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So that’s it I dropped of her stuff. It wasn’t that bad, I made her laugh as we joked and talked. She even gave me ‘that’ look for a bit. She kept asking if I would be ok. I was cool & confident, didn’t break down. She even said To contact her if I needed. Then we had a long hug and I said my goodbye. I’m suprised by the way it went. Now for no contact for 30+ days and hopefully she will start to miss me. I plan on sending my letter after 30 days and see where it takes us.
Feeling a lot more positive about the situation now,after 30+ days who know what might happen. She obiasly still cares a great deal. I won’t give up hope just yet!
Give it time. Me and my ex are talking on a daily basis. We are going out to dinner on Friday night. (It’s not a date.) trust me man. Start working out and change. She will notice. The only problem is she is hanging out with abother guy. But he has no job, no car and still lives at home with mommy and daddy. That won’t last and I know it.
Ye I will she needs space at the moment. I’ll give her a month then contact her again. She where we go. I think I can win her round. It will be hard but I know I can. I have to belive I can.
@ryan6611 that won’t last will it surlry. How long have u been split for?
@ryan6611 how did you get to the point where you and your ex on a daily basis? Right now my ex seems to be in a rebound (or about to be in one).
It’s a waiting game but that’s what needs to happen. I’m hopeing that she will see the change in me. I want to win her heart back so bad.
My story. But she left on Dec. 10th. Didn’t see her till two weeks after we broke up.
When she saw me for the first time I lost 39 lbs In a month. I was calm and positive. She did tell me that she loves me and cares about me. You just have to be better than the rebound. It’s going to take time Rusty. You have to get her trust back first. Then work on from there. It sucks but it is worth the time. Try to be her “friend” if you know what I mean. Plus MJ don’t worry about the rebound it will make you go nuts and make you do something you will regret. It’s going to take Time…..
Its definitely making me go nuts hahaha. We have mutual friends so I hear about her sometimes
Hi RustyRed. That all sounds positive. Now she’s seen you looking cool and confident, give her time to think about everything and wonder what you are up to. Be strong!
My ex suggested we meet to talk things over and see if there is a way forward! I am meeting this afternoon. Wish me luck!
@LAGIRL
HOW MUCH TIME HAS PASSED SINCE YOU BROKE UP?
and yeah.. good luck for the meeting:)Cheers @ryan6611. Thanks for the advice. I know I have to play the waiting game. I have a lot planned in the next week or two going to a few gigs sunset sons, Noel Gallagher, dj yoda and meeting up with friends. All of which she should be attending but now I’ll be going with others. I’ll show her that I can enjoy myself and be happy. Hopefully she will start to rethink.
Thanks for all the advice guys would be lost without this site
Honestly @RustyRed don’t say “hope” be confident about it! It’s either you will or you won’t get her back! You can’t doubt yourself! Plus everyone has different paths man! You got to find what works best for you my friend! Yes people may tell you to move on and that’s “there’s plenty of fish in the sea” but that’s all bs! There’s only that one special fish that’s you claimed as yours! You will never get that type of love again! You gotta pursue it! Make her realized that you are her home!
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