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It just hurt me kind of, and after him saying he misses me and us flirting the other day
What makes me feel crappier is that almost everyone around me is getting engaged…I remember when him and I were talking about getting our own house. And we would’ve if we had the money. Sometimes I wish I never let my depression get out of hand and we’d still be together. I’ll never find anyone who is as weird as me again, I don’t want to find anyone else. I honestly feel that we are meant to be, we’re soulmates. I mean, we had a connection like no other. We clicked and it just felt so amazing. It felt so right.
We were deeply in love with other, we needed each other (he said he needed me first, I thought it was adorable). But we do.
I’ve just put so much work and effort into getting myself back together and him back. I know he still wants me deep down. I just don’t know what to do anymore…
So he has snapchatted me again this morning…I didn’t reply. But I’m so stuck. I felt like I was getting so close and now I feel like Im far from getting him back. Advice and encouragement please!
Is it good thing or not? Why u didnt reply?
He just sent me a snapchat saying he got his uniform for his job, I’m still kind of upset about yesterday.
But I’m choosing to not talk to not talk to him for awhile. I want him to come to me, but I don’t entirely know how to him completely want me again. I just don’t know what to do now and I need advice and encouragement
I Dont understand. He already come to u. With sharing some news to u. He come to u first again. At least reply him until three text is good enough. The way u do it right now it seems like u missed the opportunity in front of u. Believe me. Most of women here need to hear and share some news from their ex bf. Rather than their ex shares with some other girls. I know u worked so hard but it takes time. Everything cant simply get it in one click. It needs step and one step. From what i understand about that time u didnt hang our with and he is being hot and cold, perhaps u need to check is there something wrong from your words that lead him to misunderstand? U said he was the one who want to hang out with u all day right? But u said to him that u guys no need to hang out all day right? Perhaps it will be thing that he a bit hurt. Because of that. I think its fine if u guys want to hang it all day. Its an opportunity that he was the one who want to hang out with u all day. If my ex bf asked me to hang out with him all day, i dont mind. I just go with the flow. But im not going to be so needy or rush. Just be myself. Be friends and if its getting close, its fine. Just go with the flow dear. And please, if he give u the opportunity, dont mess it. U still can contact him But keep it simple but fun. Just support him. He needs ur attention.
Talk to him. Why be upset?
I know you are eager and you got your hopes up. But remain positive and it will happen.
If you dont talk to him for a while, it will come off like a tantrum.
Reconciliation takes time. Go with the flow. Try to reschedule. If it happens again, have a conversation with him about where he stands.
He could be testing you to see if youve changed.
Wouldn’t you be kind of upset if someone planned something with you and then says no? I did that to my best friend and now I know how she felt. And part of why I didn’t reply to his snapchat was because I was half asleep, I won’t text him. I’d rather snapchat him right now. And he’s the one who cancelled
Of course i will be sad especially if he is the one who cancelled it but there must be reason of all this why he cancelled. He wont simply cancelled it. There must be some excuses. And i think u guys will meet soon since he still give u respond. Dont show him that u sad even tho u definately sad. U want to create new relationship here either special or just a friend. Im sure u dont want him to look sad because of it.
I guess I don’t grasp some of this. Like I want us to continue our relationship, yes some of it will be new, mainly because I let myself go and couldn’t handle anything. I’m just stuck. But I will reply to his snapchat, I guess I think that everything is supposed to come together fast
@LAbound what do you mean about having a convo with him about where he stands?
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