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cassie your situation is fine, I know you feel down but its because you want him back so bad, relax everything takes time and your heading into the right direction. for what your saying you may be getting him back really soon, so dont be depressed. 🙂 im excited for you and would love to be y=in your shoes. :'( keep it up your doing great. 🙂 also if you wanna contact him I think its safe to do so but if you wanna wait for him to contact you then yes do so. keep it up. 🙂
okay so i called him and we talked shortly. He said that he was having a bad day coz of troubles at work and he was tired etc. Were talking about how he had just ordered some speaker equipment and didnt know where to place them and he said something like “… and our nightstands are too small…” and i said something like how i had a good time on sunday and he said so did he even though i didnt think he did and i just said ahhh you missunderstood me in a sweet voice. Then he said if we could talk another day when he was feeling better and thanks for calling, i feel a better now. Annnnd now i’m really depressed… 🙁 Is it really bad?
In your situation I will no wait to much. Yes, I will let to pass some time to can think honestly why I am in this situation and also to give him time to miss me. But, I will chose the honesty , I will talk with him exactly what I feel and that it was a bad idea to break up. After 4 years together you know why you want him back. Go for it, don’t let go if that make you happy . Anyway you have to talk with him about his feelings to. It is not worth to fight to have him back if he is not happy with the idea.
Thanks for your reply 🙂 I have told him that I am not trying to be his friend but that I want us to get back together and he just says that he hopes that we can get back together. So I feel as though I have made it very clear to him what I want but I just don’t think he is ready right now – it is as though something is holding him back and I have no idea what it is. He told me last week that if we start seeing each other again then he’d like to go away with me for new years but still doesnt know so it is as though he is open to the idea of us getting back together at least.
I think tere is still a chance since he’s so unsure about the break up. Jus don’t contact him for a while until your happy with yourself. I’ve been in this spot before so I know how it feels. Mind reading my story and giving me some advice?
Thanks 🙂 But since he suggested that we see each other maybe once before our next date then I don’t really want to start NC up but I am going to try and not contact him before after weekend.
So he texted me this afternoon 🙂 Yayyy!! Nothing special in particular but at least he contacted me !
I just texted my ex asking if he wanted to do something this weekend and he said that he was busy would we could plan something next weekend so i’m seeing him next saturday 🙂 Kinda bummed out that he didnt have time this weekend but i am happy that i’m seeing him next.. I told him he got the honor to make plans so i’m looking forward to seeing what he comes up with.
Good luck with the meeting next weekend, Cassie, and just try to keep in mind the advice that Kevin gives here. I know your situation is different because you’ve already met him, but you can still implement some of the things Kevin says. At any rate don’t sweat it too much, just enjoy the meeting, but you’ve already made it clear you want to get back with him so I’m not sure how you can pretend otherwise now! Best to just be yourself, be honest, but avoid having a “relationship” conversation with him unless he himself brings it up. At least that would be my advice.
Thanks for the replies 🙂
He texted me on sunday asking if I could help order some vitamins for him and so we texted a little back and forth. I’m seeing him on saturday but I don’t know what we will be doing so i’m kinda nervous to see what he comes up with. I hope something like dinner and a movie so if he texts me to go for lunch i’ll be pretty disappointed but i’m crossing my fingers. He knows that I want a relationship so I highly doubt he said to hang out saturday unless he is open to the idea of us getting back together in the future.
I dont know if I should text him tomorrow or give him a call just asking whats up or if I should wait until he texts me the plans for saturday. What do you guys think?
nice im so happy and excited for you. 🙂 keep it up. 🙂 I think you should wait for him to contact you. 🙂 keep us posted. 🙂
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