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Rihanna, about your ex, I don’t judge him because I don’t know him but there are chances that he is in my situation and has the same mental setup!
lol It is funny! I have a girl friend who lives in Canada and talks to me once in a while. She is dating a new guy and this guy is a project manager but he does not have a car. She said it feels “unpleasant” when you drive your date.
Anyway, it sucks that being a man requires so assets but feminists keep yelling about equality while equality in reality does not exist.
Anyway, the good news is that I am planning to buy a car this summer (in a couple of days)! Its depressing that I am confined to my house!
Having a car is a great thing and provides so much more freedom. Just they can be so darn expensive. I would be lost without my car. I have nothing fancy and probably never will. I have never been one of these guys that spend mega dollars on a car or knows the in an outs of a car. I find guys who talk constantly about their cars to be very boring. There is a couple of guys at my work who do that, every day they are talking cars. As long as the car gets me from A to B that’s all I care about.
Robot – I was thinking about your comments where you mention about life issues in the context of your Ex. For myself, the draw card of this site was the hope that I would get back with my Ex. She broke up with me in May last year and for the rest of last year, that was my dream. That she would come back and we would spend the rest of our lives together. I truly believed she was the girl for me. I was committed to the relationship when we were together and I was committed last year to Kevin’s plan to win her back. This year when I heard she had moved in with her new boyfriend. I think that was the breaking point for me, the line in the sand which shouldn’t off been crossed and I had to give up the dream of us ever getting back together.
I still regret the way things worked out between my Ex and myself. I wish I knew what was going on in her mind. The hardest thing I struggle with now days is primary I still don’t have anyone special in my life and the fact that my Ex replaced me so easily. It really hits my self worth and makes me think I was simply not good enough for her. If she couldn’t tell me the reason for the breakup even know I was fully committed to her and loved her 100% suggests to me that I simply was boring and not good enough.
I did something stupid please shoot me!!! I didn’t even want to do it I don’t know why I did :'(
Anyway, my ex is always on Facebook lately he was never on before which is weird. Yesterday he posted something he always used to say to me so I felt like he was saying to me though i may be wrong.
This is what I did: I texted him the background story of the saying he posted 🙁 … It wasn’t a personal text like hi how are you… None of that! It was a small text about the saying full stop. But the saying was about love. I hate myself for texting him he saw the text and nothing. Gotta start NC INDEFINITELY again… At least I’m not missing him but why the hell did I text? Aaaaaargh!!!
Bahahaha Steve. He replied and I stopped. Anyway, I really don’t care about him that special way I wonder what happened…
Wanna hear something funny? I went to bank to take out my mums gift, the cost trip overseas and they offered me some net bank saving. Bank teller was adamant that i really should. I’m really slow when it comes to technology and money. Abreast, after asking the bank adviser a million stupid question like what’s the point of receiving interest etc… Hahaha, we did the math on what interest I get with the savings that I have and we both cracked up laughing… Hehehe $10 a month! Bahahaha all that explaining for an hour bahahaha…
But at least now it’s kept away for my Sydney relocation hehehe
$10 a month, gee that is sad for a savings account. Not worth the effort really. How you got an approx. date set in mind for your move to Sydney? i.e. June/Jul or Christmas
Also have you thought of either blocking your Ex on Facebook or if you don’t want to do that, unfollow him. Unfollow is a great tool. It means whatever that person posts on their timeline doesn’t show up on your feed unless you click into their profile. I use this for a couple of friends who post 19 out 20 time rubbish like motivational posters or political shit. I still want to be friends with these people, but don’t want my wall clogged up with stuff like that. Every few weeks I will click on their profiles to see if anything interesting has happened in their lives.
You could do that with your Ex, that way you are still friends, but you don’t see what is happening in his life every day unless you check his profile
Hi Steve, I’m thinking to move August 4 or maybe earlier if I’m ready to. I have a place there already but will keep looking cos my only concern is that my flatmate is a guy. But in any event there’s no contract so I can leave anytime if I’m not comfortable. He’s emailed me to check on me since it’s been few weeks I haven’t replied to him I wanted to test if he’s clingy but he seems OK and a part of me likes that he’s caring though we’ve never met. I’m still looking for place though in case…
Yeah, not worth the effort haha… But at least I know I won’t touch my savings, out of sight out of mind kinda thing…
Bahahaha I put those annoying ppl who post memes and political crap all the time as acquaintances so I hardly see their posts. My ex doesn’t bother me, it’s mostly his sister that posts crap on his wall. I’m still bit weird about their very close relationship. I love guys who care for their sisters and family don’t get me wrong but they’re hanging out the same places as him and I did… Anyway, that’s the past and I have plenty of my future to look forward to and worry about.
A question to the guys here not related to myself or my situation.
If a guy sleeps with a new woman does that mean he’s moved on forever from his ex?
Nah!
My friend had a breakup 3 months after myself, had a friends with benefits relationship with a girl for 2 months. Got his ex back and now their are setting their date for their marriage.
But I personally don’t find it a good sign. It is a serious attempt to move on!
Agreed with Robot. Kevin writes an article here about the rebound relationship on this site. In many situations, straight after a breakup a person will miss the intimate moments they had in the relationship and will seek the quickest way to replicate that. i.e. have sex with someone else.
Yay for Friday 🙂 My favourite working day of the week. This weekend should be interesting. A group of us are heading on a small road trip tomorrow and are going to visit the hot pools about a hour away, before heading to a winery for dinner. The girl who I have kinda been flirting with the past couple of weeks is coming too 🙂
Steve,
I also have something exciting to say! 3 days ago, I went to this dating site and found another girl. We exchanged tons of texts and it made me feel like these many number of text don’t count and then she got drunk and started sending me sexy messages! Since then we are talking about sex! lol!
Just a couple of hours ago, she sent me a text saying that considering our conversation so far she believes that my ex was the pretty dumb in letting me go–except for her’s we did not talk about our exes and it was out of blue!
I think great days are approaching us!!
I just realized that this thread is no more the biggest here! There are two more above this–one of them was created by Steve!
what!!!! I created a thread….haha that’s right I did too. I forgot about that one. Guess it took on a life of its own.
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