Boards Reconciliation Is it too late for NC?

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  • #109404
    mariahbalenciaga
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    I have a date next week so hopefully it’ll be good!

    How’re you?

    #109405
    leidy1000
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    I hope so too. And i am ok. Just contacted him to tell him to tell his friends to stop calling me.

    #109406
    mariahbalenciaga
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    Wtffff….what do his friends say to you?

    #109407
    leidy1000
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    I just called his friend back and he apologized for calling me.

    My ex replied hi how are you? I didnt reply so he said another how are you?. Blocking him back in a couple of days. However I will ignore both messages.

    #109408
    leidy1000
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    Omg this man wont leave me alone he again texted saying why don’t I reply?

    #109409
    mariahbalenciaga
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    They fucking broke up with us like why do they want to talk so much! That’s the same text I got “please reply” babe we dated the same guy lool!

    #109410
    leidy1000
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    We probably did he keeps begging for my reply now he send another why text. He needs to get blocked but i want to make him feel ignored.
    I’m sure our exes want no relationship with us. They only want an ego boost.

    #109411
    mariahbalenciaga
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    Do you think my guy is messaging me to use me or talk?

    I think ur ex doesn’t no what he wants and is now making sure you don’t move on “just incase”

    #109412
    mariahbalenciaga
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    Please just let me use it i have nothin it wont cost u anything n will help so much i cant post anything I know ur ghosting it just please reply

    That’s the message.

    #109414
    leidy1000
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    Yup thats my ex he doesn’t want to let me move on. Last night he continue the how are you text. I answered one with Im good thank you, then he took his time like trying to play the waiting game and I deleted the msg. He said why did you deleted I then replied Im fine. Thats it he asked me how is my job my family my life, I didn’t reply back. I don’t have the confusion excuse for my ex. He knows he couldn’t handle having me through tough times. He decided and it’s done. He never apologized so I don’t see us together anymore. Trust me I love him, but our love had to end and it’s acceptance time. Life moves on and Im not trying to force myself to be with anyone else. Im focusing on my college now.

    About your ex. He doesn’t seem to move on neither. He doesn’t want to talk like that. He just needs a favor. I don’t think he will leave you alone until you do it.

    #109415
    mariahbalenciaga
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    Exactly it they just won’t move on! Bet you’re so excited for college right?

    #109416
    leidy1000
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    Yes I just went to orientation this Thursday. I am registered for the same class as my sister. So its alot of fun.

    Yes I can say my ex hasn’t moved on and is not trying. Last time I spoke to him which was July. He hasn’t been with anyone else. Told me somethings are very hard to forget and he won’t try to forget. I only said time will help you forget.

    #109417
    mariahbalenciaga
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    Well he said he had met someone but I don’t believe him. He wouldn’t be pestering me 24/7 if he had. Idk if ignoring him is enough

    #109419
    leidy1000
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    He met someone but didn’t fall in love with that someone. Do you have an idea of why you guys broke up?

    I believe my ex couldn’t handle our financial issues after the death of our baby. He loss his job because he was getting in late taking care of me and my pregnancy. He made sure everyday the baby would listen to the nurses and stay put for the NST. We went through so much and thats when his mother started planting ideas in his mind. She got him a job close to her house. Which of course he left me with my pain alone and went to live with her. He said he needed to do it for us that that was temporary. I gave him an ultimatum to move back in april or we break up for good. He thought of it for a week and one night he told me that he wouldn’t keep trying to stay together for us to move on with our life. However he was the best until that day. He took so much care of me. They say you meet the real people when you are in a hospital. He showed me his heart to just break everything off after.

    #109420
    mariahbalenciaga
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    We argued a lot tbh

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