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OK. Thank you. I’ll just go with i Need some space. That will do. She will get the message.
I never thought never. I knew she would text. But she has to learn that i am not going to be around I guess. I will send that message then so. Give myself breathing space. Maybe leave out the bit about i will be in touch. That leaves it open to her too? See how Long she can go without texting. Because if she texts again then she was thinking about me. If i said that i will be in touch then maybe she wants to talk but feels blocked
but then she will not reach out again?
she will feel hurt.Another 3 weeks is such a Long time
OK thanks. I will ask her to leave the post in a shop Close by and I can get it this evening. Followed by your “i Need some space at the Moment. I’ll be in touch when I’m ready”.
What do you think?God I hope you’re right about the Rebound. What do you mean with “it will be for you”
I doubt very much that he knows. Might still just be innocent friendly stuff, but she would have sorted the post weeks ago. I knew this would come up but didn’t prepare myself. I have never not replied before. This is a serious challenge now. Ignoring this message would be very rude but Meeting her is dangerous.
That’s horribly confusing. 3 Messages in 24 hours. And I still don’t know what is going on. She has set me back a bit. But she seems to be pushing for a reply of some sort.
I will have to think. Why push to Keep contact so badly? She has the new man.OK. I have no key so i will have to think of somewhere she can leave it. In a shop or something.
What do you mean by reaching out? Getting scared?There has been post there for weeks. She could have brought it to me earlier. I’m confused. Faack
Is she looking for a reason to meet? I don’t want that yet
Another text came. There is post for me. What will she do with it? Does she Sound pushy now? What will I do?
You’re from Ireland? I did reread the “back home” bit and wonder. It takes a Long time for them to notice or believe in a Problem back there, but when they do they are great. Tea and cigarettes are my replacement for now.
Should I text her then today or wait for another message?
I will only send that if she texts again (3rd) time and if i get a Feeling that she is genuinely worried about me.
Facebook is a load of crap anyway. Nobody is real on it so you’re missing nothing. I just use it to Chat with Family and friends at home.
Your Story is very similar to mine. Did you do anything about the drinking? If somebody else starts telling you that you have a Problem then you do. I did too. So I quit. In day 57 now without that and never fealt better. But I could only have managed that with the Support of Family and friends back home and gallons of tea
thanks. i haven’t text anything yet but may Combine the 2 ideas of yours. As in “I’m good thanks. I Need some space at the Moment. I’ll be in touch when I’m ready”. But that’s breaking NC is it not? Anyway, she can be stubborn so i will hear nothing for a while now.
Have you heard anything in the 15 days? Any word at all? Anything on Facebook?
Good Points. I suppose the word ‘worried’ would suggest that she is not emotionally detached. Probably is trying to be friendly. But I am only on day 8. We haven’t gone without a Chat for this Long in nearly 6 years. Maybe in another week she might start turning.
But would she not get angry now? Thinking maybe ‘what a dick’ for not replying?
Or is this the Point were she will start thinking what’s going on.@caz15 I am obviously not ready to respond if i get butterflies and nervous. But that is a good sign isn’t it? At least she thought of me yesterday.
I guess this is the point of no contact. Let them feel what they are missing.I can’t help wondering though if this is really just her being friendly. What if I still have no Chance and like someone said, she was emotionally detached Long ago.
