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HELLO OLDIES!
I am back!!! Wahooo. Haha. Ive been reading all your stories here but now finally I got time to write mine. I am feeling happy and thankful recently. Because I just realized that I am in love. Again! Hahah. Do you guys remember the guitarist, my bestfriend since 8 years. He ever asked me to be his gf, and now we got more closer and closer. I can see clearly that he always be there, makes me happy and etc. I can really say that how my ex treated me was nothing if compared with this guy. At first I thought I was just care like bestfriends, but by time bcs we met many times for work together and spent more time; now I look at him like a woman whos in love with a man.. He’s cheerful guy, patient, mature and he knows how to makes me happy. Isn’t it crazy?
Raed, good luck! Remember love > age 🙂 please keep us updated.
How are you Robot 3, hows girls? Hahaha. I somehow agree with Rihanna, looking forward reading another drama 🙂
Helllooo Rihanna, my sister. Cant wait to hear more about your goals!!
And Steve, I can believe that you still feel that kiss!! Hahaha. Dont you wanna give it a try with her? A date.
I love you all!! How time flies!!
I have some stories to tell. But I wont talk about that now. Me and my 8 years bestfriend are still fine although I said no to him to be his gf. We are cool and still hang out even work together. I am lucky to have him as my bestfriend.
What Imma tell here now, I just realized that I still love my ex. I know who is he, what kind of guy he is etc. I know. I just still love him. After nearly 5 months. Fck.
Hi Robot, Steve, and Everyone!
My new semester has started. Luckily I only have classes from mon-wed so now I am enjoying my days off.
I wanna update some things. I will have my birthday on march 21, which means this saturday. So thank you Robot. Hugs! On my birthday night I gotta work (sing) oh well :/ I dont have any plans yet with my friends. But I am sure I will make party for them.
My bestfriend plus my guitarist, we have known for each other about 8 years, out of sudden asked me to be his gf. I was like WTF?! He asked me on last friday. I was shocked. After 3 days I was thinking out loud and decided to say NO to him. He’s super kind, sweet etc. But I am not fall in love with him. We’re friends. He accepted my answer. Somehow I remember my ex in between those moments. Like, crazy, everyone around me are caring and loving. Why didnt you show me? Darn.
I hope all of you have a good day. I miss everyone including Daniel, Rihanna, Val, etc.
I would like to hear more about your new date, Robot.
And Steve, hang on dear. I believe when you will have a new girl again then that means she will be super lucky to have you!
So here I am again. Gonna talk about what I feel or mostly about my ex. Knowing that I won’t talk about these topics with my bestfriends or even my family. Because I just can’t.
I am still having one week left till my new semester starts. I kinda don’t like my new dosens. Some of them are uncool. I’m in between “excited to meet my uni mates” yet “unmotivated to face some subjects” 🙁 My GPA last semester was 3,86. Which means almost perfect. I will go to uni on monday-wednesday thrn gotta work on friday. But how about my love life? Not even near to perfectness. I am going to be 24 years old in 12 days. I am surrounded with my bestfriends and family yet I feel empty somehow on some nights. I still remember my ex. I still feel that kind of thing which your heart hates it. It’s no longer pain, it’s just I dont know I can’t explain. I don’t want him back, just to ruin me again and that I let myself fucked up again. I just miss the idea to have someone or to feel loved. To feel wanted. Pathetic? You name it.
Oh well, I need tissue. Someone is cutting onions here, just make my eyes blurred.
Holla again Robot, Steve and Val!
I couldn’t agree more with you guys. I did many things for the past 4 months. I found back my passion. I was off for two years from music, bcs my ex never supported me. Now I even have a job since january to sing here and there. I met many new people and talked even with the guests everytime I did perform. I had compliments. My score for exams were popped out and I feel satisfied! If only he seen everything what I reached. Just like what Steve said.
I somehow start to think more about my ex when my date went wrong. I thought he could help me to distract more from my ex. But all just crap. I didnt compare them. But one night I was crying so hard when I heard one song. It reminded me of us. Of my ex. I was shaking my head like “Why I have to remember you again and feel lonely.”
But when I woke up in the next day, I was ok again and continued my daily routines. I think he’s still single. And I always remember his offer to contact him again whenever I’m ready. Actually he knows that I will never do that.
Seems like I have to accept that my uni and career are fine but my love life is just pathetic at this moment. Some guys tried to get closer to me but I didnt like them.
Well I hope all of you will feel much better soon. Knowing you guys have been separated since may. I should admit, may-june last year was one of the hardest memories. I spent 5 weeks in Europe with him. Engaged. Etc. And now? NOTHING left…..
Think of you, brothers. xx
Hey Robot 3, Steve, Val, Daniel, and everyone!
Firstly I wanna say happy belated birthday for Val and Robot. Send you both big hugs. I feel happy that I’m able to get back here.
I am junior. Haha. Been nearly 4 months since I broke up with my ex. Completely no contact and no social medias in between of us. I still do think about him once in a while. Even still cried a bit one night right after nightmare.
I actually two weeks ago had date with one guy from tinder. Gosh. You guys joined there? Haha. Well we met for a coffee. We talked over two hours and everything went great. I meant before decided to meet up, we already did chat and talked on line for a whole week. He’s cute, funny and fun to be around with. The only problem is he just broke up with his ex gf too. They have been together for 8,5 years. Wtf!! I am not really sure because I am afraid he’s just gonna make me his rebound.
After met, he still contacted me and we were getting closer for another week. But then now we even dont talk anymore. It feels cheesy. I found out that seems like he’s getting closer again with his ex. After that, I felt a bit sad and then started to remember my damn ex again.
Oh well. I hope we will meet the right one soon.
I am thinkin about all of you guys. Especially Rihanna, I miss you!! x
Hello my dear brothers and sisters, lol.
I am back again. Finally I have time to update something in here. Been busy with uni, now I dont have classes till middle of march because final exams have passed. I got a new job with my music. I was performing in many places for the past 3 weeks. Met many new people. Reunited with old friends. I think now I am in a good place. But it doesnt mean I completely forget about my ex. He still popped out once in a while.. But who cares. I dont force myself to forget him anymore. Because he just popped out seldomly. Let it be.
I miss you all! xx
Well, tomorrow I will go to airport to pick my aunt up from New York.
It’s always hard to go to airport since I broke up with my ex. I usually would pick him up everytime he visited me.
After 9 weeks I thought I would feel much better. But knowing tomorrow I should go to airport makes me feeling blue. It reminds me of him, which is annoying. He never reached me out again since dec 14th (exactly after 30 days of NC) He appreciates what I asked. Not to contact me ever again and I cant be in false friendship after two years of toxic relationship. I dont know what is he up to, where or how or anything about him anymore. I blocked him on facebook, whatsapp, skype since month ago.I actually was feeling completely fine these past weeks. But this airport thing hits me. Dammit. Ive been busy with uni, fam and friends, also hobbies etc. Expand social circles. Etc. I have no problem. But idk why today seems so blue. Thats why I ended up here again typing this thread. Oh well..
Miss you guys xoxo
Hang on sweetie! I know you feel horrible about that. NC is hard especially in first few weeks.. But youll get used, believe me. During this time, yes try to go out – have fun, see new things, improve ourselves to be much netter, fix your drinking habit 🙂 try to find new hobbies, expand social circles. Just try to distract yourself as much as you could. And oneday everything will just feel naturally then. You can decide later after 30-60 days of NC whether you want your ex back or not. At least try to focus on yourself. How to be happy. With or without him. It might sound nonsense now. But it will get better. I am now facing 9 weeks after broke up, I am the dumper. I decided to move on. I just want to tell you, that NC has worked although we’re not together anymore. Good luck!
I agree with aaron4 🙂 my ex contacted me after 30 days of NC. You can also read my stories if you want.
Hey everyone!! I’ve been busy lately with uni, reunited with old friends, ive been back again to my music hobby (my ex never really supported me!) thats why I never typed something here again. But I miss you guys sooo here I am. Haha. 9 weeks passed after broke up. I still dreamt about him few days ago. Dammit. But there were so many days I felt alright. Sometimes even didnt think about him at all. There were days that I didnt even need to distract my mind so hard because it happened naturally.
How was Sydney, Rihanna? I agree with Robot, Sydney is one of the expensive cities!! Haha. But it is beautiful one. I am happy that you and your ex smart enough to not let physical things ruin everything again. Id like to hear more dear.
Steve and Robot, there will be time when you dont even need to compare your ex again with new ones. Bcs that special one will catch your heart with her own way. Just open your heart.
I hope everyone is doing great!! xx
Happy new year dear LAbound! I am glad that you’re staying around here and help many people.
Here’s to another 365 days! *lift our glasses*
Group hug!!
Page 1 of 365 😉
I’m looking forward reading your stories guys. How’s the party etc lol.
HAPPY NEW YEAR EVERYONE!
Thank you for being my eyes these past weeks and giving me lotsa support and advices etc etc. I owe you guys much! People come and go. But it doesn’t matter because the right ones will stick around 🙂
Many things have taught me this year. May the new year brings another love, journeys, happiness and healthiness. Unfortunately, pain or sadness sometimes are including too. But it’s fine. Fall seven times, stand up eight! Lift your glasses guys. Lift it up and drink all the damn past about our exes.
Love you all!! Have an awesome day xx
