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agree with @marin
call, if they don’t call you back, or shoot you a text, then don’t talk for at least a week. Over contacting after 30 days can almost undo everything you went through for those 30 days because it will give them that “dang they are being needy” feeling and makes your time not talking to them waisted because they have a negative impression already
@Marin that is really great advice, a text gives them the upper hand, they know what you are there for can take time to over think and you may get an unfavorable reply or no reply. At least if you have a missed call, the texting after would be more acceptable and a missed call doesn’t put you so far out there, def a curiosity builder. That keeps thing in your control alittle
sorry just read your previous post, Honestly. I broke up recently with my best friend and i did the same thing. We went through a lot, ill save the story for now. But our goal was to be together and timing was always bad. We was friends through multiple relationships and it caused a lot of hurt between us that by time we got together it was so much damaged history that it couldn’t work.
So to now, post break up. My ex before my best friend who i was in love with and my best friend never got over really was tagged in my photos, we still had photos up, on my page. I deleted every picture of her, even fond memories and great pictures, untagged anything from our mutual friends that had to do with her and the whole nine yards, and this is like maybe 6 months after we broke up which was in march officially.
Im giving you my mentality so you may understand his. I did it because the girl i was dating knew of my past relationship, and details about it. Caused my new relationship with her to fail, in turn my unhappiness holding on to the past. So now that we have broken up, I’ve deleted all the history of my ex and our mutual friends in order to have a clean slate for the future, be seen as “ME” and not have that as part of my history, so he is more than likely doing the same thing. Especially if this girl knows about you, having you showing up on his stuff won’t fair well with anybody he is attempting to see.
