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Lol….don’t worry..just try to focus on yourself and don’t look on social websites…because that’s what I’ve been doing and it just took me back to day one on how I was feeling….we have to learn to be happy by ourselves first so we can be ready for the next heart break….I love ex like no other and he knows that,he even said the love I have for him is something he can only dream of….but he’s just not there in the relationship.
A part of me want him back but a part of me will have the worst feelings about him if we got back together because I’m going to feel like he’s losing interest in me and leave me again…
All of my emotions our everywhere and its hard to not think about but when you think to yourself one day. And say I never want to have any doubts in my relationship….and you want that person to love you equally as you do…And the fact that he gave himself to another women will stay stuck in my head every night we well fall asleep with eachother….
I have the same feelings…I’ve had dreams about it and seen signs everywhere…don’t know what they mean but I will just be torn …but I’m trying to get myself together I hate when I think about him.I can be at work and he pops in my head.I’ve been trying to meditate, and its kind of helping me not to think of him so much….but than my mind wonders again and the image of him and the new girl pops in my head …..Its just crazy how someone they said they love just forget you…like you were the worst person to them.
I thought maybe if you gave her space for two days than text her and maybe that will work
…all you want right now is to get on her good side….
but like I said the first time you may have to continue NC until you feel ready to have another conversation with her because you and her wasn’t ready
..let her find herself ..and you just work on you and yes if she shows you any type of emotions that’s a good thing …because my ex not showing me none lol so your good…but for now on let her contact youIts okay to rant….I actually like reading your story because you laugh about it so even though you want her back your not being sad and moppy about it..lol…
But yeah she trying to play this game with you. Deep down inside she want you and the other part don’t so she keep telling herself she don’t want you..so she cab convince herself that she feel that way …I say give it two days no contact than she hit her through text message just a simple text remind of something she like to do that you started doing or something y’all have in common than end it with just had to share that with you okay bye….It keeps her wanting more because what you been telling me about her texting back so quick means she was eager to text you ….and after you do that give it about a week or so and try to invite her out with a group of friends that your friends with and she Is too….see how it goes just don’t show no emotions and just act like your fine being her friend but don’t conpletley ignore her just a little…hope I’m giving you good advice lol…but I think she still want you but you have to show her how much she misses youThe thing about her is she still cares about you because she asking about your personal life…
Sometimes people would say how happy they’re beening single and stuff and some maybe true…but I don’t think she’s beening truthful….I think she thinks about you more than you think of her….she have to tell you things like we can’t talk anymore because that’s the only way she can try to get over you I say give it another two or so and try to make another converstation stating that your cool that you’ll aren’t together and you rather be her friend…and that’s it…for nowI dont think you were ready. Lol
When you first made contact you should’ve focus the conversation on her…don’t ask nothing personal…if she brung up something personal you should’ve said one quick thing and try to focus it back on her…Almost like she just was a friend you say hey and bye..the conversation shouldn’t been no more than 15mins in your case maybe 10..and you should’ve ended the call by saying okay just checking up on you have a nice night or day and hang up that’s going to make her want you…
The thing about her is she saying you she cares about what you doing in your personal lifeWell if you ready to put yourself out there to her than go for it….Just don’t act so eager to talk with her she act like she was one of your normal friends for now.after that its all up to you. Hope that helps a little you should read. Relationship rewind…you can Google it to find the free PDF version
I think you should keep up the NC …. when you feel like your ready than contact her and just try to start a false friendship but I still think you should wait after 8 weeks because from what she’s been posting don’t seem like she over all the bad stuff from being with You….maybe after a month she’ll start thinking about all the good qualties in the relationship you and her had.good luck
Continue NC ….you have to improve in something ….Especially working or school let her feel like what ever she wanted to break up with you for that your working on it….. in order to.keep NC going as well you shouldn’t be checking her social sites only make it worser just. Focus on yourself
I say no contact and just work on yourself ….if she comes back when you got yourself together than you figure out if you really want her…times get hard but if someone really care and love you they will stick with you through the good and bad…my ex did the same thing except he’s dating someone new now.
I think that’s a great idea but make sure your ready to be his friend. Because you may still have feelings for him and he’s going to see that and use it to his advantage especially if he ends up dating someone else just be careful and make sure your ready…
After I come from Miami…. I’m going to write my ex a letter hopefully he reads if he don’t oh well and just get closure for him because he bascially left me for someone else even though he didn’t cheat it still felt that way because he was flirting with Someone. I’m going to let him know that if he want to be friends we can and I’m there for him ..and inside that letter I’m going to give him back his promise ring hopefully that sparks so emotions….but I’m still debating on should I do it because a part of me want him to respond and if he don’t I think I’m going to just hurt myself even more because he might not even care….So I think I’m going to wait another month
She want you back. Most females do that because they want attention. I’m doing that right now on my instagram so my ex wont feel like I’m not all into him….but I’m not going into details about him and I just talking to other people and posting sexy pics and stuff…But she’s having mixed emotions about the whole situations so for her to cover up the real way she feel she act like that.
