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No they say the dumper goes through the break up different. They tend to go through the relieve stage first and then through the emotional phase. Us go through the emotional phase first and then relieve. I can tell you I past my emotional stage. I was devastated just like you, but now im relief. Im so happy that i forgot what i felt when we were together. So I dont miss it.
Just let your brain take care of this situation. Continue NC and it will start letting go of some feelings. And it will get used to being just you.
Its not too late.how long has it been since you started NC? Approximately 2 weeks or so? So its not too late. I think most of the times it takes guys around 30 days or even more before they start missing us again.
About missing him, there’s really not much you can do about it. Its gonna hurt and then its gonna hurt some more but eventually it will stop. I’m going through the same thing so honestly I don’t know whats gonna work to stop it but I guess no matter what we do, a part of us is waiting for them to come back and seeing it not happening sucks. We should accept the reality and deal with the pain. Its not gonna last forever.
He broke up with me 9th July. I fail at NC each time. Now is the only time I’m serious about it. On 17th July he said he’d fucked up with me then said he doesn’t know what he wants.
Its ok. Don’t break NC this time. Every time we break it,it means we should go through the pain all over again.I’m not just saying it to make you feel better but its really not too late. NC will undo any damage we had caused before starting it.
Maria I understand you. I went through all that sadness. You will get to a point where you really really miss him. You will think you must fight for his love, but don’t do it. Don’t sabotage yourself. Be strong. We are all here for you.
I want him to just want me again. To text me saying he’s made a mistake and things will change and he’ll prove it.
At the start he said to me as long as he has me in his life he’ll be happy. That’s before the money.
My ex used to tell me that only i could break off the relationship, because he would never leave me. Just look at us now and I didn’t break us up. So don’t believe a lie like that. Humans can be happy without anybody. We adapt to anything.
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