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Aw, yeah. Follow your gut, and just take things slow. I think that’s my problem too, I’m impatient! I’m anxious and want to be together now. I should be happy that I got to kiss him and sleep with him again… though it just isn’t as meaningful when I don’t know how he’s feeling, yah know? It was very good, but too soon. I felt a little disconnected and weird about it, to be honest. Like it was just sex. Really, really good sex, haha.
And yes, your ex is most likely just confused. How old is he? You’re very young. I’m 28 and feel young! My ex is the same age as me, and I feel is having a mid-twenties crisis of sorts. I think things were getting serious and it scared him, and he started questioning whether he wanted to be with me forever… and he really hasn’t had a serious relationship before. He’s been in love with another girl, but he was still trying to sleep with me at that time. So I think may have panicked. He’s always had a problem with commitment, so it makes sense… I just thought he had changed and was all in this time.
Thank you so so much! Basically, I need to just be cool and confident and see where things lead. I really appreciating you telling me this. My stupid girl brain wants to say things because I’m looking for reassurance, but I know he won’t give me any right now. So it’s better to be silent and let him come to me.
What about when we hang out… about the sex situation? Haha. I’m conflicted whether or not it’s a good idea.
Also, what’s your idea on making ex’s jealous? I’ve been seeing this guy, not seriously, or even sexually, just as friends really. But my ex kinda thinks we’re more than that since he found out he’s supposed to come to my family xmas dinner… he said he felt like an asshole sleeping with me if I was dating the other guy. I don’t want him to think i’m moving on, though, at the same time, maybe it’ll make him want me more? I don’t know.
My ex turned 22 early this month. Only a 3 year difference 🙂 which isn’t bad. I can’t date people my age. It’s hard lol I like guys like 2 or 3 years older than me. You and I have something in common. Impatience. It’s so hard!! I hate it, I hate waiting, like I’m ready for us to be together again and do all the cute shit we’d do
Yeah, dating in general is hard. We’re really not meant to be in monogomous relationships, but sigh… I could never be in an open relationship, nope.
I texted my ex a bit ago, just thanking him for sushi and chats, and saying I had a good night. I told him I hoped work wasn’t too hard on him today.
He responded pretty much right away! He said he had a good night too, and a sound sleep. and then proceeded to tell me about work and told me a bit about the tv show we are watching.
I think this is positive!!! He didn’t have to say anything about how he slept. Maybe i’m reading too far into that, haha, but it was nice to hear, because I slept beside him…
So excited for the next week to come! Even if we don’t meet up alone, i’ll be at two parties he’s attending too. Though, his bff is in town so he’ll be distracted by him.
But yes, I hate waiting too confused_girl, it’s not fairrrr.
Have you heard from your ex today at all? Or texted him?If you could, do you think you could look at my other posts and kind of evaluate them and tell me what you think? Specially the ones of everything that has happened lately
I know all I need to do right now, is just wait for to come to me more. @maebe what’s your opinion on all of my situation?
Update: when we were going to hang out, he just told me he went to the movies with his rebound. And that when he wanted to hang out, he just wanted sex. I want to give up. This isn’t him. I thought I was finally getting him back I thought my hard work was actually doing something. I just want to give it all up. Why is he being like this again? someone help
I feel that it’s time to say goodbye to you all. I won’t be on here much since I’m stopping all contact with my ex for awhile. And it was nice being on here. What happened has completely drained me. I don’t know if I have much faith in this anymore. I have some, but not much.
You all know I worked extremely hard to get myself back together and I’m sure some are proud of it. And I’m sure you were happy when you kept hearing progress from me. I know deep down he still cares about us and want us. But I can’t continue right now. So I just wanted to thank all the people that have helped me along the way. Some of you gave me hope and made me try harder, and I made a lot of progress with him until yesterday.
So, goodbye for now. And Merry Christmas to you all.
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