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True she would get depressed a lot, she used to think of her past and get upset about the fact she was bullied at school and had no friends. I always tried to comfort her. Recently she started to see a physiatrist about it. I encouraged her to talk to some one. Now I’m thinking it might have worked against me
If she was bullied she was probably a lot more fragile underneath than she ever let on even to you.
People who have been bullied must be treated like very delicate flowers. Flowers who often attack as a form of defence
I was never bullied, but have worked with a lot of people who have been. They are very very fragile delicate people, in very tough armour.
Yes she was very emotional and would take things I said too serious. She would always feel rejected and said I was the only one that cared. Her father left her when she was only young so she’s always felt rejected. I would try to make her feel good about herself all the time. She always said I was her rock.
I’m glad I met u, u have good advice. And talk sense. How are u feeling with your situation now?Right now I am just waiting. I think it is for the best to let him sort his head out, and to give enough time for him to remember how annoying his wife is! It is hard, but chatting on here helps 🙂
Good I’m sure everything will come good for u. U seem a good person. And good ppl deserve good things.
It is hard, but some how comforting knowing there’s ppl out there hurting from a breakup too. It’s good that I found this site it’s been very helpful. And I value the advice I get. So thank you.
Where have you been @RustyRed? How’s things going man?
Hey dude been busy with moving out of our old flat. Ye ive been ok trying my hardest to put a brave face on it. Still hurting a bit. Yesterday was hard moving out. Had to drop some of her stuff off at her mums. Wow that was emotional her mum was so upset that we had broken up. She started crying and I had to hug her to control her. She was very upset. Was on the phone with my ex last night arranging final bit and pices about our old flat. but she was asking me about my night. Me and a friend went out on mon and got drunk. She was asking who we met etc! Got to go round and see her tonight with the rest of her stuff. Then I start no contact, not sure how this will all go. But got a busy day today cleaning the old flat then setting up my new place. So enough to keep me busy!
How about u ?
What do u guys think? I’m struggling today, I’m in the flat cleaning and all I can think about is her. I need to see her tonight to drop off her stuff and I’m scared I’ll be an emotional wreck. Also I can’t get how her mum was last night out of my head. I wish I could turn back time. I miss her so much 🙁
Be strong and remember whatever you are going through if for a better tomorrow. if you are not ready to meet her in person then drop her things off at her new place without meeting her.
Dont think so much about her or her mom its only going to mess up with your head and feelings. Its better to let it go and heal yourself first.I know but there nothing more I want than to get her back. I’m sure there might be a small chance.
Be strong and have faith! You gotta believe in yourself! Show her that you can live without her! That way she will realize she made the mistake! Don’t be desperate and needy! You gotta stay strong! Did you contact that guy I told you about?
Ye I never got a reply.
I’m trying to stay strong, I just wish I could win her over. When I see her tonight I’ll have more of an idea how she’s feeling it will be the first time we have seen each other for nearly two weeks. I’m going to play it cool though.
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