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I know exactly how u feel. Hang in there! Im also soooo want to text him and break the rules but i know he doesnt even care. In fact i just found out that his new gf realized that they are in honeymoon phase but she doesnt care. As long as she happy with her new charming bf which is mine before!
I know i know. My friends Also asked me to move on and said he choose her instead of me. How cruel is that! They even say just forget about him because he has her and he will forget about me! Im soooo sad 🙁 they seems like they dont understand how i feel. But my other friends sho know about his new gf and have met her before, they laughed so hard and they said “they are in honeymoon stage. Just sit and watch another few months”
Oh my. I cant wait for another months 🙁 and in not sure about this rebound either. 🙁
@aryyan: I wrote a text to him today. But i didnt send it. i wrote that i still has hive card and if i should give it to him next week, or if we two could go out together if thats okay with him… but then i deleted it and let it be..im scared as hell that he would write no just give me the card and thats it…..
Ugh that sucks.. but after the honeymoon phase is over, you will see how they will continue with their relationship you know…🙁 I hope for our best that he will not just forget about you… it cant be that easy, maybe now while he has another girl to fill up the empty spot that was yours to fill up… I believe its very hard for you… but, give yourself time and he will maybe come around !!
Phewwww thats good you deleted it. How long u have been doing ur nc? Is he texting you or find u when u no around him?
Hurm. Well, im not sure about honeymoon phase. Its been 6 weeks and they seems very happy. Im afraid he will totally forget about me because of her. Maybe he is not bored with her at all. How can he will come around if she took his mind bring him joy 🙁 ? Sigh
I feel the same. I’ve been working so very hard to get my ex back. And so far most people are saying good things. He’s been snapchatting me everyday pretty much since we broke up. I’ve been praying and working hard to get him back. I don’t think there’s anything else I can do right besides wait, and I’m getting very impatient and part of me wants to give up. I just don’t know what to do while I wait, It’s driving me crazy. I feel that we will get back together sometime, and last night I started feeling that something good was goint to happen to me…I just don’t know what to do right now
Oh dear. You are so lucky 🙁 at least he gave you respond or you know a bit news about him. Just wait and be patient. Keep improve yourself physically and mentally
Im not sure about mine tho. I dont feel like we r getting back together since he has someone else completely happy for them. Sigh
@aryyan he’s in a rebound with a coworker (and i heard it’s not that great lol, but things like that just don’t work out) he showed all signs that he still loves me. I feel that I have fixed the reasons why we broke up, I just don’t know how to show him. It made it hard for me to NC because he would snapchat me literally everyday. One day he did 6 times. I tried to talk to him, but now he’s doing the push/ pull thing. I trust what my gut says, I’m just getting very impatient. I’ve worked so very hard for this, and I know he still wants me somewhere deep down. I just don’t know what to do now
@aryyan: today is day 10 no contact. and no he doesnt text, he3 doesnt ask anyone how i am.. A friend told me that they were hanging out yesterday (he is with the same group at this moment… all of a sudden he is always with them,tho he told me he cant stand being TOO much with them, they are annoying kids who smoke pot lol).. he told me yesterday my ex started talking about me, when he came he was like ; oh you can go banging her now and he said it in a joke,and that now there are enough girls in my village he can bang, including me…. he also said that he is not going to be with me anymore…) and that friend said that he looks okay, not sad… hmm and that he started talking about me (nothing in patricular, just that i have things i need to deal with and that his decision is still the same – not gonna be with me anymore..)also i have his card, he said he is gonna come to me to take it, that is not a problem, but he said just not yet…. sigh i feel sad honestly devastated and torn into pieces. He didnt contact me still tho its been 10 days.. they dont know him the way I do… they dont know he can fake being okay and not sad or like soething is wrong/missing in his life… Should i stop the NC and ask him if he wants to go for a coffee as a friend… idk i feel like i should give up and try to get over him… he told me the day he broke up with me, that i should forget about him.. his decision was clear, and still is… I feel like he does still care and love me, but he just doesnt wanna go through what he did already… and he was really drunk yesterday but he didnt really miss me or anything if i look at the fact he didnt text me/call me… sigh. and our same friends dont wanna hang out with me cause i am a breakdown and cant talk anything else than about my ex… they dont call me to come out, if he is around cause it would be awkward (for them more than us i think..) I just cant believe how someone who prefers being alone his whole life can just get over someone who he was with 5 months and the connection we had…… WHY WOULD HE START THE CONVERSATION DIRECT ABOUT ME WHEN HE COMES OUT AFTER ALMOST 2 WEEKS… doesnt that mean that he has my in his mind…
idk about it aryyan, i really hope you wont be in a bigger pain that you are now. it seems like they do really enoy eachother company, but it cant be permanent..
@confused girl: it seems like he isnt ready to comletly let go of you.Today he text me at late night and said “where have u been? Why u didnt reply anything?”
I was really shock. I though he doesnt care about me because he doesnt contact me and he seems very happy with his girlfriend now. But i didnt reply his msg yet. I dont know whats in his mind but i know he still seems happy with her. Thats why i still keep remain silence. Maybe he realized that i dont update anything in social media and dont reply him it must be really weird to him. But im still not fully improve myself. I will text him later with new me. Interesting of me.
Dont text him. U said he was drunk and he seems fine and dont sad and all. Maybe because he has spmeone else but if he moved so fast and seems fine why he drunk? People said happiness is best revenge. Indeed it is. But the most happy people is the saddest people. They so greAt in hiding their feelings because they can do in very short time period. The more fast he rebound, it means the more pain he has to force himself. He seems confused from what i see.
You dont want to look so miserable. There is a lot of activities you can do to make you happy. It takes time i know but its ok. At least u allowing urself to accept happiness willingly, and push the pain without any forcing. You cant hang out with ur friends, thats fine. You can listen to music. Do yoga, play with cats. Anything that for u seems to look little, belive me it will give u a good mood even just a little. We cant force ourselve to be happy so fast unless u have that big ego and immature attitude to show to the world that u r so happy but actually u r not one day u will realized. He is in denial and has soneone else right now, one day, that one finest day that your pain will be his pain so fast and his happiness u will get. Good things will cone for those who wait, work hard, hope and believed. Not just wait
Awwww you are so lucky. He still shows he loves you even broke up and try to snapchat with u everyday. It seems that u have hope tho. I think u just need to do false friendship and improve urself to be new u. U dont have to change all of u. Just be u and better. He will attract to u more because u r not ur old u. U r interesting, positive and fun woman but at the same time u support him and he will feel confortable
@arryan: its good u didnt answer him right away. Idk if i was strong enough not to answer my ex , good job. hopefully after you text him with the improved you, he will realize what he is missing. 🙂
well honestly he does not have anyone else… he is by himself alone at home,work i was his FIRST OVE AND GIRLFREND.he told them he is not a relationship person(after we broke up) and he told me before we were together that relationships and love..is not an exiting thing for him and that it wont be… or with that group of people, who are from the same area as we are… they used to drink together just like yesterday…, he didnt drink a lot alcohol while we were together, he wasnt getting totally drunk, yesterday he did.i feel like he is living his life just like before he met me and that its not a problem for him.. ya i do, i went out with my old friend yesterday, we were hanging for hours, i had a good time, but bad also… when i play with my cats my heart hurts, cause he was the one who brought them to me he picked them up for me… my friends are telling me to move on that he doesnt want to be with me anymore blah blah…. i am trying to get a hold on myelf, and all, but this morning everything broke down again… i am starting to realize he is actually really no longer in my life at the moment… but that friend coming and telling me all that.. he unbalanced me hardcore… while he is having fun, and being with our friends i am a mess and missing him.. and hoping and believing for the best… and he still doesnt wanna be with me..
ok 10 days for a boy dumping you is not a lot… he would need more time to realize he atually misses me etc…. but oh my god.. why would he start saying things like our friends can bang me now, since we are not together anymore… why would he even try to think of me and make sure they know it. those 17 year old pot smokersdont get anything betwen the lines he might say/do/think….
Hopefully he will see it. He has someone else and he is happy but i dont know. Deep down in my heart i feel like he is missing me because we used to text everyday even once a day. And suddenly i remain silence witnout any updates for 11 days now. I donw what he will think of me
Well, it seems unfair for u isnt it? To see him happy without u plus he seems fine alone and still dont want to be with u, it hurts right? Well im not going to tell u mived on blah blah blah. Yah they told me that too. Its bored. So bored because u have to have that strong and full of energy to force urself to move on. Well im not. And im sure u r not either. What im going to say is improve urself. Thats the only way u can have ur time to heal ur pain and find ur happiness for u even just little. Do new exciting activites. U never play guitar? Go learn the guitar. U dont know how to wear nake up? Never go ti gym? Go for it. Slowly but keep busy with ur day with full exciting days. Its up to u want to post it or not. Right now, ur friends and even ur ex see how niserable u r. Ur friends maybe dont like it but ur ex bf? Do u want him to see u like this? Dont u want to drop his jaw down? Because of u? He will think that u r such weak girl. And he is so great because he can manage it. If u cant have him, then u have to accept but u need to clear what he thoughts about u especially the negative one. Clear it. Then he will see and realized
Anyway, i just have to open one of my social media to submit my works to my leader anddddddddd i saw his pic. Only him. He is so gorgeous and i like his shirt. So nice. But…… I saw his gf comment his pic. And other friends asked her “is that your gf? So handsome! You r soo lucky!” And she said “yes he is my bf. Of course he is!”
I was like…urgh!!! She reAlly has to show to the world like a girl like her can get this beauty man? Like… Seriously?? Urgh im so pissed off right now
@aryyan: ya probably he does, its not like you dont cross his thoughts, at least once a day.. he is probably really wondering what happened with you… do his friends never talk about you with him or anything so he might know how you are doing? cause my friends talk to him about me, how sad i am how i am in a false hope of getting back together etc.. he knows everything he shouldnt know,so no wonder he doesnt contact me and ask about me/my life. and im mad about it. i wanna forget about him too, and then someone comes and tells me what they were doing how he was joking around blah blah, but same time they want me to move on and forget about him.. then they shouldnt talk to me about him, ofc i get curious then how he i, or if he is just faking it cause he knows it will come to my ear about how he is doing fine…. blah blah
the same i know about my ex. i sure cross his head everyday, but it does seem like he is really ok without me in his life, he can manage to go out, talk about things, not me etc etc..while everyone else gets annoyed by me talking about him or the memories i have on him, lol idk what else to talk about when i talk about past events (all the events were with him).. But all the negative things he said, idk are there just negative things about me inside his head?.. he doesnt even want to think in a positive way about me as i know him… he always told me just my negatives and never ever he told me what he actually loves about me and what made him fall in love with me… only the bad. he is pessimistic about people. i give too much time to think of him and not enough to concentrate on myself. i am improving myself and my life… my ex also knows i wanted to commit suicide few times before, also it hurts him knowing that I wanna do it now, especially now when he dumped me, but i can not make him feel quillty for the rest of his life i dont think thats okay. He will come to me in few days i think to get his card, but I will ask him to go on a coffee that i really need to be frinds with him , so its easier for me to get over him. I just want him to stay in my life in any kind of way and hope for him to want me back in some time. it needs to be his idea of getting back together not mine.
@arryan: ohmy :s this is really nerv breaking for you i suppose… she needs the world to know she has a beautiful boyfriend blah blah… … im sure she doesnt know her boyfriend wrote to his ex what she is up to and why you’re not responding to him..so thats actually a + 🙂 he will see her bragging about having such a amazing boyfriend, while you will not answer his text.. it will make him think more about you even if he wont realize it so soon.. and the more he will hide his thinking about you, the more he will think of you, and eventually he will think of you while being with her..
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