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    terrorcat1
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    So It’s been a month. Time will tell if we will get back together. I’m OK with that. I have my own life, at the moment I feel good. So I thought about it and decided to call him to make arrangements to get my tablet back. No expectations. So I called and got voicemail, I started to leave a nice message telling him that I hoped he was well, and that I wanted to make arrangements to get my tablet back. Before I even finished leaving the message I got a beep. I looked at my phone and it was him. To my surprise. I picked up and said, hey I was just leaving him a voicemail about the tablet. He said he was meaning to get that back to me. He said he had it right in front of him. I told him that I still had a couple of unimportant things of his that I wanted to return. He said they were no big deal, I could keep or toss. Then he suggested Saturday to meet up and get my tablet. Not expecting to actually talk to him at that moment, I really hadn’t thought about when to get the tablet, I didn’t know if he was even going to pick up the phone, let alone call me immediately. I was unprepared for setting up a meeting. So I told him that I didn’t know what was going on by this weekend, that it was only Wednesday. I said I had work Saturday morning, then he said we could meet Saturday afternoon. He started telling me about his work schedule (which I already knew about, duh) and somehow got onto something about working on his house. So I told him that I would have to let him know about Saturday, and said Bye.

    I really don’t have any expectations, but it did seem promising. He called me before I even finished leaving a message, suggested to meet up, had been thinking about my tablet, which means he has been thinking about me one way or another.

    We will see…

    #3896
    sunshinegirl
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    I’m happy for you now you’re feeling good!
    And I hope everything will work out for you!
    Best of luck!

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    mm888
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    That is SO exciting!!!!!!! Let us know how it goes!

    #4475
    terrorcat1
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    Well… It was Wednesday morning when I called and spoke to him. I told him I would get back to him about meeting on Sat. I waited till Friday to call. I called yesterday and left a voice mail asking if he was still available, what time etc. Told him to give me a call back and let me know. I haven’t heard from him, and have not and will not call again. It wouldn’t surprise me if he didn’t call because once we meet and I get my stuff back then there will be nothing left to tie me to him, other than showing his cards wanting me back. Either that or he didn’t call because he wanted to wait a day or two as not to seem desperate, since he did call me back so fast wednesday morning and suggested meeting. Or of course he is just busy. It’s funny because all the things in the 5 step plan apply to boyfriend getting girlfriend back and girlfriend getting boyfriend back so I can’t fault him for doing the same thing that I am doing. Needless to say, it’s a long road.

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