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I agree with you TravelBug!
And deal! Is there anyway I can contact you on skype or something? I feel like it’s always better to have someone going through the same thing by my side. And since you’ve helped me out so much previously, I want to be there as well for you if you need a friend to talk too.Send me an e-mail with your skype username if you want to talk with me on skype or anything. This counts for everyone that is doing NC 🙂 Let’s stay strong together!
This is my e-mail it only lasts for 60 minutes.
[email protected]Anyways a little update:
I think 2 days ago, or maybe it was yesterday. I got logged out both on twitter and instagram.. I’m pretty sure she was the one that logged in, because she’s the only one that knows my password.. Why would she do this?- Total Posts: 15
Before thinking why anyone, not just her, would do it, change your password.
why havent you changed your passwords? you should have done this a while ago. :-/ if you havent changed them yet then do so now. as to why she did it maybe it could have been to bother you, to check on you or so you can know she stills around. she probably still has strong feelings for you. but who knows the reason why she did it. :-/ could you give me input on my newest issue. thanks 🙂
So glad I didn’t contact her.
She has completely changed characters!! It was a big halloween party in town tonight, I went there, and she was there as well. She looked so different.. Dyed her hair, and she just didn’t look the same anymore.. I saw her but I don’t think she saw me. My friend went after her and “bumped” into her. They talked and he asked what she was doing here and where she was going etc. Her friends had apparently ditched her and she went and looked for them, and he asked her about school etc. And then she asked why he was there and who he was with, and he said “I’m her with ******* ( my name)” and she answered “Oh, then I better go”. So apparently she is avoiding me lol. SHE has done a complete 180. She has changed and she’s doing everything that she never thought of doing before.. Like partying and drinking and everything. I guess I’ve lost her for good…
that sucks lol im in the same boat as well you should read what I just wrote. these people ugh. hang in there, and yes they change a lot. do you still want her back?
Update:
Well.. She still hasn’t contacted me or done anything on social media at all! It’s so weird, it’s like she’s just “gone”.
Anyways I updated my facebook profile picture, got a lot of likes from girls etc and still nothing from my ex. Thought she’d at least be a little jealous but I guess not. I also think I saw her at the store yesterday, not completely sure, but yeah anyways.
All I can say is that I’m doing really good for myself, I’ve got a ton of new friends, I workout everyday, I get a lot of attention from girls, I got a job now too.. So basically everything is going fine for me, and I wish she was there to see it. Anyways, I have contacted her only ONCE in 51 days by that stupid text message, and that was on day 37 of NC. So I was wondering if I should call her this time? I thought that I’d call her on wednesday or something
Well.. Nothing new from her whatsoever.. A bunch of girls have started to show interest in me, but nothing from my ex. So I have no idea. I’m still in NC, on day 55 now.. I don’t know if I should call her or anything at all.. I’ve made my instagram public, and a lot of girls have started following me. So I just don’t know. I thought about going on a date and post a picture, but not sure if that will make her come back.. She’s so freaking stubborn..
wow that sucks, sorry to hear that, (I know how you feel lol) its good that they are showing interest in you, who knows she may get jealous. stay strong you can do this. 🙂 I think you should go on a few dates actually not to make her jealous but to distract yourself and so you could have a good time, I say go for it. 🙂
Well got some news..
Ever since we broke up, I didn’t change the password of any of my social media stuff. Until like 1 week ago. I knew she logged into my twitter and instagram, but what I never knew was that she was logging into my skype too.. I had the same password on every social media. When I was talking to @cassie on my phone I sometimes got logged out, and I didn’t find it strange because I thought my phone was just messing up. And it has been like this for over a month. I’d get logged out almost everyday.. Then I realized that it was probably my ex, since I had the same password after the break-up.. After I’ve changed the password, I haven’t gotten logged out, not even once. And now I realize that maybe one of the facts she hasn’t contacted me is because she has basically read everything that I’ve shared with @cassie. Which is a whole FUCKING lot. She knows how I’ve been during this whole NC.. She knows absolutely every single one of my moves and plans..wow your fucked, lol you should have changed them a long time ago lol. dont worry you still may have a chance. change your whole game plan now. and do everything differently. 🙂 you can do this. 🙂 btw this made me laugh. 🙂
Forgive me if I say that I also laughed at that. I mean, you gotta admit that this whole thing is pretty ironic. :))
But anyway, do you realize that this is actually good news for you? Now you KNOW the second reason why she’s playing so hard to get (the first reason is simply because she’s a woman haha)! She doesn’t need your attention because she KNOWS WHAT YOU’RE DOING! She knows that you’re still attached to her, and so she’s in no danger of losing you. Knowing your accounts is like her life source, and like a leech, she relies on reading your messages to keep her power over you. However, now that you’ve deprived her of her life source, start NC again. This time, FOR REAL! Wait for her to die out from the lack of knowing what you’re thinking.
Trust me, this time she’ll squeal. 😉
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