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even if I manage those things..I don’t beleive there’s a chance the plan would work for me if he’s still with his gf..I’ve already tried those things twice in a year..
Thanks for the help, I really understand what is good for me and what you’re saying but it’s difficult to control my feelings when he’s the one I was dreaming about since the first time i saw him(and that’s 10 years ago).
How can you go on a date with someone you don’t like and you’re not interested with?It would be very akward.. :/It may make no sense but going on a date will help you gain your self confidence back.and you will realize that you can attract so many people.
You don’t have to be worried about her gf or anything.that doesn’t matter.i know so many people who got their exes back in the similar situation.self confidence maybe, but what can you do when you can’t beleive anyone’s words anymore??
I know it can happen…to other people..I have so much bad luck I don’t expect anything..You don’t need to believe every one you are dating.you just wanna have a good time.
And about what you said,thats how i used to feel.i kept telling myself how am i supposed to trust someone again?if my ex lied about his love for me so what about others?
Trust me,you won’t even think about what he did later and you can trust again.Yes, but some of them lie to your face and that annoys me so much.. I hope it’s true what you say but still i find it difficult. I mean I don’t want to trust anyone!
Yesterday i saw he changed his fb pic and his photo is so similar to mine! i don’t get it! If he does it on purpose or no..but i try not to use fb much anyway
what do you think?I think you shouldn’t stalk him or even check his profile.i believe your ex still thinks about you but when you check his profile,it really stops you from being happy and makes things more confusing.
Work on yourself and trust me everything is gonna be better.
Best of luckSakura,
I agree with a.z.! Don’t stalk him and focus on yourself! Shunt him from your life for a while!
I also agree that others may lie on their purpose for a relationship, but its not everyone! There are a lot of gentlemen and ladies out there!
Thank you a.z. and Dara..
I don’t stalk him, but when i log in on fb i can’t help what I’ll see in my page! I have to talk to him 2 months now, I’m on holidays so I have some company to keep my mind occupied but i have no idea what to do next! I don’t want to ask him again about the money, I don’t like being annoying like that even if I’m right to do so..
I just wonder..how long should i wait??If fb is really stopping you from being happy,deactivate your account fro a little while.you are still obsessed with him.once you stop taking even a small dose of your ex,you will feel really better.
I really don’t know if this is a good time to say anything about the money.actually i have no idea about it.I have tried this in the past but I really can’t get any happy, just more anxious.. :/ and besides that that’s the only thing I have to show that I’m ok,having fun and so on.. I just wonder how long should I wait?
I’m sorry you are feeling this way.but seriously,you are the only one who can make you happy.try to find a way.stop your obsessions.go out.have some fun.you need some time to heal.and you should continue NC as long as you feel this way.i’m sorry i don’t really know how i can help you.thats all i can say.you should help yourself.
I know how u feel, Iv even thought up complex plans to cause my ex to breakup with her rebound. It’s a maddening depressive dark hole it feels like and the ligjt is not there . When I gt dumped by my ex , not my current ex, but befoe her I felt there was no ligjt then too. And I felt nobody woiod tske her place and then met my current ex who fell for. It’s along long story . But anyways I’m back in the dark hole . The unknown scares me and my social circle is next to none due to both relationships. Anyway tske each dy as it comes . And honestly the stalking and obsessing will always feel like an elephant on ur chest u must stop it . Everytime I stop talking to my ex I start feeling better my mind starts clearing mind u I have like no social outlet . But the moment she texts me or has trouble in paradise she will get soft to me. It brings me up ! And then slams me down . All while I’m trhing to get her back it’s a real confusing crappy situation but time will tell time is the mighty healer and truth in all our realities so tske each day every single day as a quest to keep u happy ! Not anything else tbise are my thoughts I’m no professional and have no clue how to get my x back my only lesson is of the nc rule it does Actuallt help u feel better so stop trhing to know everything he is doing at least for while till u get stronger babe
thank you.. at least your ex talks to you..My ex just ignores me.. I guess it’s more difficult with him cause I’ve been wanting him for so many years,I thought I could never have him and when I did I was so stupid to lose him..So that’s killing me. I do as you say duma, but I just can’t feel complete.I just pray each day for something good to happen. I have no idea what to do..
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