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I have been in NC for three weeks but as I reflect she said a lot of mean things and it seemed force(her facial expression was weird). Now she made couple post on Instagram one saying don’t take your ex back lol and another venting about me and how she is so happy and has no stress at all. Is this a game/her being emotional or her honest feelings? She has also been super flirtatious on there and with guys she told me wanted her but she never talked to.
She’s angry… What happened??
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She want you back. Most females do that because they want attention. I’m doing that right now on my instagram so my ex wont feel like I’m not all into him….but I’m not going into details about him and I just talking to other people and posting sexy pics and stuff…But she’s having mixed emotions about the whole situations so for her to cover up the real way she feel she act like that.
I was with this girl 15 months it started off a cool dude with control and balance in relationship. I was a lil bad when it came to emotions but I got them fixed when I went to navy. We didn’t talk for 5 months because I got injured and after three she dated a guy cheated and he dogged her etc. I forgave her because I was kinda mean and hard on her and she was really great. She couldn’t forgive herself so we argued about that than it was about me getting myself together(I had no job) than she stressed out about school and moving etc. while time I tried helping and listening but it was pointless because that’s what woman do lol. We had some conflicts because he single female friend always wanted to party and stuff. Long story short she left me two weeks ago said she lost interest see no future with me don’t love me hates me and don’t trust me anymore. She says she been loosing interest for months and just wants to be single and alone and selfish. Her mom also turned on me and said I’m no good even though she used to always say she love me… Her mom is a single divorced woman who tries to control her with everything(religion). Btw we both in early 20s. I reacted of course and I honestly had 2 beta moments that were embarrassing than I agreed to the break up. That caused her to contact me 3 more times 2 to start something and 1 checking up on me(there was a bad storm). She than left to another city but never saw me before she left. It’s been two weeks since than and I just seen two post talking bad about a ex(me). One was a joking picture another was a rant about me bashing her trying to get her back(she said beg lol) how I changed how she viewed things caused her stress and how happy she has been and how she isn’t pretending anymore. I love this crazy girl still sadly and have been focusing on me because I didn’t give her stability (no job not in college or service) which caused me to be to available and caused her to loose interest. What’s the best move? Continue no contact? Or light contact? Btw her b day in couple weeks to. Quick summary lol
I say no contact and just work on yourself ….if she comes back when you got yourself together than you figure out if you really want her…times get hard but if someone really care and love you they will stick with you through the good and bad…my ex did the same thing except he’s dating someone new now.
So you think she will come back if I continue no contact? This week will be a month and her b day next week she turns 21. She been working two jobs and idk if she had time to miss me or not. I honestly don’t know what to do still lol
Of course she does!
No matter what the emotions are, no matter they’re positive or negative, people showing emotions means they care. 🙂
Continue NC ….you have to improve in something ….Especially working or school let her feel like what ever she wanted to break up with you for that your working on it….. in order to.keep NC going as well you shouldn’t be checking her social sites only make it worser just. Focus on yourself
We stop following each other a friend just told me. And I have I got a job and back in college while she works two jobs but has moved to another city. I been in NC for four weeks this week still keep it up? I heard a month may not be enough time considering the year and half we were together we talked everyday. And should I call her or wait for her?
I think you should keep up the NC …. when you feel like your ready than contact her and just try to start a false friendship but I still think you should wait after 8 weeks because from what she’s been posting don’t seem like she over all the bad stuff from being with You….maybe after a month she’ll start thinking about all the good qualties in the relationship you and her had.good luck
The bad stuff was posted about two weeks ago this my 4th week NC. So you say give it another month or no and with her working a lot do that give her time to think
Well if you ready to put yourself out there to her than go for it….Just don’t act so eager to talk with her she act like she was one of your normal friends for now.after that its all up to you. Hope that helps a little you should read. Relationship rewind…you can Google it to find the free PDF version
It’s went bad. At first we caught up she was jealous asking if I had a new gf etc it was cool but I fell for her asking why I called. I said how I felt and how I improved she listened than said how she like being single and wants to be alone. I kinda pushed for it she kept listening than lost signal. She stated she did leave because I wasn’t doing anything but said she is done. I feel like I messed up
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