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I’ve send it.
And he aswered right away.him: Ehy,the motorbike should arrive wednesday. At least I really hope!:D
me: this wednesday?!
him: yes that’s right!!!!! 😀
me: ahahah tha’s really good! the agony is finally over! So how are you doing? everything’s alright? 🙂
him: I hope it is! because if there are any problems I’ll have to wait again. I’m doing fine by the way,you?
me: No come on,there will be no problems you’ll see, so that you can finally enjoy it for the rest of the summer! XD
I’m great,just came back from vacation. Btw I wanted to ask if you and the others are doing anything tonight,because I have something to propose to you all
him: oh I’m sorry but for tonight we have already spent, how about another time? I’ll let you know,ok?
me: that’s alright don’t worry, let me know ^_-. Have a good night!=DI thik it went well…?
So I already knew from his mother, that he was out with his friends (probably dinner)so I suspected that probably they wouldn’t go out after, so I was not surprised.uhm now what?…I wait? or I “attack” again tomorrow (maybe too soon) or I let a couple of days pass?
We used to meet up with everyone on 9.30 pm, now in italy are 6:15 pm….I’m running out of time!!
I really wanna go out with everyone tonight especially because is a lot of time that I don’t see them, but to do so I need to contact him and then ask him about tonight.
I don’t want to be annoying especially because there are people in worse situation than me who maybe needs more attention, but I really need a push here.
Is that message ok?ps: we didn’t fought or anything, and I didn’t stalk him so he is not in any way angry at me,and he doesn’t seems to have anyone right now.
uhm…I’m trying to think of something that would not made me seem desperate or weird.
1) what if I ask him how is doing about the motorbike?..I know from his mother that he’ll be able to use it in mid august, so the date is actually near enough for me to ask him about it? Maybe something like:
-Hey, this is a bit random,but on vacation I saw a lot of people with the same model of motorbike as the one that we went to see (or the one that he bought, I’m not sure if I should remember him that we went to see it together).
Just wondering if everything is alright with it, when will you be able to use it?I think that’s the best shot I can give…I mean is the most realistic thing that I can ask him about.
There is the element of GSI(his love for the motorbike)and my interest of that, and there is the Bliss reminder.
If I succed to start a little conversation maybe I can ask what his and our friends are doing tonight and suggest a meet up all together since is a lot of time that I don’t see them.what do you think? is this good? suggestions?
Yeah I think I should send a message to him first instead of his friend…that’s actually the biggest thing to do, I’m so scared to do that….I don’t want to fail that step because is the most important one to do.
I’m not sure about the text versions that I’ve read, I mean I don’t know how to apply them to my case.
Does anyone have some ideas?
his interest are:
-he likes to do sports and he often offer to be my trainer sometimes ( run together, do some exercise like abs or pushups….). I often asked him to give me some advice about what kind of exercise to do.-soon he’ll be able to use his new motorbike, which is a thing that we both looked forward to (we actually went to see it together some days before the break up). We have made so many plans , like go on vacation with it, or just spent the day out with it
-he likes to go out and have fun, and for that I actually thought about that amusment park, or the acquatic park
uhm I at loss for that message, I know that the rest will come natural (I have no problem to be all smile, fun and attractive , I know what he likes)…it is just the first step..
some example?
sakura: thanks for the kind words, I’ll read your story for sure, not sure if I’ll be able to help you because I don’t feel at all an expert in the case, but I’ll try!
