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I smiled here. So wise! You’re true. I am catholic anyway. And yes it helps a lot to become ‘anonymous’ when we confess something and be honest about what we feel 🙂 ah thank you robot 3, you’re just like a big brother.
I was just thinking I had enough sadness for the past year with my ex. So it’s time to fix myself again. To go out. To meet new people. So I can feel loved again. Knowing many other people do care about me. Because I was feeling bad about myself for long time because of him. Even I confess to the whole world that I love him then so what? It didn’t help. It didn’t work. So I should love myself more now…
Yes I can imagine. Sorry about that. But I believe it’s just a matter of time. We won’t ended up alone eventually. Id like to see everyone here (including myself) happy. I really do.
With love. xx
Hey everyone, been busy day today. Went to uni and now I just got back from dinner with my bestfriend since we were 9 years old. He just came back to hometown because he is basically working in Malaysia. We talked a lot about what happened between me and him these past 6 months. Uni, work, family, our friends and even our love life. He is currently in a relationship. Well it’s contrast between us at the moment. Because I’m failed while everything in his life seems getting awesome. Makes me a lil bit sad and happy at the same time. I love him to the core as my bestfriend. I wish I could have someone like him!
Robot 3,
Thats kind of you. Thank you man! I hope things work well for you too in 2015. Don’t force yourself too much, I believe one of girls will notice you soon and stick around..all you have to do just be ready with your heart and i hope you wont into games. Btw does daraviktor at yahoo dot com still active? Haha. I was scrolling down the thread and reread some of old convo between you guys and finally found that thing. Seems like you guys already exchanged social medias etc lol.Have a good day peeps xx
Lol LAbound!
Everyone, here’s LAbound. Another great guy who decided to move on after few months broke up and if you guys have time just check his stories out. He has a big heart!
Hey Val, thanks a lot. Happy to hear from you again. Yeah man singaopore isn’t too far away. Haha!
Knowing everyone in here mostly already had 7 mos since broke up, haizzz I still have long way to go. 7 weeks. Completely junior here haha. I hope I will be completely fine anytime soon. Like 100% fine.
Can’t believe it’s last sunday of the year. I was out to city today and had dinner with friends. Was seeing around and already could tell “Ah he’s cute” sooo I think I’m on the right track lol. At least!
Monday again tomorrow zzzz. Back again to university. I wish you guys have a great week ahead! xx
Rihanna
It’s okay dear. The grass is always greener on the other side 🙂 we tend to think like that. They might be having partner but we don’t know what they have been through. It’s better to be off alone instead stuck with the guy who can’t make us happy. Try to join let’s say a new community. Go out to gym or class of yoga perhaps? Haha. Or maybe you should try some of dating sites? Haiz I’m not good enough seems like to give advices. Pardon me my big sis. You’ll be fine.
I knew I wasn’t ready for this new guy who asked me out for coffee. It’s just not fair for him either. Because I still try to fix things in me 🙂 what makes me hard only I was in europe for 5 weeks with my ex. Yes we had beautiful summer holiday together. I met his big fam in germany. He met my grandparents in holland (my grandparents live there) and luckily he didn’t ask to marry me when we were in Paris. (he did that in holland) Because otherwise he would ruin that beautiful city for those damn memories. Now things changed. Completely changed. I accepted. With all of my big heart. I accepted. I dont know when I will fall in love again, but I believe once I’m ready I will be better. Much much better. I believe you all will do the same.
Steve,
Hey merry xmas! I am sorry that you feel low etc. But yes thats what I’m concern either. Idk how would I feel when oneday I found out my ex fall in love or in a relationship again. Thats why I cut everything about him in my life. It feels so good. Although once in a while I still think about him. I am the dumper, but lool at me. I still do think abt him even I know he was truly an asshole. Everything has reasons. Oneday we will be saying to ourselves “thats why it never worked out with anyone else” when we found someone right. Stay strong. Be better version of yourself and don’t compare.
I know I’m still 23. Lack of experiences. But what I know when it comes about loving someone and care about someone, I never take that for granted.
I think about all of you guys. I am nervous and excited about new year. I might lose my ex but look what I’ve got here. New family 🙂 love xx
Dear Robot 3,
I broke up with him around about 7 weeks ago. I left him because dysfunctional relationship. He was a completely selfish guy, tend to insult me or made me feel bad, he was annoying. Yes the intimacy part was awful. He was completely stingy person. Buuuutttt the worse thing was we engaged already. Love made me blind.. even soooooo freakin hard to think what is the positive thing about him? Tick tock tick tock. I must be crazy!! Many guys tried to reach me but I was only focusing with this guy who doesn’t deserve me.
Thank you!!! Now I feel recharged again. You should try to think positive too and yes change yourself to better way without too much alcohols 😉
Rihanna baby,
Thank you big sis xx Any updates from mall today? Hahaha. I would love to accompany you. Many sales btw. Because end of the year. Up to 50% everywhere here. Wahooo. Haha. Remember fall seven times, stand up eight!! Stay strong and stay beautiful 🙂 xxx
Oh and pls stay away from all of her social medias. Thats what I’m doing too. NC day 14 (bcs after day 30, he contacted me so I should restart again) I have a plan to do NC permanently. I feel great not knowing what happens between him and his life and etc. It saves me from heartache 🙂
“Now I reached the 30 days of NC and out of sudden last night he contacted me again. Asked how am I doin and so on. He said he’s fine now with himself and come along if we could have a bit contact. I was like wtf. I said after ups and downs for a month, I cant be friends with him. Never will be. Because I think he’s just not worth my time, tears and so on. I do still have feelings because our time wasnt easy but well no no. I feel regret to reply his email. But I took that as a closure to myself. He said it’s pity that I cant be friends and he said I’m immature. Who cares?! He said I am still special for him and no matter if he would already be with new gf or even have a wife, i am always welcome to contact him. He’s crazy.”
That was my post on dec 14th. He asked for friendship. And he was completely showed off that he’s totally fine etc. I decided no. I will never be friends with him. He’s such a toxic person 🙁 He even joined dating site and looking life partner. Everything just messed up.
My christmas was hard too. But I was surrounded by family and good friends..many things to be thankful too actually. I was out once with new guy. Was grabbing coffee. He’s funny and looks ok. But thats it. We talked around about an hour only. I cant imagine more than that for now. Recently I got news that I passed my german’s final exam. I’ve got the highest score for my macro econs exam in class. I am proud of myself. Those are maybe small things but great huh? I am recently reading lotsa articles on internet about psychology things. What about you dear?
Skip all the mellow yellow songs ok. Try to spend much time with fam and friends! Usually some old friends even will pop out again in our life 🙂 btw where are you living? I forgot.
I know you’re strong LAbound.Take care xxx
Another sleepless night. Fudge!! I hate when out of sudden think of him again. Too many memories to deal with. Supposed to be great year actually. My chest hurts.
I feel sometimes ok, sometimes even great, sometimes sad.. Well been 7 weeks since broke up. I just need more time maybe..i dont know if i told u already about he contacted me after 30 days of NC? How was your christmas anyway? What are you up to these days. Stay strong. Let’s enter the new year with new hope xxx
LAbound, hey how are you? I read your final letter. I am proud of you. You’ll be fine!! I’ve been thinking of you anyway..
Haha yes it’s Rihanna..my dear friend 😉 she’s lovely girl. Its funny that I met you two in here.
I thimk LAbound should join us in ‘oldies’ thread. Right, Rihanna?
Happy weekend xx
Thanks a lot dear Rihanna!! Sending you big hugs 🙂
I know he’s such a monster. In first few days after broke up I was even thinking even if I would die oneday, he might be even not care and wouldn’t go to my funeral..
Talk with you guys helps me alot to deal with everything about my ex.
Happy weekend everyone xx
Errrr well. I never opened up to anyone about this. Even to my real friends. Never. I’m embarrased. But because Robot 3 commented something abt it, reminds me of this thing. To be honest. One of the reasons why I think my ex was completely selfish; he was always c** so fast. He only cuddled me whenever he wanted to. He never really spoiled me till I finished. I once ended up crying on bed because I feel bad. He was really bad. I think he has prob with it. Because he just always c** way too fast. He often said sorry. He said I’m beautiful and hot but seems like he has something wrong because he couldn’t control it.
Robot 3,
Rihanna’s comment = absolutely right <3Rihanna,
I miss you!! I hope your trip to Sydney will be great. When are you leaving? I hope oneday could visit you in oz and you should put indonesia in your lists. Haha. xxI am layin on bed now. 4 am here. I just remember him. How he hugged me for the last time in airport 3 months ago. Never thought it would be a final goodbye.
I better sleep now. I am sad.
Robot 3,
Thank you for sharing the article. I was reading while thinking somehow it’s true. To be honest, in the first few moments after ended the relationship; I asked myself. How the hell he could be just fine? I was overthinking. I was assuming. And it was hurt. A lot. Because I thought he was fine and still happy and nothing changed even if all dreams = gone. Until he said to me “Believe me, it’s not easy for me too.”
I dont know what future brings. You passed 7 months and still think about her. As for myself going to be only 7 weeks. Ofc I do still think about him once in a while. But I decided already to cut him off in my life. I dont know what would I feel if he would start to date another girl or even get married with another. I think I’m not ready yet to face that. But I have to.
As for myself, I dont believe in coincidence. Everything has reasons indeed. Whether I like it or not. But everything has reasons.
It might be awkward, but I send you a big hug robot 3. Thank you. We all will be fine. Eventually.
