift up my glass and drink all of the sorrowness and bad dramas and be thankful that all the nightmares have ended. Be ready for new chapters of 2015!!
I will pray for everyone too here. It would be good if we could stay in touch xxx
The reason why he contactedme because we had long time and intensive connection. Our time was not easy. So he wanted to know if i am doing fine. He asked to meet on skype (since we live far away) I said no I cant.
He said it’s pity that I think my part in his life is done. He said he hopes soon I can see him like a normal person around me. Not a monster nor bad person who wants to hurt me or fight with me. He was cold. He was in distant. He was completely different. Not needy and clingy anymore. I was the dumper yes. Do you think he tried to be cool?
Now I reached the 30 days of NC and out of sudden last night he contacted me again. Asked how am I doin and so on. He said he’s fine now with himself and come along if we could have a bit contact. I was like wtf. I said after ups and downs for a month, I cant be friends with him. Never will be. Because I think he’s just not worth my time, tears and so on. I do still have feelings because our time wasnt easy but well no no. I feel regret to reply his email. But I took that as a closure to myself. He said it’s pity that I cant be friends and he said I’m unmature. Who cares?! He said I am still special for him and no matter if he would already be with new gf or even have a wife, i am always welcome to contact him. He’s crazy.
Good luck to everyone. Even sometimes I still went to bed with tears.. At the end I’ll be fine.
Hey @Maria thank you. I think if he really loved me, he would never act like that and make me suffer for those damn two years. He was not an ex bf. He was an ex fiancé. For God’s sake. He suddenly showed off how fine he is right now and said he comes a long to have a contact with me. I can’t be friends with someone whom I’m still in love with. So 30 days of NC for him seems like making him move on. Or he might play a game. I dont know. I really want to forget him.
Any thoughts?
I somehow agree with Joe. Haizz now I feel much better. 3 weeks passed. I even sometimes really enjoyed my daily routines and distracted. I realized more what I decided (left him) was the right thing. I might be just stick with the memories. It doesn’t mean I need him back in my life. I try to forgive and accept the reality. All because of NO CONTACT indeed hehe. It helps!!
I hope everyone is doing fine. I’m new in here but i wanna thank joe, val, larebound who gave me support/reply my stories. Lol. Xx
