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hi alexa, i can’t promise anything but, my break up was very similar as my ex just went all out after we broke up, started overdoing social networks, going out everyday, with people i have never seen in my life. i obviously could not confront her about it but when i did it caused more anger than happiness. she never got over me but rather put me aside and tried to just leave that book on the table but not read it. after a while he will be alone and start thinking back at the relationship and decide if it was an amazing one or not. i was lucky that i could send sad messages stating how amazing our relationship and bond was without getting fought with. i finally decided to end the chase because i realised my self worth, thats what you need to do, look at yourself and think, are you really only capable of getting this person or somebody even better than them? doth get me wrong i thought i was the luckiest man alive with my ex BUT as soon as you gain your self worth you’ll realise that you running behind someone or crying everyday is not making a difference to them and they don’t respect you enough to even care.
somehow i told my ex goodbye and now she messages me daily about her whereabouts and what she is up to. this all happened after i gave up chasing and obsessing.You’re in a good position. just make sure you want her back. Don’t talk about instagram or anything she said. Send an sms whenever you think it’s time and just tell her about something cool happening around you and how it made you reminded you of her. See if she replies and take it from there. Don’t get ahead of yourself. I made this mistake. Just give it time and things will happen. For the best. Don’t ever try call her. Well for now
Hey anonymous111 I was in the same problem, well kind of. All I did was sent her some roses that said happy birthday. From me. Done, nothing less, nothing more. She then said thanks twice. I was on day 26 at the time and I messaged her on the Monday being my 28 days saying its a pleasure. So try and just send the little one a present and a card for your ex. Drop it off when nobody is there. You want to do it because they mean a lot to you, not because you want recognition
Guys… Please help. PLEASE. So sent her some roses for her birthday(amazing double delight roses) and bought some bones for her dog that I bought fir her a year ago. Today is day 28 NC. she messaged me twice. Just saying thanks for the flowers and then saying a proper thank you for the flowers. Should I reply and say “its a pleasure” or must I not reply.
Please advise
Hi people. So tomorrow is my ex s birthday. I’m touching 4 weeks of no contact on Monday. Just dropping off a bouquet of roses to her house later, leaving it with her sister. Good idea?
Last night I found out that she contacted my best friend to meet up, last weekend, obviously about us. Is this a good or bad thing? ( he is in a long term relationship and she said she hates him but she is going to these extremes to get in contact with someone in my life?)
hi guys, please can you give me more insight…
so I’ve been on stalk mode on my ex recently because it was our anniversary on monday and since then she has been changing her ppic on whatsapp every few hours, is she doing it to try and make me jealous or what? do you think i should do the same or keep the picture i have (an individual photo from when we went on holiday)
Can somebody please give me some insight into my situation above. I’m just so confused as how this just happened and I’m scared that I lost the most amazing person ever…to me
Hi guys. Wow I’m on day 12 of NC and everybody around me is telling me to message her, just a hi how you doing… My gutt says I shouldn’t.
Monday is our anniversary. Hope it makes her wonder. How do you guys get over the terrible feeling in your stomach? Let me explain. She is the love of my life, she has invaded every part of my life, I get reminders on my laptop, ipad because she set them up, all contacts on my phone have weird pictures because she messed them up. I look at any piece of item I own she had some part in the way it looked or it’s modifications.
I know she broke up with me because of my insecurities and I’m working on them BUT she has blocked any access between us, everybody is telling me she did that because she knew you’d look (very technologically advanced) but even on whatsapp I’ve been blocked. I obviously know ways of still messaging her but why block me. iMessage, whatsapp, Twitter, Facebook, Instagram, viber and I don’t even know if my calls and SMS s can go through because I haven’t tried. Feels like the NC is pointless because she blocked me anyway… What do you guys think.
I am the first guy she loved and we were amazing together, we were best friends and soul mates and now she just posts pictures with her long childhood girlfriend and hashtags BFF all the time.
hi guys, so i saw a post by a mutual friend on instgram and i clicked his likes to see who liked it and my Ex was one of them. she blocked me on all fronts even before she broke up with me. i kind of found her profile by creating a new one (yes psycho) but i have to know and she has been posting so much and all happy throwbacks (this only happened after she asked for a break) before ethat she never used instagram. the most recent 1 is of her and her friend thats been like that since they were 3. she posted it as “best throwback in my life” and #bff it hurts because she bought be a dumb best friend heart and put half on her keys and the other in my wallet….makes me wonder if she is worth fighting for… to go through all of this
hi guys, thanks for the replies, i mean it’s our official anniversary. on the 1st of september but thanks. will just send a small happy birthday message
