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And what confuses me more is that up until Christmas she still sent a few photos. She text me mum a few times and sent Christmas Cards to my Family and some Relations??? Is she just confused also? Recently she got really angry saying that my Family never loved her. Which she knows isn’t true
So what is best do you think? Go no contact until she reaches out and initiate false friendship then? Or go the full 30 days? She did seem to jump into this new relationship very quickly
Well i’m going through the same process. I’ve learned to stop annoying other People about the whole Thing. Concentrate on yourself as hard as that sounds. If others Keep Hearing about it they just get fed up listening to it. As much as you want to talk to Family and friends about it they probably miss talking to you about being you. Bite your tongue and talk about other things and you will find that it helps and it will build your confidence. They will be there if something Major happens but nobody wants to listen to Problems evey time they talk with someone.
And if things work out then it may come as more of a surprise to them and they will be happier for you.
Don’t know if that helps.could somebody check out my post please? Really confused as to what to do. Some People say no contact is silly, be the friend. Others say (because of Tradition in Ireland) walk away. That’s over. She should stand by her man etc.
