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December 23, 2014 at 12:23 pm #20652
LAbound
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Idk. He might have had something to do or he is hesitant. Just play it cool.
December 23, 2014 at 12:27 pm #20654
Confused_Girl
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What about the hot/ cold thing? What do I do about that?
December 23, 2014 at 12:56 pm #20658
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I just told him I understand and he said good. What about this?
December 23, 2014 at 1:03 pm #20660
LAbound
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I think you should try to start a casual conversation in a bit. Wait a few hrs. Make the convo interesting and dont flirt. Why do you feel its hot n cold behavior?
December 23, 2014 at 1:05 pm #20662
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Because he was flirty and stuff Sunday and we planned on hanging out and he said something came up. After him saying good, I want to say we can some other time. Am I looking too much into what he just said?
December 23, 2014 at 1:31 pm #20666
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@LAbound how do you think my situation is now?

I really need some advice, encouragement and assurance right now
December 23, 2014 at 2:16 pm #20669
LAbound
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Sometimes there are really circumstances that cause plans to be cancelled. If you exude negativity, it will only become greater and greater. Just stay calm. Dont text him that. It comes off as needy and desperate. Just flow with it. In a few hours just hit him up woth something funny or witty. Lighthearted and non flirty.
December 23, 2014 at 2:19 pm #20670
LAbound
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I dont think cancelling is necessarily a bad sign. He couldve had diarrhea. It was a bad restroom day!

Seriously though,

He was consistent the past couple of weeks, right? It could just be he wants to really consider things. So keep hope.
December 23, 2014 at 2:23 pm #20671
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I don’t want to come off desperate. I just thought since he told me he missed me and something my second chance that all my work was finally coming together and I was getting him back

And yes, the past couple weeks he has snapchatted me daily
December 23, 2014 at 2:23 pm #20672
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Do you think I’m over thinking it all?
December 23, 2014 at 2:37 pm #20675
LAbound
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Maybe a bit. If he was doing the hot n cold thing, youd think he wouldve went cold at least a couple times by now. Just relax and take a hot bubble bath with some lavender salt. (Lol look at me) And get into a positive state. Heck, if he asked what you are up to, im sure a good response for any man is “Im taking a hot bubble bath” lol is that pervy? Sorry.
December 23, 2014 at 2:40 pm #20676
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He has one time, And if I told him that, he’s probably ask to join lol
December 23, 2014 at 2:42 pm #20678
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I guess I’m trying to rush things? I could use some advice and encouragement
December 23, 2014 at 2:46 pm #20679
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My advice is to not contact him for a few hours. Then make lighthearted conversation where you dont flirt unless he does. It has to be his idea to get back together. Just stay focused on being positive and dont make deadly mistakes.

Youve got this. He has been consistent for a while, and Im sure that he wouldve been upfront if he wasnt ready. At least I hope.
December 23, 2014 at 2:52 pm #20680
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Maybe he wasn’t ready to see me? I was surprised he started flirting with me. I was surprised he said he misses me
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