Boards Reconciliation Is it too late for NC?

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  • #109421
    leidy1000
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    Every couple argue. From time to time.

    #109422
    mariahbalenciaga
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    Idk just gonna see what happens

    #109423
    leidy1000
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    I think you should accept things won’t work out if you give it another try.

    We did the learnings in No contact our exes learned nothing and didn’t change at all.

    #109427
    mariahbalenciaga
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    A long one haha.

    Okay, so. I spoke to him today. He wanted my Facebook and i refused. I asked him why he only messages me when he wants something. He said he has someone now, I told him to ask them for help. He insulted me and said some vile things. I kept it cool and said I am out of his life now. He asked me for money “as we won’t speak again cos he has someone” I told him that’s fine as I’m dating now, but if that’s what he wants. He said maybe in the future. But can he lend money until next time “as a friend” I didn’t reply. His number has been deleted.

    Idk why but I feel good.

    #109428
    mariahbalenciaga
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    He also accused me of cheating on him and saying I’d slept with people. He’s deranged.

    #109430
    leidy1000
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    Wow thats crazy. You guys ended up deleting each other. Im actually glad he has someone else. That means you have green lights to fall in love with your date. You ex is asking you for money maybe to take out the new girl on dates. Uff glad you dodged that bullet.

    #109431
    mariahbalenciaga
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    The money was for his daughter, I am gonna end up happier. Just dunno if he’ll ever message me or even be nice to me again. I’m trying not to think about it. I have a date on Friday

    #109432
    leidy1000
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    I doubt he will seek a relationship with you.
    Im sorry but I didn’t know he had a daughter. My ex boyfriend brother also has a daughter. He has an on and off relationship with his baby mother. They break up and he usually gets a new girl. For some reason ends up back with his daughter mom. Do you have children?
    All of my exes have returned only wanting a sexual friends with benefit relation with me. I have dignity so i say no, and they never talk to me again. My ex did the same thing thinking I was down with it, but Im not. Then he backed out of it trying to say I suggested it. Im surprised he even asked how was i doing? Lol

    #109433
    mariahbalenciaga
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    They’re idiots! He’s not with his kids mum they don’t get on and are with other people lol

    #109435
    leidy1000
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    We can just wish them the best. The future holds many good things for us.

    #109438
    mariahbalenciaga
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    You’re so nice and honestly so appreciative of your support. We’ll be happier without them babe xx

    #109439
    leidy1000
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    Yeah Im actually thinking of staying friends with my ex. It wouldn’t bother me if he found someone else. He reached out again. I don’t hope to reconcile anymore so I’m ok. Just not close friends.

    I want to enjoy college life. I want to stay single. Life will bring someone special later on. Im ready for you life.

    I wish you the best. I hope you can handle the temporary pain. With time it will ease then fade away. Enjoy your life. And lots of luck this friday on your date.

    #109442
    mariahbalenciaga
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    I feel a lot better. Obviously it hurts abit but he’s only been with her a month so I can’t see it lasting. I’m sure once it falls to pieces he’ll be annoying me again.

    How’re you doing x

    #109444
    leidy1000
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    Oh yeah its more than likely to fail. Once the honeymoon phase it’s over. Forget it he will be reaching out again.

    Me Im alittle confused but Im not going to worry about it. My ex has been throwing the game. He asked when did I go see the grave. And so many times then I took long to answer and he deleted the msg but asked again. I said whenever I have time I go. Then he started complimenting me of how good i am. Then again went to baby conversation. I asked when did he go? He said he hasn’t. I said well you oficially abandoned her. He said to never say that again. Anyways long story short he said he thinks about her from the moment he wakes up until he goes to sleep, and that sometimes he cries. That he is very sad. I said go visit her grave and those feelings will leave you for a month. That same thing happens to me when I don’t visit her grave. We continued talking and he came up with those memories texts. Saying I ate this and I thought of you. At the end he ignored my goodnight text. Wtf I decided to stay friends but hes out of the relief phase and its now throwing all hes emotions to me.

    We will see what the time brings for us. Don’t be sad. Just enjoy your life and enjoy the moments. Have fun on your date and forget about your ex. He won’t move on, but you can.

    #109449
    mariahbalenciaga
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    Do you think he’ll contact me again?

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