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She downgraded me! I Actually feel better and nc is easier now lol what the heck. Dude looks like a terrible version of marshal from how I met your mother , perhaps getting my ex back will be easier . I did nc then fell back into contact and it’s been 2.5 months . Is it good idea to go back into nc? Me and her tex still but she’s always with the guy now and it makes me feel crappy how she is cold to me, yet when sometimes when she’s not with him she softens up to me . I don’t want to be her emotional tampon to cry to when her paradise is havin issues and in the same respect I don’t wants her to feel I no longer love her . So confusin this whole game
I think she want to put you in safety-net or back-up plan. The only one who agree to put you in that place is YOU. So, you need to get off from this situation. Sometimes, you need to show her like you feel nothing to her, just cool. If she knows very well that you love her though she’s with guy, she won’t respect you. She will think she can get you whenever she wants. i’m sorry if this can’t help you.
No It does help thank you. I think your right. So nc prob is better plan again. Anyone else agree?
I’m in your same situation.
My ex and I broke up. Not too long ago after that I find out she’s talking to someone else and let me tell you, dude isn’t the nicest looking.She downgraded with me too big time! As far as I know, it’s been a month and she still has contact wth him. I also believe he’s a rebound. The last time she saw me she told me that maybe in a month or so we can try it again (safety net).
I felt just like you when I found out. So confident and happy that she downgraded. But best thing to do is forget about the other guy becuase even though you don’t see him as a threat your mind will still wonder what they do. Believe me it’s unnecessary pain. So just focus on yourself only. As far as you know there is no other guy. NC will help you become more desirable
Good luck
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