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I know it’s hard .. But we are all here for you .. 🙂
but can’t you call a car repair company or something?
Or ask someone of they know anyone with a truck that can help you ..
Waiting for your update ..
and when you get home safe .. can you plz give me your opinion on my situation! .. it’s getting more complicated 🙁 ..thanks mema for helping me through this. I called my nephew and he helped me. he tried to give me a boost but it didnt work so it may be the starter or the battery. so my nephew said to call him. I called him twice he didnt get the phone I texted him and then he called me. I asked him where was he at he said he went home because he wasnt feeling well and that where was my car at and I told him and he said Idk what to tell you maybe call the tow truck. so I said ok thanks bye hung up. so I called my insurance and asked if we had road side assistance and they said we did and I got the tow truck to go pick up the car and bring it to where I live, my nephew also took me to pick up my kids at school, so today thank God was taken care of. so Idk how my kids are going to go to school and get picked up and stuff. ugh im stressed. anyways as I was getting my oldest at school he calls and leaves me a voice mail saying I have an idea call me back before I go to the other job. I ignored him. then he called again and ignored it. and then he called again saying I’ve called and tried to help dont say I didnt try to help that he called me a few times, something like that to call the insurance we have roadside assistance and have them take the car to “Your” house and I’ll take a look at it later.(he used the word “your” again.) (im not sure where he really was at but I told my nephew hes probably in that bitches house and watch him call me back when he gets out of there) funny thing is he called me a few minutes later. ugh at least were home now but I need to see what in the world am I going to do about taking them to school this week and what in the world am i going to do about the car and kids. I wanna cry. my nephew told me I need to get control over my emotions which is true but I miss him so much, letting him go is one of the hardest thing I’ll ever have to do. :'( I will never ever ever have him back in my life with me and this stupid bitch cousin doesnt give a shit about me but her stupid self. im so depressed. 🙁 anyone? thanks :'(
im so hurt right now and I know I gotta do me and let him go but I feel like I cant. I want him so bad but feel like I need to let go like everyone is telling me as im only hurting myself, how could he do this to me with that bitch and how could he go to those peoples houses like that and how could he do this after 12 years with me. im crying right now. I wish there was hope to get him back but I have none. I will never ever ever have him back ever again and this really hurts me really bad. :'( idk anymore. :'( I really hope everyone here gets their ex’s back.
Aamls .. you have to stay strong .. first .. you need to calm down .. you should know .. that it’s normal to cry and feel sad and all .. actually it’s healthy ..
and about the emotions control .. you can write in a journal what are you feeling ..
And try next time not to talk to him .. you have to do things without his help ..
stay strong 🙂 ..
We are here with you ^_^thanks mema hes the only person I could count on and now I see hes not even there for me, for some reason I feel that if I get my shit together he may reconsider. meaning a place a job my ged and maybe getting in school, idk I just have to let him be and show him I’ve changed I’ve kinda alrady started changing my way of dressing but I wanna continue to lose weight and do me but its so hard when hes all I want and need or should I say really want him. :'( in reality does anyone giving me any hope of getting him back at all, Im guessing in the future right? I wish there was something I could do to stop the divorce. 🙁 :'(
Just (think positive and positive things will happen)
Don’t ever give up .. look .. once I was with this guy .. he broke up with me like 5 years ago saying I was not good enough for him .. and now .. when he contacted me .. and saw how I become .. he wants me back .. I believed that this moment will come .. and I never lost hope .. that I’ll let him regret this sentence ( I mean this in a nice way ).. and I did .. After 2 years he came back .. begging me to get him back .. but i moved on and was happy with my recent ex .. never lose hope .. it’s never too late .. whenever you are ready .. he will see that .. and he will be begging you to get him back 🙂I wish, in between his fighting he said maybe in the future, idk funny thing is I hope I havent moved on by then or it doesnt take him that long to come back to me. I really miss him and love him but all I have in my head is him looking or having her nasty body in his head and him in hers. :'( ugh and ewww.
man I wanna call him so bad to tell him that I love him and miss him so much and might end up making that mistake omg I dont want to do that im scared I may. crap that’ll backfire. 🙁
Look
.. just focus on yourself .. you’re not doing this for him .. once you realise that you don’t need him .. and you’re complete without him .. you will be better .. you’ll love yourself and believe that it’s his lost .. and when you believe that .. you will see him begging for you to take him back 🙂
I hope you’ll get a new job soon .. and you can go to school again ..
You can do it .. keep your hopes up 🙂thanks mema for all your encouragement for for being there with me today. 🙂 I appreciate it. 🙂 I hope he does. I wonder what his idea was when he called me. :-/ I feel like calling him and telling him I love him so much and miss him and leaving it at that but then I have to deal with him later on when it has to do with the car and kids apparently something is keeping me from doing no contact with him. 🙁 maybe I should have called him when the car messed up. :-/ idk anymore
Your situation is surely chaotic and you won’t solve anything from here. You need to get away from him and start a new life, we’re not just talking a NC but really a new chapter in your life. You’re strong and you can do this, he will come back so don’t worry. Figure out what went wrong between you two and totally ignore him. It should be a constant state of meditation; to think, relax and grow if you understand what I’m saying:) You’re in a really messy situation right now and you just need to trust yourself and realize that you can do this! Make him understand that he’s made the mistake of his life. But first you need to believe that as well, good luck! 🙂
I’m so sorry that you’re going through this with him! It’s a horrible situation but it wasnt long ago that he said that he was considering taking you back so I really don’t think that all hope is lost. For right now the best you can do is to do NC so that you can become stronger and will be able to tackle the situation better. When i mean NC then don’t ignore his calls, treat him nicely when he comes over but also DO NOT engage any contact! Be completely neutral towards him. Don’t call him, don’t text him. If he is at your place then say hi to him. Don’t lock yourself up in your room just coz he is there – it is where you live and you need to show him that. Act confident and you will for sure attract him back. However, if this will be too hard for you then you’ll have to put yourself first and do FULL NC without having any communication with him. The cousin thing you shouldnt worry about AT ALL.. If there is anything there then it will be a rebound and he’ll be doing it to make you jealous!
Aamls, this situation is changing day to day. I know you are tempted to do that, but you need to channel that love into something that will help you get back together with him. I really wouldn’t worry about your cousin. She is a rebound, and this is not permanent. You can do this.
yeah completely agree with what most people are saying. this sure is a chaotic situation. you definitely need to stop all contact with him. i dont know how that will be possible with the kids and stuff.. and if he can still just rock up at your place.. and i know how badly you want to talk to him but you must know that will just make things worse. im so sorry you have to go through this. wish we werent drawn to people hey, it would be much easier to be single our entire lives. but, love is one hell of an experience and roller coaster. the way i look at it, is that its amazing we can feel this way. this love and hurt. its beautiful something can make us feel this sad. We experienced something so great to us and we should be thankful for that. we have to take the good with the bad. Thats life. i know it sounds stupid. things will get better. maybe not in the way we expect or want, but things will. if we let them.
hey everyone thanks for your advise. I feel so hurt and confused all over again. my oldest told me the reason she threw the egg was because she saw him almost laughing when I was talking to him and was why she threw it she told me that if i want him back I have to become strong so i can move through this so I can attract him again that it look as if I were begging him and he was like laughing. well something like that. I really miss him and want him back. I wonder if my story is one of the craziest ones here. :'( I had a dream or thought that I saw wedding outfits or stuff hanging up somewhere and that he was getting married to her. :'( I had remembered that one time I had a night mare with them that i never told anyone. it was that they were together and I had forgot about that nightmare till I mentioned it to someone. that day I woke up and felt a really bad heartache, then I said its only a nightmare and look now it turn to reality, im scared and dont want this to turn out for the worse. :'( I dont want to lose him or let him go. :'( he never called me or text me to see how I was. he called 2 more times after I had gotten a ride to pick up my kids from school. left a message saying he had an idea to call him back another message that dont say he didnt try to help that he called and that to call roadside assistance that we have it and have it tow to “your” house and that he’ll check it out later. anyways after that I never heard from him again, like he didnt care. I feel so scared right now. so instead of calling me he called the house phone asking his mother if the car got tow or something, the house phone died so my youngest called him from her phone. he asked her to ask me if i called roadside assistance. he knows my number and hasnt called or asked if the kids have a way to make it to school tomorrow. my oldest has a 3 day field trip and I have no way to make it to her school as its far. im so confused and scared, he would have let me driven his car before but were not together and hes being very selfish. :'( now idk what to do since I have no car. I felt like texting or calling him because he should help with the kids, because of his obsession with this bitch hes ignoring the kids i’ve notice, he did talk to my youngest for a few seconds and asked for them when he called but that was it. I feel like everything is over for me. :'( what do you guys think of this crazy situation? will I ever get him back? im scared that this stupid dream I had will become real like the nightmare I had and like another dream I had that they stole our car and I told him about it and 3 days later they stole our car. 🙁 I dont need this stuff im dreaming to become real. :'( Im having the worse luck and feel like im going crazy. :'( I really miss him so much. anyone? thanks :'(
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