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Yes, of course be there by his side. He might think you cut him off. Maybe start nc in a couple of days, after he stabilize.
The surgery was about something serious? I’m asking because he might just wanted to spare you from seeing him suffering,and sick in the hospital.Actualy, is truly remarcable your activity on the website here. You are the type of person that helps the others and leave her on the last place.
Try change your way of clothing if you are not a dress person try to pay him a visit in a dress- or the other way around.
Signs are good for you.
Try to do some hair colour change – something like that.
I m sure you re awesome and need to be a little bit different. To shock his ideea of you.
The beauty is in the eye of the beholder- so diĺfferent it means beauty.
I m a model, and actualy that worked a little bit against me, making my ex to have a low self esteem, and a lot of jealousy crises.after i quited he fell out of love with me -due to the fact i didn t shine so much.
So get better not worse, let him get wraped in work, u ll shine anyway – even in a sport outfit.
And go pay him a visit.
Thank you for kindness and reply even on my crazy situation.Thank you Patricia, i think it is right. I ll go Nc . My mom and the rest of my friends told me that i should go an subdued
nc , meaning responding to their question from time to time and not accepting the guilt that he s shoving of my throat.
Because he wants to make me take the blame.1. Look deep inside in your heart. He has been atracted to you in the past?
Like real attraction not that fullish thing somethimes friends do, even get to bed togheter.
If not, he may never see you as a girlfiend
If yes, than he scared himself really badly that you may throw himself on him.
He had any kinds of serious relationships during the 4th year? Maybe he s not the relationship type and dont want to loose that support in you.
How closed where you? Really really close or just friends .
Did he implicated you in any decision making,or you’re just friendly with each other.You have to respond to theese questions sincerely, even if it hurts.
He might want you only for friendship, on the other hand he might have friendzoned you in a worst possible time( before anythimg happen between you and him)Keep Going with nc- it will make him think about you- wantimg to see your face agsin
The obsessing is very unapealing and unhealthy. After nc i suggest you not to tell him you did nc, just gotsome troubles on your own and got to disappear.
Make sure you get attention from men and that he sees that. It will burn a little jealousy inside him.
Make sure you improve your behaviour ( be more like a lady if with him you ve been like a bar mate, or viceversa)
Make sure you look stunning. Clothing, hair make up get lenses if you have glasses- everything must be stunning and pretty much new. I know it s an investment but it is your only shot.And never disclose if you have a boyfriend- avoid the discussion. So he might get a sense of losing you
Been through that for a long long period of time. So i speak from experience and what i read.
I don’t know how many of theese traits(i listed above) your boyfriend has,but he, for sure has at least any.They rarely commit, for real because they need constant gratification and apreciation -and if you re mad at him, he’ll take his dosage elswhere.
It’s all about they’re needs and not about yours. It s about the way you make them feel not how you feel.
They very rarely can understand and accept that you may have other problems besides his promblems or imaginary problems.
If you get back togheter you have to describe to him exactly how you re feeling so he can put himself in your shoes.
He can only understand situations by imaginating that those would be lived by him.
And besides that you should make him understand that you are there by his side, but never be 24/7 his mom, sister, chef so on and so forth.
Try sharing responsabilities with him.And now the good part. Due to the fact that he’s so egoccentric, and percieve you like some pray (that doesn’t mean that he doesn’t have feelings) he’ll come back at least to see if you’re still yours.
Never give him reasurances and nothing safe so the ciccle will begin again.
Complicated? Yes it is and you get tired with time. If you re here i guess it s worth it.Maybe because they’re so narcisistic we love them so much .
I hope you find peaceYes, he s treated me badly, humiliated me public with that girl. But o still believe in him and what we have.
What was your question, it was a rethorical one?Well in my oppinion she might be tired of your ego pushing her away.Is it ego,right?
Maybe by making you sexual aproaches it was her way of make up with you.
It s easy at a young age to feel unwanted, undisired and lower your self esteem.I know what are you thinking even if you got yourself thinking that she s dating another guy,don t beat yourself over it.
If he s younger is even better, she ll see the difference between him and you. I m sure you treatrd her nicely and well manared, like a gentleman.
The kids her age doesn t share theese values yet. So if she s in a rebound , odds are in your favour and if she s single even better.Keep the nc, don t respon to her texts imediately, and if you do – make sure you reasure her, politely, that you are in a no contact period , for the sake of both.
No further details.
Chances are she might have been influenced by fsmily friends, so you have good odds of getting her back.
Stick to the plan
