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It’s funny. At the time my game plan was originally to leave a pleasant voice mail, which I did, but he called me back while I was leaving it. I didn’t think I would actually talk to him!
Well… It was Wednesday morning when I called and spoke to him. I told him I would get back to him about meeting on Sat. I waited till Friday to call. I called yesterday and left a voice mail asking if he was still available, what time etc. Told him to give me a call back and let me know. I haven’t heard from him, and have not and will not call again. It wouldn’t surprise me if he didn’t call because once we meet and I get my stuff back then there will be nothing left to tie me to him, other than showing his cards wanting me back. Either that or he didn’t call because he wanted to wait a day or two as not to seem desperate, since he did call me back so fast wednesday morning and suggested meeting. Or of course he is just busy. It’s funny because all the things in the 5 step plan apply to boyfriend getting girlfriend back and girlfriend getting boyfriend back so I can’t fault him for doing the same thing that I am doing. Needless to say, it’s a long road.
I do alot of those things anyway. I run/walk around 3 miles 3-4 times a week. Got my hair done. Need to do my toes. Been wearing makeup every day. My friends tell me I look great, eventhough they know I’m broken hearted. I am reading a new book. I bought some sexy sandles and a new skirt. Always trying to be productive.
We were only together for 2 months, both in our mid 40’s and want the same things in life. Were so much alike. Talk about empty words, he told me he was deeply in love with me 7 weeks in. He was very in touch with his feelings, very spiritual, a sixth sense kind of guy. My gut tells me he was genuine. Sometimes I think he got scared and broke it off. Tired of trying to figure it out.
Hi all,
Having a hard time today. I have had moments where I totally know we will get back together in time, only because of how good we were together. How we really got eachother. Then there are times when I just can’t believe what has happened. I miss talking to him. I miss his laugh and smile… It’s tough though when I talk to friends who give me the look when I say that I haven’t heard from him in almost 3 weeks. Explaining the whole NC thing got old after the first few friends. Funny, I bet a million bucks he is doing NC on me. I bet he is reading all the same stuff I am reading. Anyway, having trouble sleeping, and getting stuff done. Especially the things I don’t want to do in the first place. But definately getting back on track. It sucks.Thanks for the input. The thing is that we were only together for 2 months. We are both in our mid 40’s, we both know what we want which is a long term relationship, even marriage eventually. We got along really good, infact it almost freaks me out how alike we were. I could see him doing the exact same things, and saying the same things I say. He was the one to tell me how deeply in love with me he was in such a short time, among other things. Was it all bull?
I have my moments. Over the past few weeks I have been journaling and talking with friends. Going out and so forth. I am just tired. It is emotionally draining to try to stay busy when you are bummed.
He broke up with his ex a year ago. She cheated on him while he was over the road trucking. He was trying to better his life\their life but she kept nagging.. So he said. We have been dating since the beginning of June. Broke up 2 1\2 weeks ago.
