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I just feel like she’s constantly talking to this other guy and probably eventually going to be with him and has just been waiting an appropriate amount of time before she starts to see him again. I can’t deal with these thoughts, if she was already dating him I would be sad but at least I would know, I feel like I’m slowly watching her slip away from me while I can’t do anything. I wish she would just talk to me some more, I want to help her, I still care for her. I don’t know how long I can keep this up for.
I’m sorry it’s been a while. I’ve been busy with friends all weekend.
I’m sorry things didn’t turn out well. I’m glad you’re not giving up yet. You’re stronger than I was. I can see how much you care for her even after all this. I’m not really sure what advice I can give you. Im not really where you are. I’m stuck moving on from my ex. In the end I think you need to do the things that will make you happy. You don’t deserve to be left in sorrow over the breakup. I don’t think you really deserve to be treated like this. Your ex doesn’t deserve you to be honest. You’re fighting to get her back and she doesn’t seem to care. You’re a great guy. I know you love her but you deserve someone who will show you the same love. It’s gotta go both ways in a relationship. Yeah starting overwitg someone new is hard but it might make you more happy in the long run. Or your ex will finally see how great you are and you can start to build a new relationship with her again. Either way, you deserve to be happy. Keep fighting for it. One day you’ll get it.
Lately I’ve felt kinda empty. I have my friends and I have a decent life but I just don’t feel happy. There’s not really much I can do about my ex. She just doesn’t seem to care about me anymore. Just the way all this ended hurt. I’m usually a guy who can move past things quickly. I tend to not let things phase me too much but this.. idk it’s almost too much. I want to cry about it all. Just break down and cry for an hour. But I can’t.. I try to but nothing comes. I feel like it might make me feel better to let it out but nothing comes out. I also find myself more angry about it all. The way she left me alone and broken like this. Makes me feel like she never loved me at all. It makes me feel like I wasn’t good enough. It’s just all around a bad feeling that’s left inside. I try to do things that make me happy and have fun but I just come back to this feeling. It’s keeping me up tonight. I just don’t really know anymore. Things just seem so complicated. I hate that I love her. There’s nothing I can do. I just wish this pain would go away so I can be happy. It’s just such an empty pain. I feel alone.
Everything else is okay. I’ve just got the moments that I have to get through. These memories that won’t go away. The ones that make me feel sad all over. It’ll pass but ik it’ll come back. Idk.. I’m just trying to get through this. They say it takes half the relationship to get over someone. If that’s true it’s going to be a long year.. I hope someday soon something happens that makes me happy or takes my mind off all this. It’s really weighing down on me lately.
You’ve just gotta try to keep your head up. Things get better in the end. Any new updates on your end? Hope things have been going better for you.
Hi Carey,
I’ve felt completely terrible this last week. I feel like I ruined everything by asking her to dinner on her birthday and now she doesn’t want to talk to me at all. I’m so scared I’m going to lose her forever.
I sent her a message on Thursday basically asking to explain if there was anything I could do to make her feel better and if there was anything I could do to help her to get to the point where she is ready to be friends with me. She hasn’t responded to that. I don’t know what to do. That was on Thursday last week a day after her birthday. The other guys birthday was on Friday and I’m worried they’ve started seeing each other or something after that. I am so sick of dealing with all this emotionally and mentally. It’s really taking its toll on me if I’m honest. I’ve had a lot of thoughts of ending it all lately. Not because she isn’t with me but becAuse I just feel terrible about myself.
I feel like this is the lowest point in my life right now. I don’t know if I should keep trying or just move on. I’m so angry with her half the time, I’m sad the other half the time. Everyone tells me I should move on from her and find somebody else. I don’t really want to find anyone else, I felt comfortable with her and somebody new is scary. I have to do all that work to get on the same level as I was at with her and I really don’t want to do that. I don’t know what is wrong with me.
I’ve been watching some motivational videos that say there’s no easy path to success and failure is necessary if you want to get something, in many walks of life. I’ve had some winds and some losses with her lately. Right now I’m on a heavy losing streak and it’s taking its toll. Maybe I should stop playing the game but I honestly think if I can get some wins back under my belt I can get with her again. I just don’t know how to do that. Maybe I back off for a few days and give her some space. She did say she isn’t ready to be friends yet. I wish for the life of me I knew why. She said not yet to the second coffee. It’s hard but I need to hold onto that. I need to remember that smile she gave me when we met up for coffee originally. God I miss her.
I’m not as strong as you are Carey, I feel weak lately, I feel if she starts dating him I won’t be able to make it through it. She said she wanted to be single for a while, I just hope that when she’s ready for a relationship I can be the one she wants to be with. I really do. I want what is best for her, but I believe I am a good option for her as well.
I know what you mean about feeling empty. It’s sorta where I’m at as well. I’m alone with a lot of my friends trying to help me which is great but they all tell me to just move on from her, but I feel I am actually close to getting her back, I have done all the work, we had a great coffee date, but since then she’s kinda shut me out again, and I don’t know what to do now moving forward.
Hope your finals are going well buddy
I feel I need some motivation or reason or logic to drive me forward to say that, yes what she is doing is okay. But I can’t really find it, I don’t understand why she would talk to me and then just suddenly stop. Maybe I came on too strong, maybe she started seeing somebody else. I suppose it doesn’t really matter, I just don’t know what to do next. Maybe I give her some time, maybe I reach out to her in a few days I don’t know, I just wish she’d talk to me.
Maybe I should just try to move on and try to get past this but I feel like I’m really close and I’ve worked hard for this I just don’t understand what she is doing now. I need some help or advice or inspirational words to keep going idk.
I’ve been having a rough past few days, had the last 2 days off work and been thinking about her a lot. I still feel like I ruined my entire life by checking her texts, she doesn’t trust me anymore. I ruined our relationship with my insecurity, I ruined the trust we had built up over two years, we were great together and I ruined that, I ruined the place I was living, I hurt my best friend in the world, and now she doesn’t want anything to do with me. I feel like I ruined my entire life by checking, I made a mistake, the biggest mistake of my life and I don’t know how to deal with it.
I feel like I deserve another chance with her, but ever since j did that she won’t talk to me, she won’t really open up to me, she wouldn’t even really kiss me, she told me she loved me a few times afterward, I don’t know if she really meant that. It just hurts so much sometimes. It helps me to write my feelings down somewhere though so thank you for listening at least Carey. How do I deal with this?
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