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@Gingerone I thought it was going great as well! But you shouldn’t start overthinking things just yet. It might be that she’s still confused about a relationship again, maybe she’s backing off because your relatinship feels a little rushed for her. I don’t think she would have hangout with you this much and spend time with you when she’s not interested in something more with you, it just doesn’t make sense. She could be doing it because she needs the support or comfort as I said before but still it just doesn’t seem like it by her behavior towards you. I think the best thing you can do to know for sure how she feels is if you stay strong, and try to be less availabe to her. Distance yourself a little and see how she reacts, as ty10 said if she keeps coming back then there is something more there.
Hi everyone, I haven’t been on in a while. Things are going great, even better than before. We’re back together and were very happy. We’ve booked a holiday together, going away soon. We work out together. It’s as if we needed the time apart to realise what was important and that was us!
So know one should lose hope. I wish u all well!!!
@oshi how are you ?Hey Gingerone.
I’m really happy for you! It looks great! 🙂
You’re right, sometimes people just need that time apart to realize how much they love each other and what’s truly important for them. It makes me glad knowing things worked out for you! ^_^I’m good, focusing on my new job and making friends 🙂
I even met someone. I’m a little embarrassed but I need an opinion from a guy’s perspective. We met a few days ago, We’ve been talking for a few hours on facebook. He even asked me out for next week. But the problem is that he doesn’t initiate. Last time I was the one to initiate and the conversation just went from there. He showed interest in me and the conversation went well. I’m thinking that maybe he’s just shy but I’m not sure. Do you think I should wait for him to initiate? Or should I initiate again? It’s hard understanding guys sometimes hehe.From everything ive learned on my journey through all this is you have to trust your gut & and go for it. If u like him you should initiate you have nothing to lose, trust your gut. Only you know. Meet up see how things are between you both only then will u have a better understanding of it. Good luck. And thank you for all your help along the way. Let me know how u get on and if u need any advice I’ll be here!
You’re right! Thanks for your advice! 🙂
Have a good time together! I wish you the best! And if you need any advise with anything I’m here too ^_^
Can I just say how pleased I am for you @gingerone – Your story is one of the reasons I still pop onto here.
So how did it all sort itself out to you two getting back together?!
Hi guys well we’ve broke up again I’m heart broken I thought things were going well but she said she wasn’t happy. @oshi
Hey Gingerone! I haven’t been here for a long time..
I’m sorry to hear that things are not going well. I guess sometimes there are some things in life we just can’t change no matter how hard we try.
I think you need to keep moving forward with your life, regardless of getting together again or not. You learn from every relationship, and if your relationship is not good enough for her then maybe it’s best for you in the long run. Honestly after all this time, even when I’m fully aware of having feelings for him, I know that it’s not right for me to get into this relationship again in the future. I take it as a painful experience where I’ve learned a lot about myself and moved forward with my life.
I don’t really know what happened between you and her but maybe at this moment you should take it to figure out where you stand and what’s best for you. You should give yourself some time to focus on yourself and also give her some time to figure out what she really wants and feels about you.@gingerone,
I am really sorry to hear this, i understand how you feel. It truly is just hard to forget the past and the negatives.
This time should be a bit easier as you would have tried.
Its time to move on now, i know you do not want to here this. you know you’re a good person but just spent some time with your self.
Regard
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