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Somehow it made me smile about what robot 3 and raed said. Haha. I am so close with my mom too anyways! Oh well..
Dear rihanna, you’ll make it. Just remind yourself you’re fine without him. He was just occasionaly texting you so please don’t let him ruin you emotionally again.
It’s my pleasure Rihanna 🙂
I think you better delete his number and try to meet other people as a fresh start for 2015. You dont need to hate him. Just try to focus on yourself that right guy will love you the way how you deserve to be loved. We tend to think there will be always a girl who might be more beautiful than us outside, or younger etc etc. But who cares? Everyone is unique in their own way. Physical things won’t last. Because sooner or later chemistry is all what we need. How we understand each other. How we fulfill the emptiness of each other. How we respect and how we treat each other. How we take and give and so on. Love shouldn’t hurt. Love shouldn’t be complicated. People do.
Stay strong girl! xxx
Couldn’t agree more with Rihanna. I love the way how Raed gave advices. Haha!!
RAED
Thank you for your input! Ahhh I feel better today. No more feeling blue and so on. Hehe. I was out with family and friends too these days. After 6 weeks broke up, I realize more and more why it didn’t work out with my ex. I shouldn’t be sad actually. My head knows I should be thankful that I’m not ended up with such a creepy guy like him. But sometimes my heart wants what it wants. I sometime still have an idea or expectation that he will change although I know it’s impossible – or completely hard. But well, it’s his loss. I tried my effin best for him. 🙂
RIHANNA
Darling, sorry about what youve been through. Thats how it works usually. When we think we moved on then suddenly those people will just pop out again in our life. You shouldnt reply him actually. Because thats what I did too to my ex and after that I feel sad again for a week or so. Damn it. Hang on girl. You’ll meet the right one when you’re ready. I know how it feels when we’re attached to someone and actually I’m such a girl whos not easily move on. But reality slaps my face. I should wake up. I deserve someone better and so do you. Ignore him. Don’t let him ruin you again xxx
Robot 3,
I agree with you about the music and stuff. Well I am starting accept everthin what had happened with my ex. I stop to analyze more and more whats going on. I hope its a good way for my peace. Hehe. I was wondering is it true that men moved on way faster than women. Because men tend to think logically while women are sensitive etc. I don’t know. I just hope you can live better and not so attached with drinking and stuff. Just a little advice because I care about you guys.I’m glad I posted something on oldies few days ago because then everyone in here reunited again hehehe.
10.17 am here. I woke up with a little bit pain in my heart. Realizing I am alone. I mean there’s no guy who loves me the way I deserve to be loved. Such a hard christmas..but luckily I went to church last night and had christmas eve dinner with fam..i would die if i didnt have them around lol!
I didn’t greet him a merry xmas etc. I feel like no contact forever would be the best. I was talking with one of relationship coachs, I talked what happened with me and him and so on. She replied that my ex has problem with being selfish, he doesnt know how to give and love. From the stories that I shared, she said my ex was verbally abusive and he doesn’t know how to respect. I was just shaking my head. Unbelievable. Why oh why I havent totally moved on. It sucks.
In a meanwhile, happy holidays peeps! xx Sorry if I ruined your holidays with this drama again. I just feel lonely..
Merry christmas dear survivors. Hahaha. May the joy and happiness (sooner or later) be with us. Stay blessed. Be ready to enter 2015 as an awesome single. Haha. I’m lucky to have all of you!! I think we don’t need to wish our exes a merry xmas :p
Much love,
XxAh, PH. Cheers.
Haha! Somehow true, Raed.
I cannot wait to end this christmas season. I found myself getting more sensitive because I missed him. Or maybe the idea to have someone beside me. Damn it.
I feel you dear Rihanna!
I’m starting feel sad too here. Everything changed 🙁
Thinking of you guys x
Yess raed, hahaha. I wish we all live closer and lift up our glass together for the better 2015! Where are you living anyway? I live in Indonesia. Sooooo far away from you guys seems like lol.
We need to close the book and the bad journey.
Love you all. God bless! xxx
Robot 3,
I think it’s normal when you can’t forget that night. Anyways, once we love someone then we never stop to love them actually. We just try how to move on and live without them. Maybe. I don’t know..
Another quick update, friends.
I just got a mail from my language course. I passed the german test! With an A- as the result. I will receive the certificate in two days. Crazy!! I am so happy haha. I took that language because of my ex. Now although i am not with him anymore, I feel so proud of myself. It was not easy days when I tried to face the exams. He said (a week ago when he contacted me again) I should let him know about the result, but I guess he is not worth of my time anymore.. Well..
Hey everyone!
I feel so blessed to have you around. Feels warm. Thank you so much for giving me support. Thats all what I need. Because the wound is still fresh. But well whatever.
Quick update. Last night I went to christmas dinner with my friends and ended up met one guy. Haha. He’s looking ok. We talked and laughed. Just realized I miss this feeling when a guy could manage conversation and made me laugh. After we said bye, he called me! Well I think at least he can distract me a bit and I will just take things really really slowly. Right?
Rihanna, you’re such a sister. Thank you so much! Love you lots for everything. Every words & every supports. I wish your right prince will come as soon as he could. Maybe now he still has a problem with the horse while heading there haha.
Daniel and Raed, thank you! I know I’m such a junior with this broken-hearted thing haha. But my time will come sooner or later when I will feel completely okay. You guys put smile on my face 🙂
Robot 3, it’s fine. It doesn’t mater. We all learn to be better 🙂
Ahhh people come and go. I might loosing my ex, but I found you guys here. Great huh?
Happy holiday everyone! Please stay in touch. Hehe. xx
Somehow I agree that we should make a new thread as survivors lol.
Robot 3,
Yes you’re right. Everyone is not the same. My ex might be move on, might be none. Just like everyone said it’s none of my business too actually. I know…
Yep I’m sure he did hurt me. He even admitted and said sorry. I know what was going on. It was truly toxic relationship where everyday was always fighting. He is kind of a guy who likes to make me feel bad most of the time. I was sticking because i had hope that he would change.
He said a week ago when he contacted me again that he learned a lot in this relationship. He said he’s completely fine with himself. I don’t really get it. What does completely fine with himself mean? That he accepts?
I know him actually. He’s not a womanizer. He’s not a one night stand guy. It’s not his things. But well found him on dating site makes me thinking enough to say to myself, does he really try to forget me etc etc. Because after NC rule, he was just suggesting as friends. Which is good. Because even he asked to come back, the toxic things are still there. But because I still have feelings, I said simply to him no I can’t be friends with you. He said it’s pity and he will reply my contact whenever I’m ready and not hating him anymore. He said maybe he deserves it because he did hurt me much.
4 days till Christmas. Oh well…
Yes Val, I am the one who left because everything messed up already. I am thanking you for your point of views. I am still 23, he is still 24. Maybe both of us are just not ready yet for marriage. Thats why everything was falling down too. Everything.
I was reading your final letter to your ex. It was beautiful. My heart hurts to read that because I was hoping my ex would say something too. Everyone around me said he would regret to lose me. Even his sister and his parents said I’m a great woman for him. But he couldn’t see it. He will never see it. He constantly made me cry, sad, depressed etc. All I had to do just forgive.
Isn’t it funny? I am the one who left. I know and everyone knows this is the best thing to do because million reasons to give up. I am the one who mostly asked him to stop hurting me. But in the end he’s so fast forgetting me. Forgetting everything for two years. Thats how I’m guessing. Idk how he feels actually. I am not a mind reader.
I need to move forward. I cant be friends with him even he offered so many times. I need to study harder, work and so on. I wish him well….
Long story short, my ex joined a well-known dating site. He said he’s looking for life partner. Wow wow wow. He’s looking for someone whos into serious relationship. He voted for many pictures of many girls. What’s going on? I asked myself for few minutes before closed my screen. Is he really over me? I am now typing while no crying. I feel numb. Idk if it’s good or not. I hope it is. Seems like my ex fiancé is really fine without me. Already. After only 5 weeks. After he said I’m still special? F@ck.
