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She wants to have her cake and eat it to don’t be her sloppy seconds bro. If u love her then she isn’t loving u first off by casually sleepin with anther man an still being sexual to u. It means she enjoys the physical part of relationship with U but is no longer commiter or seeing u as a bf. I would be honest with her and prob move on.
No It does help thank you. I think your right. So nc prob is better plan again. Anyone else agree?
I know how u feel, Iv even thought up complex plans to cause my ex to breakup with her rebound. It’s a maddening depressive dark hole it feels like and the ligjt is not there . When I gt dumped by my ex , not my current ex, but befoe her I felt there was no ligjt then too. And I felt nobody woiod tske her place and then met my current ex who fell for. It’s along long story . But anyways I’m back in the dark hole . The unknown scares me and my social circle is next to none due to both relationships. Anyway tske each dy as it comes . And honestly the stalking and obsessing will always feel like an elephant on ur chest u must stop it . Everytime I stop talking to my ex I start feeling better my mind starts clearing mind u I have like no social outlet . But the moment she texts me or has trouble in paradise she will get soft to me. It brings me up ! And then slams me down . All while I’m trhing to get her back it’s a real confusing crappy situation but time will tell time is the mighty healer and truth in all our realities so tske each day every single day as a quest to keep u happy ! Not anything else tbise are my thoughts I’m no professional and have no clue how to get my x back my only lesson is of the nc rule it does Actuallt help u feel better so stop trhing to know everything he is doing at least for while till u get stronger babe
If she’s not with someone new and she is contacting u daily and still being flirty I would set up a date maybe not a romantic one but an activity to have some laughs . Have a few drinks see how it goes . It’s tough to say u know her better then we do . The first part of the plan nc seemed to work for u .
Sounds like mission complete I would initiate more dates and not let her slip away congrats man if u love her that’s awesome news . Don’t rush tbings and close the deal. I wish I had thah chance again but I’m in te idk stage of wtf moments from day to day lol
Thank you for your quick reply ! At what point do u open communication ? What’s the signal im waiting on ? In my mind it was tactical to know what’s going on to be the shoulder to lean on and sweep he back of her feet when shit is bad with the new guy . I am open to follow advise here .
