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OMG :))its ok you can talk to her again.its not your problem that she got jealous with your family.
You love my words because i love yours too. We’re family here.
Haha! Yeah i’ll try to talk tonger but if she really is not interested anymore then ita okay. What can i do? My family asked me for something urgent ofcourse i can’t turn them down. Haha! Still plenty of fish in the sea. Lol. Cant imagine that just a month ago i cant imagine dating. But now im getting aggressive out there again. Haha
I’m sure she will talk to you.you did the right thing.Daniel i’m so happy for you,you are doing great champ.can you believe how far all of us have come?i’m really proud of our group.
i’m sorry if i did hurt you i want you to know that it was not on purpose.english is not my native language indeed but i studied english literature in college so i know what i’m saying.you’re hurt i know me too a lot because i’m just in my 5 day no contact and you already saw my story.i know that everyone needs support that’s why we all come here to post our stories.but we need opinions too opinions from people who says that we’re right and those who said that something is wrong too.i understand that you don’t want to deal with me because i don’t know you well as you said but you don’t know me well and you did say your opinion on my story too and i accepted it.i don’t know what i did wrong but you’re also hurting me with your words if you don’t know.and i don’t know why you’r saying that to me while i did nothing but comenting just like everyone is doing here so why you’r talking to me like i did something wrong is it because i’m not your friend or because i don’t know you or your story or just because i said something that you don’t wanna hear.anyway if my words hurt you i’m sorry again.
Az,
Yep! Are group is far from where we are before. It’s even funny to think what we were. I guess we looked so miserable before crying, whining and wanting our exes back who in the end was not worth all the pain and love. HAHAHA!Hey guys, please avoid conflict. Im just suggesting to just shrug it off coz everyone here needs support and it would be additional burden if you start hating on each other. Peace!
meriem,
You tried to wrote a summary of your story and i really tried to make you feel better.because i thought you have said what you though was enough to conclude.
But you never heard my full story and i didn’t mean to make you sad.its not like i don’t want to hear the truth.i know the truth and i’m fine with that.but i don’t like someone to judge my story without even knowing it.and other guys here have told me the truth weather sad or not so many times and i am even happy about it.i’m sorry if i said something i shouldn’t have but i’m done with even a smallest thing that makes me sad.and we don’t need to communicate if we don’t understand each other.i did nothing wrong i want to support her too maybe i said something that made her angry but she could just say that i was wrong why she said those hurtful things to me.yes english is not my native language is that makes may opinion less valuable than the others or what i don’t get it why she brought up this subjet .i like that girl she is the only one who comented on my story i saw her helping other people and when i knew she has a problem too i liked her even more.and i swear that i just wanted to help but she replied so harshly like it was my intention to hurt her even after i said sorry and explained.but it’s okey i’m not angry at her and i understand her.i’m sorry again a.z
I don’t hate anyone,i really wanted her to feel happy with her relationship.she is freaking me out.you tell her i’m not good in controlling my anger.its my fault.but i don’t really want to continue this.i don’t even know her.why would she want to continue this and convince me that i was wrong.i know exactly what i did.and the reasons were acceptable for me.i don’t regret it.i don’t understand what she is trying to tell me.
Meriem,
Its cool now. Ita time to stop. It was not her intention also to hurt you. She accepted your apology so dont try to emphasize what Az did wrong are made you feel awful. She also acknowledged that she might have offended you. Its okay now. This mini argument is over. Its just a misunderstanding.i don’t hate you too in fact i like you’r personality and you’r attitude.i was not and i’m not triying to convince you that you’re wrong in fact i didn’t say that you’r wrong even in my first comment.i said my opinion you said you’r wrong and you don’t know me and my story i said okey i’m sorry and if you remember i said a generale idea if someone loves you he will do everything to be with you everyone knows that and everyone says that i wasn’t judging you or your story in fact i said that to make you happy and to make you feel better and also to let you know that you deserve better from what i read.but you attacked me i don’t know why.i understand you but you don’t understand me but that’s okey.i’m sorry again for freaking you out.bye
a.z & meriem,
We are here to talk about our problems. We are here to support each other. We are not here to argue with each other. I respect both of your points and believe that you both are right.
At least in my case, I should confess that I have made lots of mistakes that have made reconciliation a lot difficult. I don’t say that I had tough times as compared to some of you here.
Our point is not to highlight that we made mistakes, we all know that we did. Our point is to find the next step since we are already in this situation.
meriem, first few days are really harsh. a.z. has been through it. Reading her stories really touched me. Now she is a lot better. I believe you are new and you really have rough days now. I will be glad to read your story and see if I can comment. a.z. has also been doing a great job spending a lot of energy reading and commenting on others stories. I admire that
meriem, I also welcome you to comment here on your thoughts. Your English is awesome! I wish all the best for you.
Daniel,
It’s great to see you doing well! I like the fact that you have started dating now! If she’s not okay, lets see how’s the next! Your post up there made me happy!
Best wishes to everyone!
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