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Great! focus on yourself,continue NC and be sure that you’ll feel real better soon. You really are a strong woman. Keep it up xx
For now,Its totally normal wondering about everything and or hoping for things to magically get better but unfortunately this isn’t what we need right now. We can never predict the future.nobody knows what’s gonna happen but the only thing I’m sure about is that NC is the best way to go. First of all, we need some time to heal. We owe ourself this one.
Our mind may trick us to think it may work out this time that it may all of a sudden turn out to be a great relationship but we shouldn’t really suppress these thoughts. Its all what our own mind is doing to us. No matter how hard it is, try to focus on yourself. The more we overthink the situation, the more confused we’ll be so please continue NC for atleat 30 days. Don’t think about anything negative. You can contact him after NC if you want but right now you should think about yourself and how much you deserve to be happy.
Trust me I’ve been through this and I’ve helped many people going through this and Nc is definitely our best bet.
We’re gonna be fine.
I know exactly how much it sucks thinking how the person you Love has disappointed you, I know how much it hurts thinking it may never work out and it may hurt like hell for a while but believe me it will get better. You may not feel the difference day by day but one day you will feel totally happy without him and thats the first step if you ever want to get him back.
Maria was he so needy in the relationship? And how could you handle such a needy man? He needs favors he needs attention he needs the world :).
He said to me I’m lying about not having a paypal account so he can’t use it. That’s why I blocked him.
You said he was trying to get back with his ex. Doesn’t she hace money? Why they broke up?
No no he’s not back with his ex, they don’t get on. I don’t know if he’s even with anyone. He said he’d met someone else but if he has why’s he pestering me all the time, idk. I’ll probablt update if he ever wants to try abajn
Yeah he met someone else but they are just friends. Anyways if he doesn’t say he misses you and wants to try again, do not assume that he wants to reconcile.
I did the samething as you. I thought every time my ex returned was to apologize and make up. However once I discovered the real reason, I ended heartbroken all over. It’s so hard to accept that the same person who said “I can’t live without you” its the same person who said “it’s over”. It made me feel like I loss 8 years of my life behind nothing. I think that you should be glad yours was over sooner than later. Anyways my ex was determined not to let me move on, but neither to be with me. He wanted me single and sad for the rest of my life. However he was wrong, because I wasn’t born to cry behind somebody who doesn’t love me. I was born to be happy and fight for my dreams. During my second round of NC my goal was to find happiness with myself and I achieved that. I feel great of my break up and Im looking forward for what the future holds for me. I wish you the same. I wish that you learn this lesson and find yourself again. That single happy girl that your ex fell in love with.
Not feeling great. Hate the whole limbo of “will he ever want me”
The last time I saw him he hugged me said love you and “see you later maybe”
And now all he does is text me for stuff. I don’t understand.
@mariahbalenciaga – He said ““see you later maybe” Maybe? Please try to understand that he just wants money from you. Sometimes he seems nice, but it’s a game he plays while trying to use you for his own benefit. I hope and pray you meet a good guy sometime soon who would treat you as you deserve to be treated!!
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