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Yeah I am looking forward to it. Sure it is only a day thing. Leave early and come back late, but it meals, drinks and girls in bikinis giving me back massages while I’m in a natural thermal hot pool
Woohoo go Steve!!! So happy for you, have a blast on your day trip flirting, hot pool etc… I’m glad you’re having fun!
Robot 3- you never cease to surprise me. But I must admit that I too went on a dating site for like 5 secs and got out of there as fast as lightening hehe… Good luck and have fun. But be careful please
Rihanna!
Reading your words, I can sense that you care about me (as a brother) and it makes me feel great because my sis or anyone else has no idea what I have gone through!!
I dimissed this retarded girl who just talked about sex without seeing me and expected a serious relationship that would result in marriage! I loved her sex texts but she was too retard for me!
I went to a bar tonight! It was rough since no girl kissed me! Just a girls said that I smell very good! I also had a conversation with another girl on civilization! She said I am lovely and hugged me! When her sister showed up, she told her to hug and kiss me! She did!
Rihanna, I feel old! This girl was 22 and she guessed my age was 26 at the first time (I’m not sure if she pretended me being young) but after I told her that I’m 32 she changed a bit! I think I am getting old for bar hook ups especially that my hair are now grey! Anyway this girl kissed me and asked her sister to hug me.
Rihanna. even though I call my ex a bitch but she had a personality that all these girls did not have! Yet, I don’t want to talk about the bitch she had become! lol
Good new–the girl I was talking to invited me for a party this week. She also told me that we should hang out together more! Plus!!!! I know that one of those gym girls have crush on me! I saw her in the bar and we starred at each other for a while! She is another girl I would like to get with!
I’m glad that I can talk about my feelings here!! Have great days!!! This last girl told me that I smell great and she wanted to know the brand! lol! I smell good now and it 3:40 AM here and I am drunk!!!
Have a great time!!
People!
Listen to this song! This remind me good times I had with my ex who is probably in deep relationship with her new boyfriend (fuck it and her)!!!
robot of course I care about you lots my bro lol, we’re in this together…
You’re never too old for bars but I think what you’re experiencing is that you’ve outgrown the bar life and girls who go there. I think because and from what you’ve said about the retard girl lol who talked about sex without seeing you and expected marriage, from that I can tell you need someone on your intellectual level not just someone in bed… Boring!
Are men ever bored having sex with a girl without connection? Do guys enjoy sex no matter what? How do you guys compare lovers both in life and the bedroom?
I’ve only been in one relationship so there’s not much for me to compare but I’d appreciate your thoughts about deep love vs someone you just like…
Sex is fine even if it with a stranger with hay in her head! lol It is still joyful and fun! But it becomes more joyful when you love someone! So it is a matter of better and the best!
For guys sex and love are different things in general. That is why there exists things like prostitutes!
Damn it! I was drunk last night!
Yeah! There are very few intellectual girls around me and it is disappointing! My ex girlfriends were mostly intellectuals that made conversations more joyful!
Hi Robot and Rihanna,
Hope you both had a great weekend. My weekend was fun, really good day on Saturday soaking in thermal hot pools in the afternoon then a dinner at a nice restaurant in the evening. A couple of glasses of red wine after the pools went straight to my head and it was a cheap drunk night for me. I got home at 9:30pm and went straight to bed. I slept for nearly 11 hours straight.
Not much to report on the romantic side of things. The girl who I had been flirting with went in another car so I barely talked to her the entire day. Will say she looked smoking hot in a bikini and it was nice to sit next to her in the pool for a while. Some of my other girl friends look pretty good too.
Infact the car that I went home in was all guys and it was all we could talk about the entire trip back. Girls, sex and bikinis. Turns out this girl is a big cock tease with a few guys. She like to flirt with everyone, so it is just not me she has been flirting with. I think you would like this girl Robot, she is attractive, smart, has nice boobs and loves to flirt. Pity I can’t private message you a picture of her. Haha oh well.
Interesting, one the guys had bumped into my Ex last weekend at the mall and he mentioned it to me. His observation was that she has lost her identity with her new guy. Apparently she has stop going to the gym since she moved in with this guy and she is now putting on some weight. She has also given up on dance too. She loved doing dance every week and was very good at it. That was interesting to hear and I wonder the reasoning behind it. Not that I should really care, but he seem to think that she no longer doing her things, she was all about fawning over the guy and how great he is.
Robot – I am of two minds about picking up girls at the bar. For me it comes down to simply this. I have never been successful at it. But I have a work friend who is 42 and he is very successful at it and most weekends has a story to share. I have been to the bars where he goes and they are filled with ladies who are 30 years plus. It’s more in our age range. 90% of night clubs in NZ are filled with girls 18 -25 years old. The local Irish bar I go to is more of a hangout place for people. I don’t know if any of ever watched “Cheers” and the bar the gang spend their time in. My bar is exactly like that bar, without the constant hot girls. LOL, but it is a place where you know most of the regulars and the bar staff know me by first name.
Rihanna, for myself. I don’t really enjoy sex without the connection. It simply isn’t arousing. I have been with girls who I met that night and the connection was there from the first 10 seconds. On the flip side, years ago I dated a girl for 3 weeks and we made it to the bedroom after about 4 dates. There was simply no connection and truth be told I couldn’t get the little fellow to “stand to attention”. Needless to say that I never went on another date with that girl. So no I personally don’t enjoy sex no matter what. I think if I did I would go to a prostitute every few months just to relieve myself
Gosh anyone just reading this page will think we are some sex starved crazy men. LOL
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Rihanna,
There is a thread that Steve created. Go and check the last comments–apparently it is about men who find it hard to move on. I am definitely sure that moving on is much harder on men. The point is that men either don’t fall or if they do, they fall much deeper than women.
Steve,
Sure this girl you are talking about has good curves! I have started thinking how materialistic women are and how different they are from men. For example, if I see a depressed girl, I might date her and surprise her with different things to make her happy but is it true with women? I guess they are looking for happy men to share their happiness.
This last girl that I was talking to had a breakup about a month ago. I asked her about the reason and she said he lost his job so she dumped him. Then she called herself victim of dating a loser man. I tried to reverse the scenario in my head assuming my girl lost her job. I’m sure 99.9% of men won’t dump a girl for losing her job but the way she was talking about it that it was universally justified dumping a guy for losing his job.
I had a good night last night! I went to the same bar. I met another girl and we talked for a while. Her friends tried to snatch her away but she was pinned to her chair. She was tall and beautiful. For a while I thought it is her. I got her number before her friends finally took her away. At some point I realized that one of her friends was making signs implying he is okay with her hands while she was behind me. You know what the problem was/is? She did not answer my text today. I think she has changed her mind as usual. But I tend to think positive about it.
I have started thinking that those men who brag about cars and assets are in the right track bang these ladies! lol
On the whole, I had a great weekend!
People!!
I am back to say that I am the luckiest unlucky on earth! Wherever I go, I am one of the center of attracts and every girl is into me until I frankly reveal them that I have no money and I am a broke! I remember that when I was in early 20s girls would still fall for me even if I said I am fucking broke but no more now! It’s okay! Today also just like every other day, I enjoyed it!
My good days are coming! I am going to be a king soon!
PS: sorry if you guys find it too bombastic, I am a bit drunk but wanted to scream here!
Peace!!
PS: this girl that I met today has very beautiful blue eyes, perfect body and curves, and tall enough! I did not ask for her number because I will see her every day. I also spent an hour texting to a girl to texted me first. She is also fun to talk with. Her texts made me laugh!!
Unfortunately, I will chose the girl of physical attraction! I am a retard and I know it!!
You guys are HILARIOUS!
I loved reading your threads it’s as if you want to rebel against your pain with bikini girls and bars etc, which is fantastic IMO, but your events somehow always seem to take you back to a story about the ex.
Steve, I’m so glad you had fun on your weekend and those girls sound amazing! But if there’s no connection no matter how hot someone is it won’t work. My childhood friend who I spent almost everyday with was a CK underwear model and wherever we went girls would die for him but for me he was just a friend, I didn’t even find him attractive though he was really hot. Attraction is more important than having the typical beautiful features. Example, I am so attracted to my ex in the way he looked at me, the way he fell hard for me even though he’s short and average looking. So I completely understand you.
Also, the bars of women in their 30s is great for me to hear as it gives me some hope lol. And your 42 year old friend is probably exaggerating a lot of his stories lol lol.
My ex was going through some tough days last week and that’s why he was bit standoffish. I found out he’s painting one of my pieces for a new exhibition which made me happy. He’s always asking for my opinion with his work although not always he takes my advice lol. He is much like you Steve he doesn’t like to have sex without connection because he thinks it’s really boring and no point to it. He misses me lots but we can’t be together. I’m not ready to be with anyone not even him. He’s busy getting his life in order which is good.
He hired a life model for the piece he’s doing after I turned him down cos of nudity lol. He sent me a pic of her and the pose she’s doing for the piece he’s working on and we were chatting about how she should pose exactly her being there didn’t bother me one bit. I wonder why I just didn’t care though there she was naked in his studio posing and he was telling me everything about the piece. Perhaps cos she’s not his type and I know him too well, he’s picky with girls. Or do you think I’ve moved on I don’t care anymore?
I would love to check Steve’s thread about men not moving on. My ex is like that I think. He still wants to introduce me to his family. Why?
Rihanna,
To be honest, I can’t say anything about your ex since I have no idea who he is but IMO if he wants to introduce you to his family, it is a good sign. Also, if there was a naked model in front of me, it would close to impossible for me to not think about having sex with her.
I dare to say that I have moved on!
Days and nights are much happier to me! I feel satisfied! Previously, if a girl looked at me, I would feel like she is not interested in my just like my ex and now, I tend to think like they love me.
About that 42 year old guy, I also tend to think that he over-exaggerates his stories. Attraction in women is more verbal and they tend to be attracted to men with more exciting stories. I had a friend who kept working on his stories and most of them conceded out of his imaginations.
On the other hand, I am very sincere. So sincere that some of my friends tell me that it roots in high self-esteem.
I am buying a car next week. Now I can talk to a girl and invite her for a movie or a restaurant anywhere in the town. In this regard, I had even met a lady who was okay with meeting me in my apartment for the first date but wanted me to pick her from her work place.
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