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Right now i feel pretty good. I called him yesterday and he didnt pick up. Then he sent me a text later saying “Hey you! 🙂 Just with xxx (name of friend). Will call later! 🙂 ” So i didnt reply to that text but just waited.. Then after some hours he called back and thanks to @clear I was in a pretty good mood. So i didnt pick up and waited 6 min to call back and i seemed super happy on the the phone and stuff… While we were talking i got a skype message and he heard it and got curious. Then i told him i had to go and goodnight. This got him all strange ( seemed like he was shocked that i was ending the conversation) ) – strange in a good way – and he was like “oooh uhmmmm okay then lets speak on friday!! ” So i gpt him interested now and he wants to speak so yayyyyy! :)) This got me in such a good mood!! Haha and now he just forwarded me an email soooo im not sure if i should reply or not.. He knows i check my email ALLLLLL the time…
thats good cassie your doing great. 🙂 im glad you ended the call and made him curious. lol. your doing very well. 🙂 keep it up and keep us posted. 🙂
Thanks @ aamls and @sarahhlezy !!! 🙂
Sooo I replied his email and I wasnt expecting a response but he actually replied it! Anyways, then I didnt call him on friday, like he suggested, nor did he call me but I am pretty sure that he was expecting me to contact him. It didnt bother me so much because I know he really was expecting me to be the one to call. Anyways, this morning (saturday) I got a text from him which I definitely was not expecting so I was pretty happy with that! So generally things are going good. We havent spoken about anything in particular, just general every day stuff but at least he is contacting me now so I guess that’s good right? 🙂 At least I am not as depressed these days because I feel like he is interested a bit..
Hey @cassie, you’re doing great. Keep him interested and you dis the righg thing by not calling him first. Take your time to reply to emails and texts. Happy for you 🙂
So a little update –
On monday evening/midnight i sent him a text saying “Hey you 🙂 Just wanted to say goodnight – I hope you’ve had a good day. Will call on wednesday”. The next morning he texted me back saying “Hey 🙂 Thanks, hope you slept well. Sounds great 🙂 Look what I just made *he sent a pic of a carved pumpkin” .. I never replied that text because I only saw the picture today. Anyways, then he texts me at around noon saying “Hey you. I’m hanging with a friend today so will call you tonight.Looking forward to speaking to you 🙂 ” This text made me kinda upset so I just texted back “We can just speak another day 🙂 ” … I wasnt expecting him to even reply but then after 10 minutes he calls me and we talk for 40 minutes aaaaand we made plans to see each other on sunday!! 😀 Yayyyyyy!! We just talked about general everyday stuff and i told him i missed him and he said he also misses me. I asked him whether he knew if he’d decided anything about new years and he said that if we started seeing each other again then he’d like to go but if not then he doesnt think its a good idea but that we’ll have to see about it. So at least he is still considering if we should get back together or not. And now im seeing him on sunday and i am soooooo excited about it! 🙂 Do you have any suggestions about what i can do with him?cassie Im so excited for you. seems like your right on track. 😀 kee it up. 🙂 what about lunch and going to the movies or something like mini gulf. what is he into?
Sooo I’ve waited for him to text me about what we should do tomorrow because I didnt want to push him to do something date-ish. He texted me earlier saying something like “Hey. How about we eat together tomorrow? 🙂 Thinking some spanish take out.. If you’d like, I’ll pick that up and you? :)” and I just replied “Sounds great! What time about? :)” and we arranged the details. So i’m going to his place for dinner.. I am sooooooo excited but also REALLY nervous! Wish me luck!!! I really hope i dont do something to fuck it up..
GOOD LUCK!!!! GO FOR IT!!! Look your best, don’t overthink it, remember we’re all rooting for you!! Report back to us how it goes. DONT talk about relationship or getting back or anything like that. Just keep it fun, casual, keep a hint of mystery about yourself if you can. I know, i know, easier said than done. But I’m sooooo excited for you, and also soooo jealous, cause I’d do anything to have dinner with my ex on Sunday 🙁
omg Im so happy for you. 🙂 you’ll be fine. 🙂 hopefully you’ll be back together in no time. 🙂 I wish I had the same luck but I see whats keeping me from it. ugh anyways yes look your best and have a good time. cant wait to hear all about it. 🙂
So my ex picked me up as we had arranged and things were good. We ate, cleaned up and then we watched some episodes of our favorite series. I was a bit upset while we were watching the first few episodes as he wasnt very touchy feely with me. He did take my foot and massage it and lay a bit on me but nothing much. I got a bit upset and asked him if something was wrong or if i was annoying him and he said to me that he was really glad that i was there and he wanted me to stay and that i hadnt done a single thing all night to annoy him etc I told him i was missing him and he said he missed me as well. After this he got way nicer and we were sitting quite close to one another and we were holding hands. He drove me home a little after midnight and we talked about how we’d go to the movies on the 19th of november and he said “maybe we can see each other once before that” and i said “yeah, maybe this weekend or the next” and he said “yeah, we’ll see”. When he dropped me off he got out of the car to hug me goodbye and said it was nice to see me. On a side note, he still has the roses I have him after the breakup hung up to dry and one of the orchids we had together that he’d given me for my birthday a few years back (it almost died and he begged me to throw i away) he is now doing everything to keep it alive and he treats it like his baby.
I know this all probably sounds pretty positive but I am so so so depressed today. I feel like he wasnt showing me very much affection yet he got a lot nicer after i said something about it so maybe he is just a typical guy and cant concentrate on me and watching tv at the same time?
Should I contact him in a few days time or do NC?
cassie everything sounds great dont be depressed. I would give anything to be in your situation, anything. I really miss my husband. dont do no contact. if you wanna contact him then do so. your doing great. 🙂 cassie what do you think of my situation, im going crazy. Im so depressed like you wouldnt believe. :'( keep it up your doing great. 🙂
Okay so I shouldnt wait for him to contact me? Is it bad that we didnt get more intimate??? I’m really worried about that. I just remembered that he also said something like “Come with your foot and ill give you a foot massage” and i was like “no thats alright hehe” and he said “noo come on :)” but we just ended up sitting really close to one another and now i actually regret not letting him give me the foot massage.
I think you should wait a little bit for him to contact you. I think it might be fine for you to contact him, but I don’t think it would hurt to wait a bit. I wouldn’t worry about turning down the foot massage. I know you are a little disappointed, but if this continues to go well, then you will have other chances. This is very encouraging!! Yay!!
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