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I’m glad that you feel better 🙂
I know what you mean. My friends seem a bit tired from hearing about it as well lol. It helps when you have other people that are going through the same thing and can understand your situation better. This forum and the people here helped me a lot. Thank you as well! I’m here for you if you need any help or anything 🙂Thanks @oshi your a great help. I’m still thinking about it but determined to not let it get to me. What will be will be.
I’ve got to keep in mind how far I’ve come personally. I’ve lost over 2 1/2 stone training 5/6 times a week and changed my diet for the better. That must count for something. Long road to go though 🙂
How are u today?
That’s a great way of thinking! And you’re right. What meant to happen will happen.
You are working on yourself to get better and that’s really good! Focus on yourself and eventually things will change. Whether you get back together or move forward with your life. It won’t matter anymore because you feel complete and happy with yourself. Remember that you’ve tried your best and made great progress and that’s what really matters.I’m okay, trying not to think too much about it. Have exams coming up. So I need to focus on that and do my best 🙂
I’m having a really hard time focusing on my studies right now.
I know that I have to be patient and stay positive, but I can’t stop thinking about it. Next month is his birthday, and I’ve really wanted to celebrate it together with him. I keep having these scenarios in my head of him asking me to hangout on this day or inviting me together with his friends to celebrate but I guess in reality it wouldn’t happen. Why would he choose to be with ME on this day? On the other hand he keeps calling ME right after work and this late. But sometimes I feel like he’s doing it because he “has to” in order to show his side of this “friendship”. I guess I’m just feeling bad right now because I realized that it’s been 4 month since the breakup and I’m not seeing any chance for us to come back together.@oshi it’s hard I know, try and stay positive hopefully things will work out for u. Remember like you told me, it’s about being happy within yourself.
I’m meeting up with the x tonight, no idea how it’s going to go! I’m very nervous about it.
I’m not sure if I’m late, but good luck with your meeting! Just try to have fun tonight and take it easy, be cool about it! I’m keeping my fingers crossed for you! 😉
I’m meeting up with my ex next week. Feeling a bit nervous, but trying to remain positive 🙂
Thanks guess we’re both at the same point here, same emotions, same hopes.
It’s not anything big just poping round to see her for a bit. That’s why I’m nervous, if it was something more maybe I would feel better about it. But at least I can gage her and see how she acts. Esspecily after what she said in her last txt’s. But she’s seemed to cool it down since then. Even though she did contact me when she was on holiday.
Thanks for the advice. I’ll try and play it cool. Hopefully things will go well . I’ll get back to u after
@oshi she blew me off she said she had something to do! My mind is racing now. What if she’s seeing someone else 🙁
She’s the one that initiated the meeting in the first place, then she would probably initiate it again. Try not to worry too much about it, you don’t know the real reason so you shouldn’t assume things that didn’t happen. It doesn’t seem like she’s seeing anyone. She shares with you her thoughts, that she’s thinking and dreaming about you but she doesn’t have to do it. Maybe she got cold feet, or maybe something really came up. Try to stay calm and wait a little while. She would probably ask you again. hopefully things will go well.
Cheers @oshi last night was a moment of weakness. Feeling better today. I Need to remember ive come a long way since our breakup and I’m on the right path. Just need to continue on that path and stay positive.
Thanks for being there to let me unload 🙂
Hi @oshi how are you?
Well we met up yesterday for a bit. We didn’t do anything but sit in the car and talk. She told me about her holiday and how she was getting on. I did the same, she seemed intrested in my life. We laughed and joked and got on well. The chemistry was still there, when she got into the car she had a big smile on her face and she couldn’t contain it. When I asked her why she kept smiling she said it was because it was strange to see me, I could be wrong but it was a kind of smile like she was happy, happy to see me. she even became a bit touchy feely at one point. She lent over for the hug and we said our good bye’s.
Before I got home she txt to say thank you for dropping something off for her. That’s what our main reason to meet up was. I replied sayin it was no trouble and I hope she has a nice weekend and that we’ll talk soon. That was my kind of end convo txtShe then txt a while after to say she hopes I’m ok and that she was worried about me.
Now maybe I did something stupid in my reply. But I said
What you worried for?
I’m fine obviously I wish things were different but there not. I’m getting on with it, got a goal I’m focused, I’m getting my shit together. I’m feeling good. Once I get these results out of the way it will be ok ?. No need to worry seriously. XI know this was probebly daft but I had to give her some kind of indication I was missing her.
After I sent this txt she never replied. So it either scared her off or it got her thinking. Maybe it planted a seed.
What do u think @oshi ? Bad move sending that txt. I would like your opinion on this. After last night’s meeting I’m kinda feeling good but who knows.
She may have gotten busy after you sent the text? Is she someone who is scared to admit her feelings? I’ve done something like that before, whether bad or good, but it gets better (if bad). You probably have more luck than I do, Just stay positive
@Gingerone I think you did great. It seems like she cares and still has feelings for you, but trying to deny it or hide it just like my ex does lol. I know exactly what you mean by her smile. She obviously felt something when she saw you but she won’t admit it or aware to it currently. My ex was the same. He smiled at me a lot while staring at my face for a few seconds. It just doesn’t feel the same as of when a friend does it. You just have this thinking that moment in your mind that it must mean something and that you are not imagining anything. And it’s probably true. However it won’t help us if they are hiding or denying their feelings. They have to decide to act based on their feelings and I guess only time would help. I think you didn’t do anything wrong sending this text, it’s sounds okay. It probably got her thinking. And I hope you’re feeling okay.
@oshi ye I’m ok thanks. Just bit confused. I just don’t understand why she wouldn’t reply to my final txt. I’m on the right path I know it, just need to stay focused and hopefully things will fall into place.
I’ve booked a holiday with friends over my birthday to Thailand in sept. So planing our 3 week trip should help me keep busy. That along with my fitness sessions It should keep my mind off our situation.
Do u think I should leave it now for a bit or try to contact her next week to test the water?Any way how are you ? How’s your situation ? I hope your doing well
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