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Dont know where to go from here. HELP. KEVIN? A.Z.?

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  • December 18, 2014 at 3:56 pm #19759
    Confused_Girl
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    @LAbound what do you mean by end? lol

    December 18, 2014 at 7:11 pm #19791
    LAbound
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    Lol I meant your side of things. My bad.

    December 18, 2014 at 7:28 pm #19794
    Confused_Girl
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    Oh lol, It’s alright. I tend to leave out important words sometimes when I text

    December 18, 2014 at 7:34 pm #19796
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    I’m just unsure because i do want to give him the chance to miss me and i also want to give him the space he asked for to explore, but I’m nervous if i disappear he will think I’m uninterested and just move on

    December 18, 2014 at 7:48 pm #19800
    LAbound
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    @atea,

    Maybe you false friendship the hell out of him and go out and live young wild and free. I say that because it will show him how desirable you are. It will also keep you from resenting his exploration if you two get back together. Just some thoughts…

    December 18, 2014 at 8:03 pm #19804
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    I like this advice @LAbound 🙂

    I just wish it was as easy as some suggest when they say go out and have fun and you will soon forget about her. I’ve been trying and it ain’t worked yet! lol

    December 18, 2014 at 8:18 pm #19806
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    I’m having an awful day. Got some info that it’s very likely ex is pursuing someone he met while we were together. And I gotta me honest, she beats me in all categories.

    I feel like its doomed now. I still have that gut feeling saying we will be together again – but rationally it is looking very grim. Maybe hanging onto hope does me more harm than good. I feel like my life as I knew it has completely fallen apart. This really demotivated me:(
    I just want that gut feeling to go away now and to stop feeling. maybe it’s game over:(

    December 18, 2014 at 8:46 pm #19815
    atea1234
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    such a tough decision!! i actually am feeling a little stronger with NC these days so i think I’m going to try to go until it feels right to message him..right now I’m not dying to say anything..maybe i will wish him a happy new year when the time comes..

    December 19, 2014 at 12:02 am #19849
    LAbound
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    @aphrodite,

    Keep your head up. 1. Wait till it actually happens. 2. That kind of lame lack of confidence will get you no where. 3. Self improvement! 4. It’s not over till its over.

    December 19, 2014 at 12:07 am #19850
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    @sparky,

    If the bond is strong, you’ll always miss and think about them. I just think that if our exes are exploring, we should take the opportunity to do the same. That way, there’s no resentment or jealousy from that. Its like HEY! ITS OK. ME TOO!

    December 19, 2014 at 5:19 am #19881
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    @LAbound i agree! no hurt in trying to explore others as well while they are. maybe we will be pleasantly surprised with what we find!

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