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Hey @Joe, thank you. I am 23 anyway. I come from Indonesia. Here’s my story if you wanna read it a bit:
Well actually I dont know either what to do if he really come back to contact me. Because I know I am not happy with him and what kind of guy he is for these last two years.. But I do love him.
He didn’t try to contact me at all these 17 days. He just said “Even you dont wanna talk with me anymore; I will still visit you the end of december.” He is living in Germany. I don’t know what to do. I don’t wanna hope.
As for myself, I never said to my ex that I would be fine if he date someone else. But I did say good luck with next partner and pls treat her better. I dont know what was in my head at that time maybe because anger and pain and so on. Because when I think again calmly I can’t imagine when he will really be with someone else. Maybe your ex is just testing you. Or she knew that you wouldn’t go for a date. Because she would realize what she’ve got when it’s gone. Keep up with no contact.. Universe will conspire us to be back with our ex if we meant to be. I know it’s cliché but good luck.
I have mid exams too on dec 8th. He even didn’t try to contact me. I am in day 17 now..it’s tough. With all ups and downs. He might forget me either. He might move on. I don’t know. I cut all the contacts and soc-meds. I hope we’ll pass the exams. Gotta focus. Stay strong!!
Thanks @whena 🙁 I don’t think he will realize his mistakes and will contact me after NC period is over. Because for the last 17 days he didn’t try to. I feel so unmotivated to go to uni. My mid-exams await me next week. Gotta focus..
Hey everyone,
I am in no contact day 16. I dont think my ex will contact me anymore. We both are stubborn. He knows why I left him. But he didnt try to contact me at all these 16 days. Sometimes I feel like completely in pain. Sometimes I feel like I’m ok. It’s really hard everytime to go to bed to cry myself till asleep. 2 years together. We were engaged. Planned to get married next summer. All just gone. Crazy :'(
Hey Sara,
Please be strong and you’re not alone. I know how it feels to wake up and think it might be the end of the world but the next morning you feel everything was just ok. I am in day 16 of no contact. It still has ups and downs everyday. But you’ll get there.
God will help you. Try to distract yourself 🙂
