Boards Reconciliation Is it too late for NC?

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  • #109453
    leidy1000
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    Yes I do think so. He moved to the next relationship too soon. That will most likely fail. Even if he doesn’t say it he must be comparing her to you and one day he will also compare his feelings.

    I just think it’s a rebound. If he loved you, his heart will take care of the rest. Are you still going on your date?

    #109456
    mariahbalenciaga
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    Yes on Friday! Can’t wsit. I hope he does get back in touch kind of. We weren’t together long

    #109458
    leidy1000
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    You don’t need to be together long to love someone. Goodluck on your date. Have fun.

    #109462
    mariahbalenciaga
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    Thank you so much. I’m gonna enjoy it.

    #109463
    mariahbalenciaga
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    I really miss him today. I dunno why. I wish I could just get him out my head. I think I have to just keep looking forward. Who knows what the future has in store for me.

    I just feel like most guys want one thing and I’m never gonna be loved.

    #109464
    leidy1000
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    I understand you. It will be hard to stop missing your ex. Your only solution is to keep your mind busy. Sometimes your sad thoughts come at night or when you are tired. Its ok to cry to release some feelings. It sucks to recently break up. I went through all of that. I still do sometimes.

    Sometimes we miss our exes so much but we accept that they are gone and might never return. Our lives are not over when they are gone. Matter of fact we learn to live without them. Later on we will barely remember anything. It can be good or bad, because after a couple of months your ex forgets why he broke up with you and might return like he didn’t break your heart. Without an apology.

    That is something that Im afraid of. For example my situation. My ex put away the harsh feelings. He let go of the feelings that made him so mad about me. Now he thinks he can come to me like nothing happen. It’s a very hard situation. I want to do low contact but don’t know how to. My ex insists on keeping the conversation going after a goodbye.

    Just hang on. Do not contact him. Seek for your happiness. And the rest will come itself. Also be prepared for another situation like I have now. I hope your ex doesn’t comeback wanting money again.

    #109471
    mariahbalenciaga
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    Doesn your ex have feelings for you?
    I feel like he hates me, the stuff he called me, and I just don’t know how he could ever want to talk to me again

    I told him never to message me asking for money or favours again

    #109472
    leidy1000
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    He still iniating contact with me daily which makes me believe he misses my friendship. Anyways I decided to ignore his last text yesterday. If he thinks that by talking to me he will prevent me from meeting someone new, he made a mistake. I already planted a future in my head. Which doesn’t include him. He needs to apologize, and be clear if he wants to get back. I’m ready to keep going solo.

    Your ex is furious right now. He will forget later on. He will miss your company you will see.

    #109473
    mariahbalenciaga
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    Thank you. And I hope you’re okay babe.

    #109475
    mariahbalenciaga
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    Date went okay, we slept together which is really what I wanted.

    I do still miss him but hey ho

    #109476
    leidy1000
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    Whaat?? That sounds fun lol. Yeah you will miss him until one day you won’t.

    #109477
    mariahbalenciaga
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    It’s crazy. I dunno how I feel

    #109478
    leidy1000
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    Good or bad?

    #109479
    mariahbalenciaga
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    Weird, like, I feel weird for being with guys other than him. I know I want him back. But whether he will ever speak to me again is a mystery.

    How you feeling?

    #109480
    leidy1000
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    Don’t worry you won’t feel weird forever. I bet your ex doesn’t feel like that with his new girl. You have to do the samething. Stop feeling guilty for being with anybody else. Your ex doesn’t deserve it.

    Im feeling wonderful. My ex started texting this morning. I just stopped answering his last text. I don’t think like before. This guy doesn’t even deserve a goodnight from me. My goal is to push him away and see if he goes. I dont ignore him much because when you ignore someone they chase you more. I’m just not showing interest anymore. Plus Im running away from the make up question.

    Your ex will return when you least expect it. They all return for something.

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