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Am I friend zoned lol like super friend zoned …wouldn’t a girl loose all respect and interest if there ex become there friend. As I stated before she said she will date or mess around idk if that’s true or was to hurt me and get a reaction idk. But she asking me for help I’m a friend lol
I think she still want you in her life that’s why she telling you things …..I think you should go read relationship rewind they have it on the internet for free somewhere …It’ll help you better than I can because your both so far away so its hard to tell you what to do next …and I don’t want you to be friendzoned forever lol
Noooo not friend zoned for life lol as a female what would you suggest I do ? I’m playing a role to get her cool and see me positive. Today she kept texting I kept it short and simple. She got the job and said thanks for helping I said congratulations glad I could help(pretending I didn’t want her to talk about it) and she responded yup thanks again. Idk if that was her trying to get me to talk more or was a surprise reaction I didn’t continue talking. Was that smart to respond so nonchalant? I read most of it and it’s kind if confusing just like this girl I’m dealing with lol. Monday she thinks I’m unattractive and etc Wednesday she telling me about a interview and asking for simple help etc. it’s ass backwards because when I’m done I’m done. Will I stay a friend if I continue being cool and talking to her 1-3 time a week or does that work to my favor?
Just keep talking to her but keep it short and simple…I know when I talk to my ex its usually because I miss then but than again I talked to my ex just because I was bored and didnt have no one else to talk to…
But you have to make her jealous some type of way but don’t let it be obvious I’m for sure she wants you back ….like say if she text you and reply back like 30 mins later and be like out with a friend…and just reply to whatever she text you…in her mind she’s going to be wondering what friend your out with and what your doing…when she think you moved on its going to make her want you more ….I know because that’s how must females are…And base off rewind do you think I’m in drift or death door. Her controlling mom and insecure loser friends don’t like me anymore lol
I think your in drift or the one before drift don’t remember the name….But she talking with you so you can’t be in deaths door…shes letting you know what’s going on in her personal life so she don’t want to get rid of you…follow some of the steps they say to get you back into the bliss stage
Ok and what about the she not attracted to me or I’m not her type anymore talk ? The guy name she mentioned is the opposite of me when it comes to skin completion and looks. Was that just talk or she really interested in another type(she said a guy that look like me “same skin tone” try to talk to her and she said she don’t mess with those kinds anymore to him” as childish as that sound lol
Sorry in ranting again lol but after reading it I messed up but it’s not that bad because I remained calm even when she was being a d*** and I established a friendship. Than next day she texted me at 3:30 in morning talking bout a interview at a dream job and help with a simple task. I than replied but very slow and plain while she responded quick. I think it’s manageable now just contact her Tuesday on her b day. Is it to much to send a funny video of her when she was trying to dance and I say turn up or is that funny and to my advantage because of the memory?
I think the attraction stuff is just a game she playing….She tells you all of this just to get a reaction…next time she does that just laugh and say there’s someone for everyone….and just ignore her until her birthday….and when you text her happy birthday say it like later on in the day like 4 or 5 act like you forgot and if she get mad just know that’s a good thing….and if she ask you where you been just say you been busy…this should work because she’s going to contact you everyday but you can’t give in….and yeah send the video the day of her birthday round 4 or 5 …..
You have to make it seem like your not going to be there for her for long….even though you may want to don’t….So even when she ask you about a job she want or anything ignore…..She’s going to miss your advice and everything ….and when you send her happy birthday she’s going to remember that moment …
I’m thinking bout giving up. She told her cousin I’m irritating and why the hell I’m trying to talk to her and she done and will never talk to me again. I haven’t talked to her since that day. Everyone say walk Away but I don’t want to but look how she acting. And they say the texts is all a game but the harsh stuff ” I’m done , I’m not attracted to you, I lost interest” is her saying she done. It’s been a month and she still like this. Is this normal after coming back from nc or no
Its normal only because you can’t make it seem like you want her…that’s why I said lay low with the messages to her even if she text or call you….You was suppose to wait until her birthday….every move we make in trying to get our ex back is crucial that’s why on relationship rewind they explain what steps to take and how to react….She contacted you for a reason not just to talk about some job interviews….I think you should just focus on yourself NC at all with her for 30 days….and if she contact you after 30 you’ll know at that moment if you really want to try to get her back or not …..women like the chase not to be chase …if even you and her had a serious relationship….show her that she means nothing to you…if you need to vent on here that’s fine but don’t give in because I did and I made a fool of myself ….just don’t do it
The thing about your situation and why she’s being immature is because she know you want her even though your trying to act like you just want to be friends so she’s using that as a advantage to tell everyone “he so thirsty,he want leave me alone” but in reality she was the one contacting you about her dream job or whatever ….just keep calm
I still haven’t talked to her after we texted and I ended the convo fast. I was just chillin and you know how friends be all negative and bitter around you lol I’m like damn especially guys. I try saying same things like she still care if the day she don’t wanna mess with me she text me first but they like she using you and you a back up plan. I’m like let me play my role because even if there is a new guy she obviously not that close to him to open up to him. I was just in my feelings from all this negativity lol so after her b day and I send video go nc ? I already did a Minh remember so I go another month? Btw my old ex gf hit me up and we talked a lil weird how after a year she talk to me now lol. So ignore the he irritating or why won’t he leave me alone and stop trying to be with me talk? Everyone saying that’s how she feel and just take it because in this month and week period we talk twice so idk how I’m thirsty or on her head she doing the most lol. I know she knows she has me and she has the power again because I didn’t end the phone convo quick like I was suppose to but is there a way to turn it around ? And you saying it’s not as bad as they make it because I been a good dude to her whole time except the beginning I was kinda bad but that doesn’t matter lol.
So today her b day I’m gonna go with your plan and send the video along with a happy b day and keep it at that. I been very chill as of late and realized all this unnecessary she childish and gone need to grow up. Also as I said my ex came back even if it was a year so that makes be believe they all do eventually. She chasing me hard and want me back after three days and she told me if I just left her alone after break up she would’ve came back lol. Also she got her hurt broke so I think that adds to it sometimes ppl have to experience bad to know when they have good. Me being 21 I expected it. Now it’s choosing who I want that’ll be hard lol I could do both jk. Think my current ex will like me sending video
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