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  • #33290
    shelden21
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    There will only be one of her and one of you in this world! Make it happen man!

    #33309
    Gingerone
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    Thanks dude your right I need to be more positive! I will win her trust back I will win her heart back!!!

    #33310
    shelden21
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    Exactly man! Make the impossible possible! Don’t trust your friends that say let her go and all this cause they aren’t true friends if they do that! Did the Spartans give up with they were outnumbered? No they took control and won! They believed in themselves and look what happened!

    #33392
    divjun
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    I agree with shelden 🙂

    #33394
    Gingerone
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    Thanks I’m being positive and I will win her back. We were ment to be together.

    #33400
    Gingerone
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    @divjun what is your opinion on my situation?? Do u think with time apart, she might forget the unhappy feelings. When I seen her the other day. We were laughing and joking and she even gave me the ‘look’. I know it will be a hard road but I know I can win her back. We were good together. She said I was her soul mate. We had a great 5 years. I need to show her ive changed. I want her back in my like and I know with hard work I can get this.

    How are u @divjun?

    #33417
    divjun
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    I am reading your this thread and a previous one where you described your whole situation.
    This is a typical break up in a long term relation.
    You just have to keep your head high and walk through it.
    You both WILL get back together because no one can forget such a long and beautiful relationship like that.
    You need to take this as a break where you both have to work on yourself so that this time it would be more healthy.
    I know its hard and kills one from inside but you gotta do this. Give her time and space and let her clear her head.
    You got this 🙂

    I am trying to be okay and better with each passing day. I am on day 10 of NC. Thanks for asking
    Here’s my story

    feeling hopeless and confused

    #33446
    Gingerone
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    Thank you so much for your support.

    Good you stay strong, has he tried to contact you during your no contact stage? Do u want him back in your life? You should only take him back if he changes!! I hope things work out for u. U seem like a nice person!

    #33447
    divjun
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    Yes he tried contacting me. Last he contacted me was yesterday (day 9)
    But not in a way i want.
    And yes i love him and want to spend the rest of my life with him but he has changed alot. He seems to be an emotionless person who doesn’t care about anyone, not even me.!!

    #33466
    Gingerone
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    Is that who you really want to be with? If he’s changed into an emotional less person why has this happend. Hopefully he’ll get his act together and realise how special you are.
    I’m fighting tooth and nail to get my girl back. I realise how wrong I was, and I’m changing aspects of my life because I need to change them!

    #33469
    divjun
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    He changed after our previous break up.
    I hope he too realises like you did and doing so much to make it work next time. But i guess not everyone is that lucky..

    Anyhow, you are on the right track and keep up your hard work:)

    #33494
    Gingerone
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    Thank you! I plan on working hard to get what I want. I’m working on mind and body.

    I hope things work out for u, keep us posted best of luck.

    #33543
    divjun
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    Yeah.. sure.. good luck:)

    #33803
    ellie96
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    She obviously does love you. The thing is, when she contacts you do not answer. Right away she will wonder “why is he not talking to me?”. Stick to strict no contact! I know it’ll be hard, but look at it as you’re doing each other a favor! Trust me, you will be making the right decision! After that, THEN show her you changed.

    Answer mine?

    Why is he doing this?

    #33878
    Gingerone
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    I miss her so much. I miss her smile, I miss talking to her. This no contact is hard

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