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Yeah just stick to NC….Dont even check social media..If she calls just tell her you need time alone…If she keep calling block her but dont give in..This is to help you out a lil…When i first did NC i was a wreck crying everyday..Even though i still miss him and think of the situation im not crying anymore…Im way better than what i was before it just takes time and distance..If you love yourself do it for you..Because in the end we only have ourselves…We are the only ones that know our intentions..And we cant worry about other people intentions are..because some can be a devil in disguise….. Anyways good luck once again..You can do it…
Dont blame yourself…After the breakup, I felt like he was so erong..Than I sat back and was like no it was all my fault for the breakup i couldve done better or whatever. ..But We shouldn’t look at it like that..It was both of our faults because we couldve made it through whatever situation we had if we truly loved one another..But it takes two to tango..And if the other person isnt willing to put in the work to make the relationship work than you cant blame yourself. .Just have to move on and maybe in the near future yall will meet back up on better terms and see what happens..Till than its nothing you can do about it…Because if she did take you back,You wouldnt be happy because you know her heart and mind will be somewhere else..And thats a worser feeling….Its a leaning process…Im still learning its been four nonths..he told me he moved on..And im still over here in a new relationship and still not moved on its a sucky situation just stay strong..
In a sense she’s confused…But in reality people know what they want and don’t want…She misses what yall had,but she wants better or looking for better…Or she just want fool around for awhile…Like ghost said she just want you in the loop still..Just because she’s confused doesnt mean you have to be or suffer because of her..This is about you..Focus on you and screw her feelings right now..Thats what you have to do and order not to hurt as bad…
Yeah..Your just going to have to move on..Its hard…I still think of my ex everyday and dont even try to contact me..So I figured he’s happy in his new relationship….It hurts alot…Well good luck again..
It could be a rebound or not..But ive learned about it…Is some rebounds actually work…Some people are just really looking.for more.than what they already have or had..So when they meet the new person they just feel like they found better than.you…All i can say is it may work or.may not…My ex left me for his new chickk going on almost four months..She claims shes pregnant and their getting married all over her social media sites..and doesnt get on those things..He havent contact me at all..Maybe he’ll realize what he lost, and maybe he’ll realize what he didnt lose…We would never really know…Sometines people will say things to get to you. and on the other hand they may actually be telling you the truth about houw they feel.about someone else..Good luck on your situation though
You have to move on for awhile…I think she wants her cake and pie..Meanung she wants to have fun but still keep what she have with you and call it a friendship without feeling bad. You have to let her go to show her that your a friend but you was also her lover that got hurt and the process and you can’t be there for her how you was before…She’ll realize one day may not.be soon enough for you but one day she’ll know what she lost..And when she come back you’ll be stronger than ever to handle whatever she got to bring to.the table…Me and my ex been broking up for almost four months. .He left me for someone else..Seems like their happy but,Who knows…He dont even contact me which is the sad part..At least you have someone that care to still have contact with.you even though she’s playing with your emotions..I already gave up on getting my ex back even though i miss him like hell…We was together for almost two years..And just bam ,called me said he was done..And i was like huh? lol…But its going to be hard..Its hard for me everyday because i still care and love him dearly..But you cant make the other person have the same feelings as you…I wish you the best of luckbon your journey
Sorry didn’t read your other posts…but if you feel like she’s not committed to you 100% than let it go…but I know she love you,she just have alot of things to work on for herself…before she pursue something with you again
I’ve been following your story for awhile..And I think he really want to work it out with her than do it. its hard to not bring up the fact she basically caught feelings for someone else.I think she really want to work it out with you,she just having mixed feelings..I think the 15 week reconciliation is a great idea and maybe therapy will help her communicate better ….And I don’t think your being naive or stupid,because even if you and her broke up again you’ll be prepared.Good luck and can you read my new post meeting up
The thing about your situation and why she’s being immature is because she know you want her even though your trying to act like you just want to be friends so she’s using that as a advantage to tell everyone “he so thirsty,he want leave me alone” but in reality she was the one contacting you about her dream job or whatever ….just keep calm
Its normal only because you can’t make it seem like you want her…that’s why I said lay low with the messages to her even if she text or call you….You was suppose to wait until her birthday….every move we make in trying to get our ex back is crucial that’s why on relationship rewind they explain what steps to take and how to react….She contacted you for a reason not just to talk about some job interviews….I think you should just focus on yourself NC at all with her for 30 days….and if she contact you after 30 you’ll know at that moment if you really want to try to get her back or not …..women like the chase not to be chase …if even you and her had a serious relationship….show her that she means nothing to you…if you need to vent on here that’s fine but don’t give in because I did and I made a fool of myself ….just don’t do it
I think the attraction stuff is just a game she playing….She tells you all of this just to get a reaction…next time she does that just laugh and say there’s someone for everyone….and just ignore her until her birthday….and when you text her happy birthday say it like later on in the day like 4 or 5 act like you forgot and if she get mad just know that’s a good thing….and if she ask you where you been just say you been busy…this should work because she’s going to contact you everyday but you can’t give in….and yeah send the video the day of her birthday round 4 or 5 …..
You have to make it seem like your not going to be there for her for long….even though you may want to don’t….So even when she ask you about a job she want or anything ignore…..She’s going to miss your advice and everything ….and when you send her happy birthday she’s going to remember that moment …
I think your in drift or the one before drift don’t remember the name….But she talking with you so you can’t be in deaths door…shes letting you know what’s going on in her personal life so she don’t want to get rid of you…follow some of the steps they say to get you back into the bliss stage
Just keep talking to her but keep it short and simple…I know when I talk to my ex its usually because I miss then but than again I talked to my ex just because I was bored and didnt have no one else to talk to…
But you have to make her jealous some type of way but don’t let it be obvious I’m for sure she wants you back ….like say if she text you and reply back like 30 mins later and be like out with a friend…and just reply to whatever she text you…in her mind she’s going to be wondering what friend your out with and what your doing…when she think you moved on its going to make her want you more ….I know because that’s how must females are…I think she still want you in her life that’s why she telling you things …..I think you should go read relationship rewind they have it on the internet for free somewhere …It’ll help you better than I can because your both so far away so its hard to tell you what to do next …and I don’t want you to be friendzoned forever lol
Just stay strong because that’s what I’ve been trying to do everyday….even when I feel like calling him but I know its going to get worse because he’s not going to answer because he giving this women all of him….Just have to move in if they come back just know the ball will be in our court this time
